my littel boy got hurt..please help..

[meeshue]

Hi, all it has been a long time since I have replied to anything on YT. I just sat here and read the 12 page post, which took about an hour lol. I must say that everyone here is totally AWSOME!!!!!!!!!! If anything ever happened to my babby this is the ONLY place I would come. You guys gave it your best shot! And Tahoe's mom should be grateful for all the concern for Tahoe. I will be checking to see how this all turns out. meeshue

[CO_yorkie_momma]

Originally Posted by red98vett

The member(s) who called to check on his condition did everyone a favor - the original posts seemed to be all about looking for financial help....Verifying there was a sick puppy protects people on this site who may have sent money without verifying it was legit. How would everyone feel if people just blindly sent in money and there was no sick dog ?

When someone signs up & their 1st posts are about lack of money, we HAVE to question it....it's too easy to get taken advantage of. If someone made a call to verify there really is a sick dog it doesn't make them the bad guy ...tahoe2005 was the one who posted the info. If she really wanted to keep that info private it shouldn't have been on the site.

oh...and just FYI for anyone who does want to donate - ALWAYS Send it directly to the vet.

If no one cared - there would be NO posts on this thread......sorry for the long post and I hope Tahoe is going to be ok.....

I agree Villette 100%. I am so confused about this whole situation and what it is exactly Tahoes mom is wanting and why she posted in the first place. She wanted advice and has gotten defensive with everyone who has offered it. She needed money for surgery and cant afford it but when people give her options on how to come up with the money she gets mad and says stop telling her what to do and sticking their nose in her business. One minute the dog is paralyzed and the next it is moving around and she thinks it will get better on its own. People have stayed up until 1:00 in the morning trying to get her to respond so they can help her because they have dealt with this situation and she doesnt even have the decency to talk to them and see what they can do to help her. Something just isnt adding up here and if it were me I would be jumping on anything anyone could offer and being so grateful that people I didnt even know cared enough to help me. The fact that the very people that she has gotten so angry and nasty with are STILL HERE trying to help her is amazing to me. It says what awesome and caring people they truely are. I just hope this doesnt make them shy away from people needing help in the future for fear they will get the same treatment.

[JeanieK]

Originally Posted by tahoe2005

ok ...here is the deal...i been taking care of that dog myself from the day he got hurt..he was limp for 4 days and now he is able to move his legs and keeps his head up when i pick him up...that is a huge improvement ...i think my vet knows best what condition he is in...if she is telling me there is a chance he will get better i belive that...if she tells me hi is not in pain i belive it...so what is the problem here..why people are trying to tell me what to do...i asked for advice not for anyone to call me vet and now make me feel bad that if i dont have the money i should give him up...stop posting this ...this is what you would do and its not what iam doing..how do you know yorkie rescue will raise that much money to help him???...maybe they will not and then they will put him to sleep...and on top of this to raise $5000 takes time so maybe i will be able to do it myself...dont you think... so if you want to help just pray for him dont tell me what is best for him...i know what best for him..and my vet knows that as well...iam getting tired of this now...it looks like people think they have rights to get in to my private stuff...to all of you who prays for Tahoe...thanks again..will keep you posted on how he is doing...Kasia

I understand you being upset, and it had to be horrible to see him totally limp for 4 days. You gotta do what you gotta do, and I believe I also would wait it out, because as you said there is no guarantee with surgery either.

Please don't be angry with the other people for being suspicious and investigating. These are very caring people on here and it's because they are so caring and eager to help, that many of them have been taken by scams in the past..

You are a new member, and when a new member starts posting about things like this it looks very suspicious. That is sad, but a few bad people have made it look bad for everyone.

The call to your vet actually helped you, it verified that what you were saying was true.

We are trying to put ourselves in your situation to understand your decisions, and you should also try to put yourself in ours to understand our reactions.

I'm sorry that this has added to your stress. We all wish the best for you and little Tahoe.
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[celstu1]

I hope & pray that this is not a scam and that poor baby Tahoe can get the care and medical attention he desperately needs!

[daisy mae06]

Originally Posted by JeanieK

I understand you being upset, and it had to be horrible to see him totally limp for 4 days. You gotta do what you gotta do, and I believe I also would wait it out, because as you said there is no guarantee with surgery either.

Please don't be angry with the other people for being suspicious and investigating. These are very caring people on here and it's because they are so caring and eager to help, that many of them have been taken by scams in the past..

You are a new member, and when a new member starts posting about things like this it looks very suspicious. That is sad, but a few bad people have made it look bad for everyone.

The call to your vet actually helped you, it verified that what you were saying was true.

We are trying to put ourselves in your situation to understand your decisions, and you should also try to put yourself in ours to understand our reactions.

I'm sorry that this has added to your stress. We all wish the best for you and little Tahoe.
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Great post Jeanie you always know just what to say.

[pepe mint]

Originally Posted by daisy mae06

Great post Jeanie you always know just what to say.

[daisy mae06]

Originally Posted by celstu1

I hope & pray that this is not a scam and that poor baby Tahoe can get the care and medical attention he desperately needs!

:It has been varified it's not a scam nor has she even asked for $$$ just prayers and advice.

[tahoe2005]

I Never Asked For Money...just Read..i Asked For Advice

[JeanieK]

Originally Posted by liquidgirl

Earlier in your posts you said you didn't have a garage, then you said you just bought a house. Which one is it? You have a yard, right? Have a yard sale. )

Think she was making a joke when she said she didn't have a garage. Like she was saying I don't have a garage to sell.

[celstu1]

Originally Posted by daisy mae06

:It has been varified it's not a scam nor has she even asked for $$$ just prayers and advice.

Im glad to hear that! I didn't think she ever asked for money! I didn't read through it all before I posted that... Im glad to know its not a scam, but Im sad to know that poor Tahoe is in that condition! Poor baby!

good luck tahoe's mommy! My prayers are with you & your family!!!

[ellie81]

Ytalkers here are just trying to help, and they have given many many good ideas and suggestions. They feel for you and your yorkie. I hope you can decide on what's best for you and Tahoe; just make sure that as time goes by while you decide Tahoe is getting better for real, but not getting even worse. Just think it through... I don't think just waiting to see if he gets better is the way to go... Who know, he may get better... but what if this does not happen?

[JeanieK]

Originally Posted by red98vett

ps...as I said earlier ...if someone wants to help Tahoe - all they have to do is call the vet and ask where/how to send a donation....but my advise is (after learning the hard way) send it directly to them - they (the vet) can give you a receipt and you know for sure it went to help pay for his care.

That is great advice V. I never thought of doing that.

[daisy mae06]

Originally Posted by tahoe2005

I Never Asked For Money...just Read..i Asked For Advice

Hi hun how is Tahoe today?

Yes I know this to betrue. look at her first post.
first time anyone talked about $$$$ help it was another yter not you I Am still keeping him in my prayers and will till he is all healed.

[tahoe2005]

Im sorry if i i hurt anybody....im stressed to the point that i dont know what to do anymore...my vet tells me something diffrent and people here telling me something diffrent...nobody give me a chance to make the decision...i went to diffrent vet bc i neede to see specialist...i will give you name and number for the specialist ...you could speak to her...just let me know before you do it...to do mri and other bunch of test to really find out what happend to him cost $1850...i have the invoice and i can fax it to anyone who need it....i dont like the way some of you treat me...why did i take him to diffrent vets? bc i had to...i was trying to hel my puppy not hurt him more...iam sad that nobody asked me what i want to do about...people just making decision for me...thats why i got mad...one person on this site who workes for vet told everyone that he is not in life treat. situation...what alse do you want me to do?...im hurt more then you imagine and by making me to look like mad and nasty women dont make it better

[daisy mae06]

Originally Posted by Piccolo's mom

How much is the surgery ? Maybe we can help.

this is the first post that started the donate debate. Tahoes mom never asked this is her first post that states she has not asked for money.....

Posted by tahoes MOM well the first thing i know is someone writing to everyone ..why this person dont talk...i got like just like you or anybody on this site...i wanted to thank all of you who is praying for Tahoe and keeps him in there mind...for those who made me looki like a scam please dont bother writing to me anymore...in healthy mind did i ever ask for money??? i just asked for advice...maybe some of you had the same problem and know what to do...i would never make my dogs sick to get money..iam honest and hard working person and just wanted to have someone to talk to...iam off to work now i will let you all know how Tahoe is by the end of a day....thanks


If you go back and read Every post you will see she only asked for advice and prayers.