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04-03-2012, 04:11 AM | #61 | |
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I hope we can all approach one other with empathy, understanding and kindness. Be open to learning and educating ourselves on new subjects before forming opinions and being less judgmental. Great post Ann. | |
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04-03-2012, 05:23 AM | #62 | ||
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very nice comments!
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04-03-2012, 06:27 AM | #63 |
Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator | I just want to say how great it is to read all these responses. I think the responses really speak to the best in all of us, ya know? I did want to just point out a few things that I'd wish I'd said in the original post. By no means do we want anyone to take any of this personally; if this had been about 1 person, or 5 people - we would have dealt with it via PMs, and kept it more as a private exchange. So I hope that helps anyone who is taking this too much to heart, or personal. It has to do with a much bigger "mood" on the board, and it's not about specific recent threads - it's about many threads, over a long period of time. Also, no one wants any of the members to feel like this means they can't stand up for what they believe in; a person can stand amazingly firm in their beliefs, while still offering up their opinion without anger and personal jabs. I think what we're requesting is reasonable and doable by all of us, it's a realistic request. I doubt there is a single one of us who hasn't regretted something they've said here, I know I have - several times. Those instances taught me a ton about myself. What always amazes me though, is the willingness of everyone who says "I'm sorry for..." - and the other person "I'm sorry too for..." - a genuine apology goes a loooong way. And it really helps in mending the regret, on both sides. At the end of the day, we've just gone a little too far for a little too long in being overly confrontational. And we all need to work on it so that people feel that this is a community for support, where questions can be asked and discussions can happen without retaliation or anger or emotion that goes too far. We all get emotional here, sometimes we all over-step the line - and we just need to do a better job of checking ourselves. Anyway, thanks for being so open-minded about all of this .
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04-03-2012, 06:39 AM | #64 |
♥Trained by my pups♥ Donating YT 500 Club Member | Well said once again. None of us are perfect. And I believe we all can learn something we didn't know before. I respect everyone's opinion but in the end it's I who, do what I think is best for my best friends (my animals). I have learned a ton on this board. But I have also felt sorry for others. We all believe we are doing whats right. But if we all were perfect there would be no need for yorkie talk. And I need my Yorkie Talk Love this group of people. Who love their dogs like I do..
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04-03-2012, 07:25 AM | #65 |
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| I am very grateful for this thread. Thanks Ann.
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04-03-2012, 07:37 AM | #66 |
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| I'm glad to see this and hope we can all collectively work towards a more positive informative atmosphere as we move forward. I can agree with Brit. I now just come here out of boredom and procrastination too, too many times I see a title to a post and think to myself 'here we go again' I wont even bother reading past the first page cause I know where it's going. I think we all need to remember that people need information, lack of knowledge by newbies or existing members is not a bad thing, considering they are coming here to get help and eliminate ignorance. Many times they just don't know better. I feel like often times people jump down the throats of those who ask "stupid" questions, but what happened to there being no such thing as a stupid question? I hope we all set the goal to educate and welcome everyone into our YT family. Thanks for the great reminder, glad to see we all agree this is an important issue as well.
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04-03-2012, 07:39 AM | #67 |
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| Ann, I have come to love you dearly and always stand in amazement of your commitment to this forum. You are one in a million. Thanks for being there and jumping in on occasion to save those that need "a little help from their friends". Your efforts are always appreciated by me. |
04-03-2012, 07:53 AM | #68 |
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| Thank you for the much needed reminder. I find it hurtful to read when someone is attacking another member who may not share the same views. This forum serves as a learning tool for many of us. It helped me to know what to look for in a breeder when selecting a puppy. I never knew that a puppy should not leave the litter until at least 12 weeks old. We all have valuable opinions. There are some breeders here and I think they should not be attacked by their methods. If they are following breed guidelines , why are they attacked. Also not every owner wants to spay and neuter their pets. I believe in spaying and neutering but I can't bash another person who does not. Lets us remember we are all as unique as our adorable pets we come here to talk about! |
04-03-2012, 08:01 AM | #69 | |
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04-03-2012, 08:10 AM | #70 |
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| Thank you Ann. I think that is good advice for everyone. The only thing I would add is that it is VERY hard to discern someone's "tone" from typed font. So if everyone would just re-read what they've written before clicking "post", it might save some hurt feelings or misinterpretations. I know that I have been guilty of speed-posting myself, and what I meant to be a joke was taken to be insulting I don't post much, as I seem to kill threads but I do read here almost every day, and have much love for YT and 99,9% of the members here
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04-03-2012, 08:20 AM | #71 |
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| Thank you for this thread. I too have been attacked when I was very new to this forum for questioning a breeder who bred tinies and almost didn't come back. I was very confused as a new yorkie owner and just wanted answers. That being said I am sure I have like many others made comments I wish I could take back because I worded them wrong and realized after I posted that they might offend someone. If I have I would like to say now how very sorry I am for this.
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04-03-2012, 08:25 AM | #72 | |
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04-03-2012, 08:31 AM | #73 | |
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I'll comment again to say it's nice that I'm able to see I've not been alone in feeling there are tons of very knowledgeable people here on YT.
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04-03-2012, 09:47 AM | #74 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: TN
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| I wanted to thank you for posting this, because you've made me want to try posting here again. I found this forum quite some time back, but was afraid to post. When I finally did post an intro, I didn't even receive 1 single response, although there were several views, so I didn't feel welcome at all. I stayed, because I did find some of the information helpful and my Yorkie is my absolute pride, but I wouldn't contribute to any topics. He's now 15 months old and I would love to share his crazy antics with fellow Yorkie lovers. Michelle Last edited by Mystick; 04-03-2012 at 09:51 AM. Reason: signature didn't show up for some reason |
04-03-2012, 09:54 AM | #75 | |
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I want to say welcome to you and your baby. I hope you start posting.
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