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07-11-2011, 06:07 AM | #1 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: New York
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| I am so upset My Sammy went to Rainbow Bridge 15 days ago. I had been waiting for his ashes to be returned to me. Saturday morning a woman called me (she had been on vacation and her Dad took her mail in) to let me know that my baby's ashes were at her house. The crematory put the wrong address on the label!!!!!!!! My baby was at her house for 9 days!!!!!!! She is an animal lover and has 5 dogs, all rescues and strays.Thank goodness I have him back home with us where he belongs. I called the crematory and got an apology and was told that yes a mistake had been made. I told the woman that I was calling my vet's office to tell them and she said to me "you need to do what you need to do". My vet's office was extremely upset. I can't tell you how upset this makes me. I hope and pray this never happens to anyone else. I told the woman at the crematory that they should double check and triple check their address and that they were incompetent and irresponsible. Thanks for letting me vent. I know my fellow YTers would understand. |
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07-11-2011, 06:10 AM | #2 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Grove City, OH
Posts: 328
| Aww, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can't imagine having to deal with what happened to you. That is so upsetting! I'm sorry you had that happen. I'm just glad you have him back safe and sound.
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07-11-2011, 06:25 AM | #3 |
Gidget & Sidney's Mom Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: PA
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| I would be upset too. I don't think you are being unreasonable. I'm so sorry to hear about Sammy. I'm glad he is "home" w his mommy now.
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07-11-2011, 06:31 AM | #4 |
Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator | I'm so sorry this happened to you, and your beloved passed baby. You have every right to be extremely upset, and to share that feeling w/ the crematory and your vet. Lots of hugs coming your way during such a difficult time.
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07-11-2011, 06:37 AM | #5 |
Resident Yorkie Nut Donating YT 20K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Texas
Posts: 27,451
| I am so sorry for your loss; and also upset for you about what you went through. Sending hugs to you during this difficult time.
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07-11-2011, 06:50 AM | #6 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: At Home
Posts: 8,386
| Oh my goodness this is just horrible. I would certainly be upset as well. I know the place that my Vet Office uses always send the Ashes back to them in a very pretty box, also with an imprint of the paw in clay. This way the Vet Office is the one who has always called me when my babies are back and I pick them up at the Vet Office.
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07-11-2011, 07:29 AM | #8 |
Therapy Yorkies Work Donating Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Central, Florida
Posts: 3,863
| I am so sorry for your loss. You have every right to be upset. You came to the perfect place to post this story. Sometimes I know this is the only place I can rant or vent about things. Yorkie people understand, other Yorkie people. We may not aggree all the time, but we are very supportive of eachother. I am glad Sammy is home. Hugs for you. |
07-11-2011, 07:33 AM | #9 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Georgia
Posts: 3,262
| Sorry this happened to you and Sammy. It is a shame that people don't pay attention these days. So many unnecessary mistakes are made. It is good that you let your vet know. Glad Sammy is home with his mom.
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07-11-2011, 07:33 AM | #10 |
♥Momma's Bambino♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ca
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| I am so sorry that happened to you. That is horrible. I am glad you got your baby back. Loosing a loved one is so hard, I am sorry for the pain you are in. (hugs) We are here for you!
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07-11-2011, 07:36 AM | #11 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Long Island, New York
Posts: 5,891
| I am so, so sorry that you had to cope with this on top of your loss. Although it was different for us, we had an experience with Ashley that was very upsetting to us also. I understand how difficult this was for you. When Ashley passed away last year, I felt more comfortable bringing her to our vet to make the arrangements for cremation. I didn't want to bring her to a strange place, even though the pet cemetery is about six miles from our home, and my vet was twenty two miles. My vet's office handled the arrangements for all three of my girls, and I had their ashes returned to the vet instead of picking them up at the pet cemetery. Our vet and all of the staff had been there for us and our girls for all of the years of their lives, so I felt better about dealing with them. We were able to pick Ashley a few days later at the vet, and we thought everything was fine. A couple of months later my husband looked at the paperwork along with the certificate of private cremation. The certificate had Ashley's name on it, but they had a different family's name on it than ours. We were really shaken and upset by it. When I called the pet cemetery the next day, they apologized for the error, and they sent me new paperwork. I didn't pursue it further, and although mistakes happen, something like this should be double and triple checked so that it doesn't. I never told my vet about it; I probably should have. I told the people at the pet cemetery that I could never be sure that we really had Ashley's ashes as a result of the mistake, since I thought the other family could have Ashley's ashes. They told me that I could open up the tin that she was in, and that I would see the paperwork from the vet in there along with the ashes being labeled with her name. It was difficult for my husband to open up Ashley's ashes to check them, but we do, in fact, have Ashley's ashes. It was a horrible experience worrying about the ashes, so I really understand what you went through. Fifteen days is such a long time to be waiting. It must have been unbearable for you. As difficult as it was to pick up my girls' ashes, I always felt better when they were home with us. I feel terrible about all of your sadness. If there is anything I can do to help you, all you need to do is ask.
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07-11-2011, 07:41 AM | #12 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Manhattan, NYC
Posts: 655
| So sorry to hear about Sammy and relieved that he is home after that horrible mistake. Big hugs to you from me and Rocco.
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07-11-2011, 07:48 AM | #14 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Abbotsford, BC, Canada
Posts: 466
| I'm sorry for your loss of Sammy. I would have been upset, too. Good that Sammy ended up back with his family. |
07-11-2011, 08:39 AM | #15 | |
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