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CouversMom · 03-12-2013, 06:49 PM

I definitely wouldn't feel forced... But here are the reasons I chose to neuter my male:

1. It prevents testicular cancer
2. Makes them far less likely to roam or fight
3. Reduces the risk of prostate cancer
4. Reduces the desire for him to mark in the house
5. Stops the desire for them to hump or mate with other dogs
6. I have believe in reducing the overpopulation of unwanted animals by choosing to not contribute to it

Good luck in your decision. I have made mine, but I definitely do not think you should be 'forced' into neutering if you think it's best to keep your male intact.

The 4 M · 03-12-2013, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by joeyyy2010

I feel like all the unwanted pregnancies give intact dogs a bad name. I mean, of course things happen...but if I am doing EVERYTHING right in my home, and taking the precautionary steps while out of my home (harness/leash, carrying, keeping away from females) why should I be punished if I dont want an unnecessary procedure done.
I've set up an appointment for Thursday, but I cant help but feel like I am going to regret it forever.

can so relate to this. Merlin is 8 years old and has not been done and I will not have him done my reason been is... my mam also has a boy yorkie Merlins brother same age, 2 years ago he had a problem with his prostate and needed to be done since this he has changed completely and not for good he's now grumpy, snappy, overweight that will cause him all matter of health problems despite having tried several low fat foods none have worked and he's not a greedy eat all in sight type of dog and also before the op he never marked now he does it all the time plus he still wants to get fruity with the other girls or a blanket or anything that's handy when he's *andy lol. Please don't feel pushed to do anything, your responsible so don't feel the need to be pushed any way just cause x number of people say its the right thing to do.

aliciagee · 03-12-2013, 08:02 PM

I have 2 females and they are not spayed. people are always telling me to get them spayed. but when im ready I will. as of right now im looking into it but im not ready. I have so many worries.

nanahas3 · 03-12-2013, 09:18 PM

We didn't get Laddy done until we got Kyra because he was never around unfixed females. Make up your own mind on this, or you wont be happy about it.

yorkiedallas · 03-12-2013, 10:14 PM

I just got my Beaumont (Biewer with all the fancy German paperwork) snipped a few months ago at age 5.5 months. I was really conflicted too. But that little bas**d lifted his leg on my designer bed and it was all I could do not to rip them off myself. I think you will know when the time is right.

Cinderella York · 03-13-2013, 05:03 AM

Yorkie babies are usually 3 to 4 ounces at birth. It is very easy to loose a baby at birth or within the first few days if you do not know what you are doing. Somehow it sounds so easy but when you end up at the vets with a C section at 2 AM and get a huge bill or you loose your Mama or babies or both, then it won't seem like such a good idea. Males that are not neutered can start to mark around your house. In my experience contact with a female that hasn't been spayed can trigger this habit and it is almost impossible to stop it once they start. I am not a vet but they tell us that a male that is not used for breeding is more apt to develop cancer. They have laser surgery now that leaves a minimal incision.

JoeyP · 03-13-2013, 05:41 AM

As someone who like you didn't initially want to get my dogs neutered
It turned out that it is better for the dog in the long run

Dogs are animals who go by instinct and physiology when it comes to their behavior
when dogs eventually have their hormone changes ..... their behavior will change
sometimes very strikingly so ..... my Zach started humping everything
to the point where it was really bothering him
If you want a pet and you are not going to be breeding your dogs these hormone induced behaviors will just be an influence that you don't need

Teresa Ford · 03-13-2013, 07:52 AM

Hi Rebecca, It is ok wait. I know it can be a difficult decision. You have been here long enough to know I am pro spay and neuter. BUT it is still a one on one thing. Mandiesmom has some very good points.
My reasons for encouraging spay/ neuter are simple. 1. health benefits, 2. no risk of unwanted pregnancy or puppies, 3. lowers sex drive and obsession to mate. 4. IMO males mark less, 5. IMO less aggression issues with both sexes( the last two are only my opinion not medical facts)
My Vet suggests waiting until the dog is sexually mature and reached adult size.

yorkietalkjilly · 03-13-2013, 12:28 PM

Tibbe was neutered at about 12 or 13 months of age just as he was starting to hike his leg a little outside. I don't think the surgery changed him at all as far as the way he acts and his spunk and activity level but I do know that he is no humper, doesn't mark in the house ever and doesn't seem to ever think of the urge to breed. Even when around a female in estrus, he's not hyperexcited or anything. I so very glad to be able to avoid the urge to mark in the house!!! I did once have a little intact male dog that marked everywhere and it was an awful smell, no matter how much I cleaned, soaped and steamed, etc., - it is a hard odor to get out and when it was damp, I would seem to smell it and go and clean and clean the areas some more. Finally just replaced the table and the couch he marked on one end and I never could seem to get free of the odor. I'm very grateful not to have to deal with that and I think neutering Tibbe really helped him stay free of the urge to mark.

Alora · 03-13-2013, 12:59 PM

I'm sorry you feel pressured, it is your decision and yours alone.
I had Henri neutered when he was 8 months and there was no change in him. He is still a happy little energetic thing who every now and then still feels the need to assert his dominance over a pillow :P
I was worried about if I made the right decision too but he actually seemed happier afterwards.
It is your decision, please don't feel forced or pressured, either way I'm sure Joey will be fine

joeyyy2010 · 03-13-2013, 05:12 PM

Tomorrow is the big day. I am a huge tard and thought I was off work...but at least I get off at a decent time so I will be home with him after. My hub will be home with him all day and I have instructed his big sister (Carley) to leave him alone until hes better.

GeorgiesMomma · 03-13-2013, 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by joeyyy2010

Tomorrow is the big day. I am a huge tard and thought I was off work...but at least I get off at a decent time so I will be home with him after. My hub will be home with him all day and I have instructed his big sister (Carley) to leave him alone until hes better.

Prayers for Joey. I am sure he will be good to go in no time

joeyyy2010 · 03-13-2013, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by GeorgiesMomma

Prayers for Joey. I am sure he will be good to go in no time

Thank you. I am still freaking out, but I have the vet on call and my husband has STRICT orders to call me when Joey is up and about.

GeorgiesMomma · 03-13-2013, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by joeyyy2010

Thank you. I am still freaking out, but I have the vet on call and my husband has STRICT orders to call me when Joey is up and about.

I know how you are feeling. You will be amazed at how tough he is and how quickly he recovers

MandiesMom · 03-13-2013, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by joeyyy2010

Tomorrow is the big day. I am a huge tard and thought I was off work...but at least I get off at a decent time so I will be home with him after. My hub will be home with him all day and I have instructed his big sister (Carley) to leave him alone until hes better.

Praying all goes well and you have peace of mind!! Hang in there

03-12-2013, 06:49 PM	#16
CouversMom and Khloe Mae's too! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Eastern Washington Posts: 14,732	I definitely wouldn't feel forced... But here are the reasons I chose to neuter my male: 1. It prevents testicular cancer 2. Makes them far less likely to roam or fight 3. Reduces the risk of prostate cancer 4. Reduces the desire for him to mark in the house 5. Stops the desire for them to hump or mate with other dogs 6. I have believe in reducing the overpopulation of unwanted animals by choosing to not contribute to it Good luck in your decision. I have made mine, but I definitely do not think you should be 'forced' into neutering if you think it's best to keep your male intact. __________________ Michelle- mommy to Couver and Khloe Mae! http://yorkiehavenrescue.com/

03-12-2013, 08:02 PM	#18
aliciagee YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Idaho Posts: 474	I have 2 females and they are not spayed. people are always telling me to get them spayed. but when im ready I will. as of right now im looking into it but im not ready. I have so many worries. __________________ Mommy To Miss Le'asa & baby Leah & baby Penny

03-12-2013, 09:18 PM	#19
nanahas3 ♥Love My Snuggle Bugs♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 4,290	We didn't get Laddy done until we got Kyra because he was never around unfixed females. Make up your own mind on this, or you wont be happy about it. __________________ *CharleneMama to Laddy and Kyra and Always in our hearts Lolita*

03-13-2013, 05:41 AM	#22
JoeyP YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Miami, FL,USA Posts: 1,005	As someone who like you didn't initially want to get my dogs neutered It turned out that it is better for the dog in the long run Dogs are animals who go by instinct and physiology when it comes to their behavior when dogs eventually have their hormone changes ..... their behavior will change sometimes very strikingly so ..... my Zach started humping everything to the point where it was really bothering him If you want a pet and you are not going to be breeding your dogs these hormone induced behaviors will just be an influence that you don't need __________________ Mike and Zach's Dadd

03-13-2013, 07:52 AM	#23
Teresa Ford Therapy Yorkies Work Donating Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Central, Florida Posts: 3,863	Hi Rebecca, It is ok wait. I know it can be a difficult decision. You have been here long enough to know I am pro spay and neuter. BUT it is still a one on one thing. Mandiesmom has some very good points. My reasons for encouraging spay/ neuter are simple. 1. health benefits, 2. no risk of unwanted pregnancy or puppies, 3. lowers sex drive and obsession to mate. 4. IMO males mark less, 5. IMO less aggression issues with both sexes( the last two are only my opinion not medical facts) My Vet suggests waiting until the dog is sexually mature and reached adult size. __________________ Teresa & Rubin, Gracie, Abba, Ginny Joy and Julia Rose Act like a dog, be kind, forgiving, and loyal.

03-12-2013, 10:14 PM	#20
yorkiedallas Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Austin, Texas Posts: 220	I just got my Beaumont (Biewer with all the fancy German paperwork) snipped a few months ago at age 5.5 months. I was really conflicted too. But that little bas**d lifted his leg on my designer bed and it was all I could do not to rip them off myself. I think you will know when the time is right.

03-13-2013, 05:03 AM	#21
Cinderella York Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Wainfleet Ontario Canada Posts: 12	Yorkie babies are usually 3 to 4 ounces at birth. It is very easy to loose a baby at birth or within the first few days if you do not know what you are doing. Somehow it sounds so easy but when you end up at the vets with a C section at 2 AM and get a huge bill or you loose your Mama or babies or both, then it won't seem like such a good idea. Males that are not neutered can start to mark around your house. In my experience contact with a female that hasn't been spayed can trigger this habit and it is almost impossible to stop it once they start. I am not a vet but they tell us that a male that is not used for breeding is more apt to develop cancer. They have laser surgery now that leaves a minimal incision.

03-13-2013, 12:28 PM	#24
yorkietalkjilly ♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas Posts: 22,140	Tibbe was neutered at about 12 or 13 months of age just as he was starting to hike his leg a little outside. I don't think the surgery changed him at all as far as the way he acts and his spunk and activity level but I do know that he is no humper, doesn't mark in the house ever and doesn't seem to ever think of the urge to breed. Even when around a female in estrus, he's not hyperexcited or anything. I so very glad to be able to avoid the urge to mark in the house!!! I did once have a little intact male dog that marked everywhere and it was an awful smell, no matter how much I cleaned, soaped and steamed, etc., - it is a hard odor to get out and when it was damp, I would seem to smell it and go and clean and clean the areas some more. Finally just replaced the table and the couch he marked on one end and I never could seem to get free of the odor. I'm very grateful not to have to deal with that and I think neutering Tibbe really helped him stay free of the urge to mark. __________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis

03-13-2013, 12:59 PM	#25
Alora Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Hayden, ID Posts: 754	I'm sorry you feel pressured, it is your decision and yours alone. I had Henri neutered when he was 8 months and there was no change in him. He is still a happy little energetic thing who every now and then still feels the need to assert his dominance over a pillow :P I was worried about if I made the right decision too but he actually seemed happier afterwards. It is your decision, please don't feel forced or pressured, either way I'm sure Joey will be fine __________________ www.HugaPUPs.com *For the love of pups*

03-13-2013, 05:12 PM	#26
joeyyy2010 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: tampa Posts: 705	Tomorrow is the big day. I am a huge tard and thought I was off work...but at least I get off at a decent time so I will be home with him after. My hub will be home with him all day and I have instructed his big sister (Carley) to leave him alone until hes better. __________________ Rebecca Joey Carley