Needing advice.. is this behaviour normal?!

[lynzy420]

Originally Posted by matese

I really tried hard to not post on this thread, but now I am forced to comment. 1-ladyjane was NEVER rude, offered good advise, in fact, I saw really no real nastiness until the very end with OP having to repeat herself. Yes I too was offended with the "it" "the dog" but she explained her self. Then this was taken to the "Let's move forward" thread that Ann put up where things got really heated, yet ladyjane offered advise, was never rude. YET you are pouncing on markfromsea, accusing him of pouncing on ladyjane. I don't see markfromsea pointing any fingers at any one person, just making general opinion, I see markfromsea using no names, yet you are accusing him of being "obsessed" with ladyjane. I have seen markfromsea being attack on other threads as well with same comments It is no secret that you have sought every single opportunity to pounce on Ladyjane, you really need to let it go, why are you so obsessed.
If anyone is obsessed it is the ones that continue to attack markfromsea, they are OBSESSED with HIM. Again I say, ladyjane was NOT RUDE, why would you say markfromsea was "pouncing" on ladyjane" (eyeroll).

This is one of those times where you have no idea what you are referencing, posts have been deleted, end of story....

[lynzy420]

Larry92 (lol), sorry I fell asleep last night, answered lol

[megansmomma]

Originally Posted by matese

I really tried hard to not post on this thread, but now I am forced to comment. 1-ladyjane was NEVER rude, offered good advise, in fact, I saw really no real nastiness until the very end with OP having to repeat herself. Yes I too was offended with the "it" "the dog" but she explained her self. Then this was taken to the "Let's move forward" thread that Ann put up where things got really heated, yet ladyjane offered advise, was never rude. YET you are pouncing on markfromsea, accusing him of pouncing on ladyjane. I don't see markfromsea pointing any fingers at any one person, just making general opinion, I see markfromsea using no names, yet you are accusing him of being "obsessed" with ladyjane. I have seen markfromsea being attack on other threads as well with same comments It is no secret that you have sought every single opportunity to pounce on Ladyjane, you really need to let it go, why are you so obsessed.
If anyone is obsessed it is the ones that continue to attack markfromsea, they are OBSESSED with HIM. Again I say, ladyjane was NOT RUDE, why would you say markfromsea was "pouncing" on ladyjane" (eyeroll).

I have tried to stay out of this too but it's an ongoing issue IMO and really needs to stop.

To the Oper.....sounds like you might be on the right track. I hope things work out and LOL....yeah bellybands are in order.

[lynzy420]

Originally Posted by matese

Well this wasn't deleted, if someone called you DISGUSTING you'd be the first one SCREAMING no name calling, YOU are so out of line, to quote you
" beyond out of line" with your NAME CALLING. It's really nice for new comers to see all this petty fighting and name calling.

Again you have no idea what he said because it was deleted, I'm sorry your offended but it was disgusting.

[ladyjane]

Just gotta say. I messaged a new member last night and I was told about a few of the people who were messaging her talking about other YTers. THAT is probably what starts MOST of the mess on this forum.

Why oh why would anyone message a new member and tell them how awful other members are??? So you don't do it publically and that makes it ok? NO it does not. If you don't like what someone has said and think it is violating the rules....report it.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by matese

Well this wasn't deleted, if someone called you DISGUSTING you'd be the first one SCREAMING no name calling, YOU are so out of line, to quote you
" beyond out of line" with your NAME CALLING. It's really nice for new comers to see all this petty fighting and name calling.

Again, if you see it and you think it is violating the rules...report it.

[lynzy420]

Back on Topic, Larry....have you looked at youtube? they have many many good videos there with lots of helpful tips.

[megansmomma]

Originally Posted by ladyjane

Again, if you see it and you think it is violating the rules...report it.

[Verbena]

Wow I missed a lot . . . Usually you see that something is deleted. But I guess that is not so anymore. I guess that is where my confusion is.

When I first started to read the entire thread. I thought the OP didn't like the dog because of the term it. As I continued reading, I came to see it the OP was so fustrated. It was the last straw. And came here for help. And as typing the paragraphs the fustration came out. We have all been there with something. So we move on from it.

Helping her out. you were given some sound advice. You are getting a behaviorist in. The person will help you get to the root of the problem. Maybe it is you moving in. or something else . . But he will help. Good luck I really hope the behaviorist will come through for you and the family .

[lynzy420]

Originally Posted by Verbena

Wow I missed a lot . . . Usually you see that something is deleted. But I guess that is not so anymore. I guess that is where my confusion is.

When I first started to read the entire thread. I thought the OP didn't like the dog because of the term it. As I continued reading, I came to see it the OP was so fustrated. It was the last straw. And came here for help. And as typing the paragraphs the fustration came out. We have all been there with something. So we move on from it.

Helping her out. you were given some sound advice. You are getting a behaviorist in. The person will help you get to the root of the problem. Maybe it is you moving in. or something else . . But he will help. Good luck I really hope the behaviorist will come through for you and the family .

[matese]

Originally Posted by ladyjane

Again, if you see it and you think it is violating the rules...report it.

I certainly did report it.

[lynzy420]

Beth how old is Jake again?

[Larry92]

Jake is 2

[matese]

Originally Posted by lynzy420

Again you have no idea what he said because it was deleted, I'm sorry your offended but it was disgusting.

yes I did see the post, didn't know what the phrase meant, now I do, that still does not eliminate the fact that you accused mark of pouncing on ladyjane when he clearly did not. You ASSUMED it was directed at her, ladyjane offered good suggestion, others were having altercations. This is just dogs chasing tails, running in circles getting no where. Good, bad or other wise, your name calling was out of line, beyond out of line, like lady jane said, REPORT IT, which you did because right after I read it, it was deleted Your name calling leaves it open to new comers thinking they can name call.

[lynzy420]

Originally Posted by matese

yes I did see the post, didn't know what the phrase meant, now I do, that still does not eliminate the fact that you accused mark of pouncing on ladyjane when he clearly did not. You ASSUMED it was directed at her, ladyjane offered good suggestion, others were having altercations. This is just dogs chasing tails, running in circles getting no where. Good, bad or other wise, your name calling was out of line, beyond out of line, like lady jane said, REPORT IT, which you did because right after I read it, it was deleted Your name calling leaves it open to new comers thinking they can name call.

Ok Matese you are right, absolutely right, 100% right, your right...right...right....now leave me alone...let it go...its over....


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