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jeanief · 11-08-2006, 08:34 AM

I feel so bad for you ! What a terrible thing to go through. You did everything you could and it's not your fault at all. Many people do not understand the deep love we have for our pets. They are not just dogs ! If it were me I would not get another pup from him. Parvo can live at a place for a long time, from what I have been told. I'm betting all of his dogs and pups have been exposed to parvo and wouldn't want you to have to go through this again. Hugs to you and your mom.

qingleng · 11-08-2006, 11:04 PM

thanks for all the advice.....

well, till today i can't get hold the breeder...... aiys...

Chelsey · 11-09-2006, 01:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by qingleng

thanks for all the advice.....

well, till today i can't get hold the breeder...... aiys...

Is there any way you can go to her house? Don't give up.

Good luck.

midnightmist · 11-09-2006, 05:52 AM

Just picked up on your thread and I am tears too.Please dont think you were a bad mum as someone who loved Tara so much could never be bad.She was so lucky to have someone who loved her so much in her short life.I will be thinking about you,it will get better.It takes a long time and we never forget them.You will be in my prayers.
Hugs and kisses,
Sheila and Ellie

daisysis · 11-09-2006, 02:34 PM

Some times getting another pet helps with the hurt...you are in my thoughta and prayers

qingleng · 11-10-2006, 05:23 AM

today.... i went to the breeder house, and no one is at home, will try my luck again... hopefully will catch hold of him

well.... my mum did ask me to get another dog but my heart still ache for tara... she is only gone for a week... time flies... days without her was so lonely... my house was so quiet...

i stayed in a double storey terrace house, if tara were here we usually will gather around in the family hall and have fun together with tara... now... 7pm sharp me and my mum will be in our bedroom... there's no longer a lively and happy chirpy voice in the evening... everything turns to gray and dead....

sometimes... it's such a miracle that the little babies can make a big differents in our life.... like tara... even it's only 3 weeks... but those 3 weeks we spend was a quality time together... previously i wasn't a morning person at all... but with tara here... everything change... the focus was all on her... she will get everything from the best... i have to make sure i get up early to feed her properly and clean her up and most importantly to play with her before i go to work... or else she will play stuck up with me... thou i thought it was cute but i prefer her to be a good dog.. so i always make sure she gets lots of love by all of us and she will a darling angel to us... in the times when she was with us... she never make a fuss with us at all... 100% obedient puppy...

aiy.... really miss her... now i only could share the feeling a had with her... and i really miss her deeply

i'm happy for those who have healthy babies and believe me they make a different in our lifes... just like a little magic or gift given from god.... so tressure them... especially yorkies... smart babies

Pautau422 · 11-10-2006, 09:39 AM

I am so sorrry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

nvnvgirl · 11-10-2006, 10:02 AM

First off, let me say how very very sorry I am for your loss. I really do know how you feel...I lost my parrot after almost 20 yrs (they live for up to 100) due to a stupid accident and then what amounts to neglect on the part of the vet hospital. I will never ever get over losing my baby. BUT, at the risk of sounding flip, nothing will bring your baby back to you. I could have sued the person who caused the accident, and the vet...but what good, really would that do me? My constant companion is gone and nothing will bring him back. What you have to know, is that you loved your baby and that you gave it a good life while it was here. Accidents and illnesses happen and it's not anyone's fault a lot of the time. Know that your puppy knew love from you and felt secure in that. We can't know EVERYTHING and as far as I'm concerned, veterinary practice is just THAT....PRACTICE. It's very difficult sometimes to know WHAT to do and when a lot of people have financial constraints too, it makes it hard to determine without going to huge expense, and even then, possibly losing the animal.

We can always blame ourselves for these things; and second guess everything; "why didn't I.....(fill in the blank)" or "why did I....(fill in the blank)", but the reality is, that most of us do everything we can to give our companions the best that we can, and it doesn't do any good to blame anyone. It's a good thing to learn from these bad experiences and go on. Hopefully from this you will learn that you need to check out your breeder thoroughly, check out their other puppies and talk to previous clients, and you'll know that these little guys need immediate vet care (even if it turns out to be nothing, it's always better to be safe than sorry) when they're sick or not eating or their elimination isn't right. If you love dogs like you say you do, take the time you need to mourn your Tara, and keep her memory alive, but give another wonderful dog a good and loving home when you can. I think Tara was blessed to have spent the short amount of time she had here, with you and your love. Again, my sincere condolences.

YORKIEMOM2B2006 · 11-10-2006, 10:24 AM

I am so sorry for your loss

qingleng · 11-10-2006, 04:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nvnvgirl

First off, let me say how very very sorry I am for your loss. I really do know how you feel...I lost my parrot after almost 20 yrs (they live for up to 100) due to a stupid accident and then what amounts to neglect on the part of the vet hospital. I will never ever get over losing my baby. BUT, at the risk of sounding flip, nothing will bring your baby back to you. I could have sued the person who caused the accident, and the vet...but what good, really would that do me? My constant companion is gone and nothing will bring him back. What you have to know, is that you loved your baby and that you gave it a good life while it was here. Accidents and illnesses happen and it's not anyone's fault a lot of the time. Know that your puppy knew love from you and felt secure in that. We can't know EVERYTHING and as far as I'm concerned, veterinary practice is just THAT....PRACTICE. It's very difficult sometimes to know WHAT to do and when a lot of people have financial constraints too, it makes it hard to determine without going to huge expense, and even then, possibly losing the animal.

We can always blame ourselves for these things; and second guess everything; "why didn't I.....(fill in the blank)" or "why did I....(fill in the blank)", but the reality is, that most of us do everything we can to give our companions the best that we can, and it doesn't do any good to blame anyone. It's a good thing to learn from these bad experiences and go on. Hopefully from this you will learn that you need to check out your breeder thoroughly, check out their other puppies and talk to previous clients, and you'll know that these little guys need immediate vet care (even if it turns out to be nothing, it's always better to be safe than sorry) when they're sick or not eating or their elimination isn't right. If you love dogs like you say you do, take the time you need to mourn your Tara, and keep her memory alive, but give another wonderful dog a good and loving home when you can. I think Tara was blessed to have spent the short amount of time she had here, with you and your love. Again, my sincere condolences.

well............ maybe your're right there's nothing we could do to revive them back cuz they wont be able too, at 1st i'm not willing to talk to the breeder too..... cuz tara is gone means she is gone.... now it's not that we're blaming on the breeder, we just want him to talk to us nicely and tell us the situation, and how's other pups doing??? i'm not going to ask for a refund cuz the amount i paid is for tara only, yes i might get another pup, but it wont be with this breeder if he is so irresponsible, now it just that i wanna know is he willing to be a long term or a short term breeder with me, if he is gonna sells every puppy at this condition, dont u think it's unfair to rest of the client if were to buy from him again.

it's not a lesson we're going to give to him at least he should know wht's the business rules out in the world, if he wanna play dirty play it smart dont play with peoples feelings.........

this messege might sound a little harsh but i dont mean it, if u find it offended i am sorry...... it's just what i think i should do with the breeder at least.... it's just an explaination he should give.... every breeder should concern bout their pups not after selling it means it never belong to them....

~Kinzi~ · 11-10-2006, 06:04 PM

BIG hugs sweetie, from yet another yorkie baby lover...

I too have lost a puppy & I so know the loss & pain...
as was previously stated, it never ever goes away...
time just makes it easier to bare. Grieve your baby,
and when you are ready... find another yorkie baby that will
bring joy to your life. It REALLY does make the loss easier to bare.

It's a hard VERY hard time hunny...
but we are all given a test of strength from time to time...
try to be strong & look to love another lil baby when you are ready.

ButterflyYorkie · 11-10-2006, 10:28 PM

So very sorry for your loss.

MsGabby · 11-11-2006, 11:45 AM

So sorry for your loss. I lost a furbaby in May this year and still having difficulty getting over the loss. It helped some when we adopted two new puppies, a Yorkie (Gabby) and a Maltese, (Missy). Nothing like lots of love and kisses to heal your heart. By the way, our first pet was a Yorkie/Silky mix...He was a wonderful pet and lived to be 17 years old so the fact that she was that mix was not the problem. You need to hold your breeder accountable for selling you a sick puppy. I'm so sorry you had to go through this heartache. Prayers are with you.

11-08-2006, 11:04 PM	#62
qingleng Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: MALAYSIA Posts: 95	aiys thanks for all the advice..... well, till today i can't get hold the breeder...... aiys...

11-09-2006, 05:52 AM	#64
midnightmist Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Nottinghamshire-UK Posts: 474	Just picked up on your thread and I am tears too.Please dont think you were a bad mum as someone who loved Tara so much could never be bad.She was so lucky to have someone who loved her so much in her short life.I will be thinking about you,it will get better.It takes a long time and we never forget them.You will be in my prayers. Hugs and kisses, Sheila and Ellie __________________ midnightmist ELLIE http://www.myspace.com/yorkie_luvr TRIXIE

11-09-2006, 02:34 PM	#65
daisysis YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: michigan Posts: 1,074	Some times getting another pet helps with the hurt...you are in my thoughta and prayers __________________ Sissy..Lilly..Maggie..Lucy

11-10-2006, 05:23 AM	#66
qingleng Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: MALAYSIA Posts: 95	today.... i went to the breeder house, and no one is at home, will try my luck again... hopefully will catch hold of him well.... my mum did ask me to get another dog but my heart still ache for tara... she is only gone for a week... time flies... days without her was so lonely... my house was so quiet... i stayed in a double storey terrace house, if tara were here we usually will gather around in the family hall and have fun together with tara... now... 7pm sharp me and my mum will be in our bedroom... there's no longer a lively and happy chirpy voice in the evening... everything turns to gray and dead.... sometimes... it's such a miracle that the little babies can make a big differents in our life.... like tara... even it's only 3 weeks... but those 3 weeks we spend was a quality time together... previously i wasn't a morning person at all... but with tara here... everything change... the focus was all on her... she will get everything from the best... i have to make sure i get up early to feed her properly and clean her up and most importantly to play with her before i go to work... or else she will play stuck up with me... thou i thought it was cute but i prefer her to be a good dog.. so i always make sure she gets lots of love by all of us and she will a darling angel to us... in the times when she was with us... she never make a fuss with us at all... 100% obedient puppy... aiy.... really miss her... now i only could share the feeling a had with her... and i really miss her deeply i'm happy for those who have healthy babies and believe me they make a different in our lifes... just like a little magic or gift given from god.... so tressure them... especially yorkies... smart babies Last edited by qingleng; 11-10-2006 at 05:25 AM.

11-10-2006, 09:39 AM	#67
Pautau422 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: New Jersey Posts: 210	I am so sorrry for your loss. My prayers are with you. __________________ Have a Nice Day ! Paula & Tyler http://www.dogster.com/?373199 - tyler531@gmail.com

11-08-2006, 08:34 AM	#61
jeanief YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Minnesota Posts: 307	I feel so bad for you ! What a terrible thing to go through. You did everything you could and it's not your fault at all. Many people do not understand the deep love we have for our pets. They are not just dogs ! If it were me I would not get another pup from him. Parvo can live at a place for a long time, from what I have been told. I'm betting all of his dogs and pups have been exposed to parvo and wouldn't want you to have to go through this again. Hugs to you and your mom.

11-10-2006, 10:02 AM	#68
nvnvgirl Lovin' to the MAX!! Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Yorkieville Posts: 2,774	First off, let me say how very very sorry I am for your loss. I really do know how you feel...I lost my parrot after almost 20 yrs (they live for up to 100) due to a stupid accident and then what amounts to neglect on the part of the vet hospital. I will never ever get over losing my baby. BUT, at the risk of sounding flip, nothing will bring your baby back to you. I could have sued the person who caused the accident, and the vet...but what good, really would that do me? My constant companion is gone and nothing will bring him back. What you have to know, is that you loved your baby and that you gave it a good life while it was here. Accidents and illnesses happen and it's not anyone's fault a lot of the time. Know that your puppy knew love from you and felt secure in that. We can't know EVERYTHING and as far as I'm concerned, veterinary practice is just THAT....PRACTICE. It's very difficult sometimes to know WHAT to do and when a lot of people have financial constraints too, it makes it hard to determine without going to huge expense, and even then, possibly losing the animal. We can always blame ourselves for these things; and second guess everything; "why didn't I.....(fill in the blank)" or "why did I....(fill in the blank)", but the reality is, that most of us do everything we can to give our companions the best that we can, and it doesn't do any good to blame anyone. It's a good thing to learn from these bad experiences and go on. Hopefully from this you will learn that you need to check out your breeder thoroughly, check out their other puppies and talk to previous clients, and you'll know that these little guys need immediate vet care (even if it turns out to be nothing, it's always better to be safe than sorry) when they're sick or not eating or their elimination isn't right. If you love dogs like you say you do, take the time you need to mourn your Tara, and keep her memory alive, but give another wonderful dog a good and loving home when you can. I think Tara was blessed to have spent the short amount of time she had here, with you and your love. Again, my sincere condolences. __________________ Seana and Max and Madison too! Come visit me at: celebritydogwatcher.com

11-10-2006, 10:24 AM	#69
YORKIEMOM2B2006 Owned by 3 furbabies Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Reading, Pennsylvania Posts: 2,546	I am so sorry for your loss __________________ Elaine, mom to 2 Yorkies Peanut & Dixie

11-10-2006, 06:04 PM	#71
~Kinzi~ Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Lake Conroe, TX Posts: 56	BIG hugs sweetie, from yet another yorkie baby lover... I too have lost a puppy & I so know the loss & pain... as was previously stated, it never ever goes away... time just makes it easier to bare. Grieve your baby, and when you are ready... find another yorkie baby that will bring joy to your life. It REALLY does make the loss easier to bare. It's a hard VERY hard time hunny... but we are all given a test of strength from time to time... try to be strong & look to love another lil baby when you are ready. __________________ Luv'n my baby Kinzi

11-10-2006, 10:28 PM	#72
ButterflyYorkie YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: NC Posts: 743	So very sorry for your loss.

11-11-2006, 11:45 AM	#73
MsGabby Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Wake Forest, NC Posts: 22	So sorry for your loss. I lost a furbaby in May this year and still having difficulty getting over the loss. It helped some when we adopted two new puppies, a Yorkie (Gabby) and a Maltese, (Missy). Nothing like lots of love and kisses to heal your heart. By the way, our first pet was a Yorkie/Silky mix...He was a wonderful pet and lived to be 17 years old so the fact that she was that mix was not the problem. You need to hold your breeder accountable for selling you a sick puppy. I'm so sorry you had to go through this heartache. Prayers are with you.