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09-06-2006, 07:26 AM | #46 | |
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And another thing.. this is a peaceful forum where yorkie owners and admirers come to share stories and advice with each other. Your girlfriend came on here asking for advice from us. Don't come on here and bash us for giving her advice that she asked for. We don't appreciate your rudeness.
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09-06-2006, 07:37 AM | #47 |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Hesperia, CA
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| Well.................... To #1 Super Dad: Ok. Here's my two cents worth. Do I think you were wrong for not going and checking on the furkid?..........Yep. Do I think it was irresponsible of you to go out and drink? Yes, but, we've all done that. For anyone can say that they would NEVER do it, either hasn't been there/done that, or they're too young. Do I think you'll ever do it again? Nope. Do I think she should leave you over this? Hell no. The thing that gets me the most about some of these posts is that nobody has even mentioned the fact that at least you didn't lie about it!!! You could have lied to g/f, she'd never known it, she wouldn't be so upset, and you wouldn't have to defend yourself. I am in no way vindicating what you did, and I highly recommend that you NOT do it again. But at least nothing went wrong. Unless you didn't clean up the poop! But that's another thread!! I'm gonna get bashed for this, I know. But like I said. You didn't lie to her and that counts for something in my book!! Suz
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09-06-2006, 07:40 AM | #48 |
Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY
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| big deal he didnt lie,, so what, the fact is , he still did what he did and is defending himself... admit you were wrong and go on...period!!
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09-06-2006, 07:45 AM | #49 | |||
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09-06-2006, 07:57 AM | #50 |
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| like he said, we dont know him or even care to.. so why is he even on here TRING to defending himself, over what he did? His Girlfriend asked what he thought and we told her what we THOUGHT . NOT what to do, but THOUGHT!! Nothing more!!! If he only cared what the people he cared about, thinks of him...then why is he even on here? He dose not even know us, so why dose he even care what we think? |
09-06-2006, 08:02 AM | #51 |
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| well im not here to bash anyone nor did i mean to. if i did i apologize. i just came on here to defend myself from the bashing. i was only defending myself from the bashing. you are all right she did come on here asking advice, but remember what she asked and what she didnt. i also never said that it wasnt wrong. it was wrong, but i didnt think that she should have gotten so mad about it. i was only defending myself from the bashing. will i do it again no. especially now that i know how mad/sad it made her and how much it means to her. all i was doing initially was giving back the off topic attitude that was giving to me. i have read a lot of good points from people that opened up my perspective some more on feelings. but i have also read some sarcastic ones and if you dish it out expect to get it right back. i didnt come on here to start trouble or say what i did was right. you can read back and see i never said it was ok. but what i did come on here to do was give my opinion and even the playing field out. its easy to jump on a band wagon and say all kinds of bad thigs about someone when they cant defend themselves. i mean by this point you either hate me or not. either way the harms been done. have a great day and dont get so worked up. |
09-06-2006, 08:25 AM | #52 |
Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY
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| Peace Brother...
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09-06-2006, 08:31 AM | #53 | |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: American in London
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We all make mistakes. Come on, people, admit it. Who among us hasn't done something that we are ashamed of? It takes a mature person to admit that they have done wrong and try to go on from there. Would I have been mad? I would have been upset. I wouldn't have been as furious as most people here. That's because I doubt the dog suffered any harm. But, that's just me.
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09-06-2006, 08:49 AM | #54 |
My Best Friend Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: oklahoma
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| I just wanted to let you know..... 1. I have 4 kids and I also have dogs. I know the difference between the two but dogs are like kids in the sence that they need someone to help take care of themselves. 2. I have never left my dogs for 24hrs alone. I am in my mid 30's so saying that people are either young or been there is wrong. I have never gone out drinking and gotten so drunk I couldn't go home. 3. I did not say she should leave you. I said if it were me I would've been so mad I would've left you. 4. I am happily married but if my husband would do something like that I would leave him. I feel like my dogs are my children and if he doesn't respect them then he doesn't respect me or my feelings.
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09-06-2006, 08:55 AM | #55 | |
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09-06-2006, 10:48 AM | #56 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: florida
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| reply I would like to thank everyone for responding to my original post. I know how much everyone here love their furbabies. I love my teddy bear and I wouldn't have a bf who did not like or care for my dog, and one of the reasons why I left Teddy with my BF was not only because I trust him, but the way he interacts with Teddy. He lets Teddy lick him all over his face, he babies him. I was just disappointed in him for leaving Teddy alone for 24hrs. I couldn't believe someone I care about could do that, knowing that Teddy means soo much to me. After we spoke about what happened and I forgave him, yet I still felt as though he really didn't understood why I was soo upset. So after I posted this thread, I had him read a couple of the replies everyone had posted. I wanted him to see that I wasn't the only one that felt they way I do about my Teddy. I didn't think that he would go as far as to create an acct and join the forum, but I guess he wanted to defend himself. Thanks for your replies!!!! |
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