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01-24-2013, 05:23 AM | #1 |
YT Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: MacTier Ontario Canada
Posts: 365
| Always there for me... My family has been devastated. Since last January 2012, we having been living with and dealing with the my daughter's husband and my son's wife having an affair together. It has actually been going on since July 2011, but we just found out about it in Jan 2012. I have 4 small grandchildren involved - 2 to each of my kids. I live in a small town - everyone knows - thinks it is absolutely disgusting and hearbreaking. They are now carrying on out in the open - taking all 4 kids on overnights...totally confusing to children. Now we are dealing with lawyers and courts - My point here, being - without my Miss Lizzie and Mr. Darcy I wouldn't have been able to cope. Lizzie is always there to lick off my tears - she follows me everywhere. Darcy and Lizzie sleep tucked in tight to me everynight. Darcy will walk up me - sniff my face - then get as close as he can to me to settle down. They are so soft - I wake in the night and stroke them - the best therapy I can think of....
__________________ Mr. Darcy Miss Lizzie Toffee in Heaven at 15-1/2 - still sadly missed 1993-Christmas 2008 |
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01-24-2013, 05:27 AM | #2 |
Cedric♥Lola♥Keylo Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Gilford, NH, USA
Posts: 9,209
| wow that is unreal..the pain they have caused im sure is just unbearable. your poor children. i cannot imagine how someone would be able to do such a thing to a family. i know people fall in love cannot help who they fall in love with but how devastating. glad you have your babies to snuggle and help you through this difficult time. i pray your children will eventually be able to move on and find absolute happiness in their future. prayers your grandchildren will mentally be ok in the long run,
__________________ Cedric N Lola N Keylo RIP Punkee Princess |
01-24-2013, 05:32 AM | #3 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: splendora, tx
Posts: 701
| How heartbreaking. I am so sorry for your family. I'm glad your pups are there to comfort you and help you get through this. I will pray for your family. |
01-24-2013, 05:35 AM | #4 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: ada mn usa
Posts: 1,362
| So interesting that you say that jellybears! I was just thinking when I got home last night from a crappy day at work and how happy my two little furbutts were to see me what great therapy they were. They just seem to know when I need extra love, extra attention or extra puppy kisses! I hope that your family can get to the healing stages soon...what a horrible thing to go thru. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your children.
__________________ Bobbi and her two favorite girls...Ruby-Sioux and Rosie Too . We you Lola Marlene Bubbles |
01-24-2013, 06:24 AM | #5 |
Rosehill Yorkies Donating YT Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Houston Texas
Posts: 9,462
| Hang in there....this too shall pass.....and in the meantime, you can lean on your faith for guidance and strength, and your little babies that love you unconditionally, for comfort.....I will include you in my prayers..... |
01-24-2013, 06:43 AM | #6 |
I love TBCG! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: MD
Posts: 7,227
| I am sorry that you and your grandbabies are going through this. I will keep you in my prayers. I am glad you have your furbabies to comfort you.
__________________ Morgan Mommy toGeorgie boy & Isaiah RIP sweet Coco 10/12/99-8/1/12 Read About Georgie's Experience with Atlantoaxial Instability (AAI) Here! |
01-24-2013, 07:09 AM | #7 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Easton, PA
Posts: 593
| I am glad you have the two furbabies! I will say a prayer for you and your grandchildern...........Hugs to you and stay strong for them.....
__________________ Bella's Mom....& loving each moment! |
01-24-2013, 07:20 AM | #8 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Memphis, TN USA
Posts: 1,078
| Sorry to hear. You are lucky to have two wonderful furry friends to be there for you. |
01-24-2013, 07:40 AM | #9 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member | I am so sorry this is happening to your family. Good thoughts and blessings to your family. And sending guidance to the the two that are doing this that they will do the right thing. Hugs to you
__________________ Teri . . . Galen Jameson Frazier Seraphina Luna Rosencrantz, Saber Tooth Tiger, Pussy Willow Pandora Guildenstern |
01-24-2013, 07:42 AM | #10 |
Katie Scarlett's Mommy Donating Member | I'm so sorry you are having to go through this! Bless you! I am glad you have your little ones to help you through. These little guys are such a blessing to get us through the hard times.
__________________ Aymee & Katie Scarlett |
01-24-2013, 09:04 AM | #11 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: FL, USA
Posts: 2,767
| So sad...I am so sorry this is happening to you. Even the worst ends at some point, so hopefully that silver lining is just one more Yorkie kiss away. Will be thinking of you, and sending best wishes your way. {{{Hugs}}}
__________________ - Cat Brody Mia BriaStormy |
01-24-2013, 09:10 AM | #12 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Las Vegas, NV
Posts: 6,982
| How awful...I'm so sorry to hear this. But, yes, their love is so unconditional and amazing. My babies have always been there for me through the toughest times and never got annoyed over my constant crying and ranting. And they give great advice too. I hope that this is a quick process for your family so they can begin to heal.
__________________ Heather Zeus | Thalia |
01-24-2013, 09:14 AM | #13 |
Princess Sophie's Choice Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Clinton, IL, DeWitt County
Posts: 2,758
| This situation is so very sad and it's hurtful for the entire family! I pray that your son-in-law and daughter-in-law come to their senses and recognize the harm they are doing and how selfish they are being. I will also pray that your grandchildren are protected in God's care and your children will have the grace and strength to come through this awful experience as stronger people themselves. With all the prayers God is certainly listening and standing close to those who are innocent. Prayers & Blessings! You know, I do believe you can choose who you love. You may find yourself attracted to someone besides your spouse but that doesn't mean you have to act on those feelings. If you are committed to your marriage, you can, and should, choose to remain faithful to your partner. No matter what!! Sorry, that's just the pastor in me coming out. Prayers for you and the rest of your family as well. Peace!
__________________ Diane owned and loved by Hansel and Princess Sophie |
01-24-2013, 09:37 AM | #14 |
Therapy Yorkies Work Donating Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Central, Florida
Posts: 3,863
| The Moral of the story So many people today just take what they want. They want the world to say it is ok, and often it does. Sadly selfish behavior is thought of as our rights. Vows and promises mean little or nothing to many people. We will all be held accountable for our actions. I too believe you can choose to act on feelings or not. We can pray and confess the temptation. God will tell our heart how to stay faithful and strong. We do not have to give in to desire. I am so very sorry this has happened to your family. I am gld you have your Yorkies. Prayers and Hugs
__________________ Teresa & Rubin, Gracie, Abba, Ginny Joy and Julia Rose Act like a dog, be kind, forgiving, and loyal. |
01-24-2013, 10:07 AM | #15 |
♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas
Posts: 22,140
| Yorkies are so good at dispensing whatever is needed whenver it's needed in times of hurt and suffering.
__________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis |
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