Just adopted a teacup yorkie and struggling

[mscat]

Like most peple have wrote to you, I agree that it is in the best interest to rehome this little yorkie, or find a rescue group who will take him. NO DOG
should ever be left outside in the pouring rain, that is animal cruelty. Maybe this is just not a good match for you and your girlfriend, yorkie's require a great deal of hands on training, positive reinforcement, and tend to want to please their owners. He may not have come from a good home before you got him, making it harder on you , but this is no excuse to treat him this way. If he is not fixed then he will mark everywhere, thqt is what male yorkies do, thhat can create problems for the owner, nobody wants to live in a urin stained carpets and furniture. He is only 3 pounds, that is a very tiny yorkie, please do not ever use physical force on him, he is too fragile, and can easily be hurt, plus they do not respond to that type of treatment.

[Lilymo]

Can I just add. Good luck with not letting "this dog" run your life lol if you ever become attached to it as you should, you will welcome the closeness it brings. Sounds like all your other digs were working dogs. Yorkies are usually pets and as such are members if the family and not employees. The relationship is much different. Hope you guys work it put soon.

[Yorkiemom1]

My professional advise to you is short and sweet....rehome this dog immediately and go back to what you are emotionally and mentally equipped to deal with. Yorkies are NOT a good breed for you to be associated with. These are terriers and you can not "emotionally beat or manhandle" them into submission...you can never even imagine the behavior issues you will encounter. This dog has you irritated and irrational, and you really need to turn the dog over to a Yorkie rescue group. If it upsets your girlfriend, be as "understanding" with her as you are being with the little dog....tell her to get the hell over it!

[dinkyweil]

Yorkies are emotional and needy and little and yours probably won't change. So you really won't enjoy the dog, so I highly recommend you find a home for the dog where it will fit in better. You and the dog will both be much happier!

[Taryn0405]

Just like children, every dog has a different personality. Some are shy, some are loud, some are excited, some are quiet...

All are different, and the same can be said with dogs. And like children, dogs also need adjustments made in order for you both to co-exist happily. Is it hard work? Yes! Are there nights that you'll barely get sleep and think how the heck you're going to get up the next day and do it again? Absolutely! But honestly, it's the days that your pup starts grasping on to the concept of going potty outside, or learning to sit, that makes all the difference...

Yorkie's are a horse of a different color when it comes to training. So, do yourself, and your pup a favor. Knock off the hitting, yelling, and frustration because all that's going to come out of it is resentment....

Read and take as much knowledge as you can from here and from others who are experienced in terrier, positive training and start with a clean slate. Remember, just like babies, puppies rely on you. You are their love, support, comfort, and trust. Don't ruin that at such a young age out of your own frustration.

Good luck.

[R_Z]

Well, after reading, I understand where you've been and where you are. What you need to decide first and foremost is do you want to earn the unconditional love from a Yorkie? If not and you're just keeping this dog just to help out someone who couldn't keep him, don't keep him. Get him to a good loving home now.

If you have developed any love for this dog and want a true companion, get help. There are plenty of professionals who specialize in Yorkies. That's where you should start. Yes they are picky eaters. Yes the don't potty train well. But yes, they are the greatest friend ever to the right family.

Consider your options wisely and do the right thing for both of you.

Peace.

[Roxiesmama]

Oh God, reading this post made my stomach turn. I truly hope the original poster is looking into Yorkie Rescue and safely re-homing this poor pup.

[JaxsonsMommy12]

I'm new to this as well & let me just start off by saying is if his/her face hasn't melted your heart yet then you should find him/her a new home that will treat the baby with love & care! There is no excuse for harming an animal big or small! I grew up with German Shepherds and even though Thor was a big muscular guy my Dad never ever hit him when he did something wrong! Gave him firm no's and praised him when he did good! I understand how one would think oh well it's a bigger dog he can handle more punishment but that's not the case at all! That and I'm happy you are seeking help but really coming on & posting how you did above is probably not the best idea! These ladies above including myself LOVE YORKIES I'm a new Momma but these ladies have had them for YEARS and yes you are asking for help and if I were you I'd take the advice cause i've posted a couple threads seeking info for my new pup Jaxson and I've always gotten fantastic advice back! Your girlfriend may be some what attached to him/her but it's obvious this breed isn't for you! That's not saying you are a horrible pet owner just a yorkie isn't for you and you seem to have been around big breeds in the past. Contact a rescue and see if someone is willing to take this precious baby to a home that knows his/her needs, wants, and how to properly train & discipline a yorkie. That's all I can say and nobody here is passing judgement on you as an individual & I know you clarified a few things above from your first posting however you took lots of us by shock by your stress & venting in the first post. Please seek help and good luck!

[yorkietalkjilly]

Has OP disappeared? Have I missed an update? Does anyone know if they still have the little Yorkie?

[BabyGirl Rosie]

Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

Has OP disappeared? Have I missed an update? Does anyone know if they still have the little Yorkie?

Don't think there has been any additional posts. Hmmmm.....

[yorkietalkjilly]

Originally Posted by BabyGirl Rosie

Don't think there has been any additional posts. Hmmmm.....

You think?

[gracielove]

Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

You think?

Either she thinks we are a bunch of sentimental dog nuts and has decided to totally disregard our suggestions or ........ well, I'd rather not think of the "or."

[msyorktown]

I really hope the OP has given the pup to a rescue....one doesn't know what to think in this situation...

[Christinee]

Originally Posted by gemy

alright, first take a rolled up newspaper, and every time your dog pees where he shouldn't HIT yourself with it. You are the one that made the mistake.

Love it.

[navillusc]

If you want to keep this little Yorkie, you might want to start by seeing him as a 2-year-old human toddler...fragile, loving, independent, smart, and devoted, but without the knowledge and wisdom that comes with time and training. You will also find that he is likely a little joking tease who will enjoy entertaining you with his ever changing antics. If you begin training him the same way you would a human baby...and yes I do mean 'conversation' even reading to him, associating a physical 'apple' with the word "apple", and talking to him about the TV show or news broadcast you are watching as though you expect him to grow up, go to prom, drive a car, understand how the world works, and raise your grandchildren, you will begin to see the rewards a Yorkie will give you...and they are huge!

There are carry-packs...pouches...you can 'wear' him around and he will likely love it. You can put shirts on him to keep him warm (and cute) and he will likely love it. Do nothing to him you would not do to your own human offspring. Watch HIS body language to learn what he needs and/or wants to do. He may already indicate he needs to go potty by going to a door, walking away to a wall, hall, room, or other possibly secluded place. Example: When we got Brody, he had mostly been kept in a bathroom to keep him safe from his 95 lb. year older brother. The first night he was at the house, we had a storm. At the first crack of thunder, he got up and headed toward our bathroom. Why? That was his 'safe' place and he was uneasy because of the storm. Because I was in over-achiever-observer mode, learning him, I instantly recognized what the problem was and ran to pick him up, hold him, and give him a new 'safe' place in my arms.

My DH always had big dogs and never thought he would like little dogs...never gave any thought to owning Yorkies...never thought there'd be a difference except for size. One Yorkie, Brody, changed all that...now we have two...we got Mia as a companion for Brody...and he'd take more in a heartbeat. He's even (finally...lol) put in his first top knot! But, it IS a different mindset. Yorkies are 'technically' canines...but in reality, they're human children on four paws who'll eat poo, dig and roll in the dirt, and they will love you back like you cannot believe.

I've had large dogs, too, and a Yorkie-Poo when I was a child until I lost him about 12 or so. Yorkies are 'working dogs' but unlike most working/herding dogs, Yorkies were bred TO THINK INDEPENDENTLY...and they do...oh boy do they...and it's wonderful to watch their little minds work! Like a little child when he sees a flower or bee for the first time...you will see wonderment in a Yorkie's eyes! You don't have to teach them everything...they analyze your actions and in short order know what your next move is going to be. Humans should be so smart! We have to spell and motion and 'allude' because Brody and Mia have such large vocabularies that it is hard to 'sneak' out without them knowing what we are planning. The flip side is that, by training, when I say in my firm Yorkie voice, "You are not going this time," they sit down with the same dejected look a child would have...but Mommy has spoken and resistance is futile...lol Oh, yeah, they usually get a toy or new outfit when they have to stay home...a reward for being good while home alone.

Get him a blankie, a playpen, a high chair...feed him off a fork or spoon during your meal, off your plate, let him drink from your cup (you can get a new one if you like)...put a bib on him to keep him clean, wash his face after meals...whatever helps you see him in the proper perspective. Keep in mind always that whatever HE does wrong is YOUR fault...your failure...just like any child...and lead him to the knowledge and behavior he must have.

If you are not prepared to deal with, or interested in nurturing, a canine toddler, trust me when I say there are plenty of people who'll take that baby in a heartbeat and love him like he's their own natural born infant...we love them THAT MUCH!! If you're planning a Florida vacation, bring him with you, PM me, and I'll take time off work and I'll meet you at whatever airport anywhere in FL you land, and he can come live with me. Brody and Mia will have no problem sharing the bed, the lap, and being glad it's HIM in the bath THIS TIME!

It is easy to throw up your hands and quit...much harder to change your own ways...which you will likely need to do for a time...at least until your 'Yorkie-ness factor' kicks in.

For your sake, and his, of course, I hope you are beginning to understand how precious these babies are. If so, and you decide to take on this unconditional commitment, prepare to have your heart exploded to an exponential love factor 'cuz nothing...NOTHING...else can do that quite like a Yorkshire Terrier!