Always worried what would happen to my boys.

[misslissa]

I dont really have a place to speak from because i have a great best friend who would fight for gatsby if something happened to me and I have a sister who is going to be 17 in February I have custody of her and our 10 year old brother so if something happens to me she gets Kodi and if she wants she can have gatsby because i know she will take care of him just like i do because I taught her all she knows about taking care of dogs
i also have a mother who would take good if not great care of him.

So hear is my advice, for all of you with no one or no one to trust find the yorkietalk member closest to you (or in a distance you know you babies can travel should something happen) and make good friends with them. After you have done that and you are in a place wear you can trust them then start talking about the possibility of them taking your babies or ask a member (or regular old person) that you trust to re-home based on a set of criteria you write up now before something can happen then you have piece of mind and wont have to lose any sleep.

[angeleyes]

I know this is a depressing thread but it is something we as lovers of our babies must consider. I have made a book for Belle that has all her information regarding health, food, treats, vet, likes and dislikes plus a page on her personality and likes and dislikes. I have always made one for each of our dogs and thank heavens have not had to use them but once when we boarded them overnight when our daughter got married. The lady they boarded with had never seen anything done like that before, she was really impressed. I even had a signed permission slip in there incase any emergency care was needed that everything be done to care for them. I also have a letter that Belle is to go back to her breeder if anything should happen to both my husband and I. She would have a great life there and be loved. My hubby has promised that if anything happens to me that he will keep Belle no matter what. He would take her to puppy day care while he works. He has never lied to me about anything so I know he's being truthful about Belle. Thank heavens he is 8 years younger than me and loves our little girl to death and in turn, he is her favorite toy. I would love to be able to be there to help anyone out with their babies, I'd have a house full if I could. Spend 15 minutes with Belle and you would know how spoiled she is and how very loved she is. I have lost my 2 other babies in the past year and a half. I know that pain better than I'd like too. Both of them passed wrapped in my arms, my face was the last thing they saw as I told them I would see them soon. It's the least we can do for them for the unconditional love we get from them.

[angeleyes]

I just had to add one more thought to this. After 18 years as an emergency technician working both ambulance and hospital emergency rooms, I have seen more than most people would ever want to. Having been there with them and seeing people die in terrible pain ans suffering I think about the peaceful way my two babies passed and thought that's the way people should be able to pass also with dignity and serenity. God bless all of our little ones who have passed, RIP babies

[deeogie]

I can understand what you mean Darlene......I have family that would take Lucky in a flash and love him!!BUT.....I want him to continue getting the kind of love, attention and caring for that HE is used to getting from me! lol Even my DH....I have no worry that he wouldn't love and spoil him, but not the same as the way I do!! Maybe , if something happens to me I will send Lucky to you, and I will take Bailey and Jesse if you suddenly leave....lol I'd worry less if I knew someone like you had Lucky....lol
Anyway, I think Boopster had the best idea....You'll never find anyone to love your boys more than the YT'ers on here, they'd definitely be spoiled to your satisfaction lol!!!Well most of them anyways...lol

[jacquelinebabco]

Isn't' strange that someone would be dealing with this exact issue today? look under the rescue forum. I would love to be able to take them all but with 4 already it would be impossible, but sure wish I could.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by jacquelinebabco

Isn't' strange that someone would be dealing with this exact issue today? look under the rescue forum. I would love to be able to take them all but with 4 already it would be impossible, but sure wish I could.

And the sad part is that I bet the wife passed away thinking her husband would care for her beloved yorkies.
Happens all too often.
I am going to contact him with suggestions...I hope he listens.

[FidoTheYorkie]

If anything would happen to me Fido would propably live with my family, but i want him to go back to his breeder if something happens, and that she would keep him, but i couldnt stand seeing my family without him.
Fido is mostly MY dog, his breeder is his babysitter if something happens and my family couldnt live without him, he's a big part of the family.

[jacquelinebabco]

Originally Posted by ladyjane

And the sad part is that I bet the wife passed away thinking her husband would care for her beloved yorkies.
Happens all too often.
I am going to contact him with suggestions...I hope he listens.

Your a sweetheart to direct this poor family in finding good homes.

[nana911]

I agree w/ladyjane on this one. So many rescues have 'owner surrenders' and alot of those are dead owner surrenders. I bet money that many of those were owners that thought they'd made arrangements but the people that were supposed to take on the responsibility failed them. I do think that euthanizing would be preferable to having a beloved pet that has known nothing but your love and care suddenly be thrust into a crowded shelter situation and then maybe subjected to home after home and god forbid abused in some way.

It is definitely food for thought, if nothing else.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by Patti

As I get older it is something I do worry about,especially having 4. I have it stipulated in my will that a certain amount of money goes with each dog. This goes to the person/persons who take them in for future care. I know my dtr would take Cali and between her and my other relatives find great homes for the others. They know who to contact on YT that could help find them homes that would meet my standards. Having taken in Nikki in a similar situation, I have realized that some can adjust as long as it is to a loving home. If worse came to worse I too would rather see them safely go to sleep rather then end up in a horrible situation. Working at a shelter I see dogs that just can't adjust to shelter life and it breaks my heart.

Originally Posted by nana911

I agree w/ladyjane on this one. So many rescues have 'owner surrenders' and alot of those are dead owner surrenders. I bet money that many of those were owners that thought they'd made arrangements but the people that were supposed to take on the responsibility failed them. I do think that euthanizing would be preferable to having a beloved pet that has known nothing but your love and care suddenly be thrust into a crowded shelter situation and then maybe subjected to home after home and god forbid abused in some way.

It is definitely food for thought, if nothing else.

I just want to say that you both have said exactly what I said; but my internet stalkers are trashing me for saying it. I have received emails and PMs about this.

These people are suspended and/or banned on YT and still read this forum and run around bashing me and also the rescue I volunteer with. I want to express, once again, that my opinions I express on YT are MINE and MINE ALONE and not the opinions of YHR. YHR is a non profit organization with the sole mission of saving yorkies and yorkie mixes. Why these people want to bash such a wonderful organization is unconscionable.

Bottom line is that this is a very good thread that gives people a lot to think about. It is an important discussion for all pet owners.

[Sgt_Cooper]

know what u mean. Ive thought about designating part of my lif insurance to go to whomever takes him to help w expenses......

[nana911]

Originally Posted by ladyjane

I just want to say that you both have said exactly what I said; but my internet stalkers are trashing me for saying it. I have received emails and PMs about this.

These people are suspended and/or banned on YT and still read this forum and run around bashing me and also the rescue I volunteer with. I want to express, once again, that my opinions I express on YT are MINE and MINE ALONE and not the opinions of YHR. YHR is a non profit organization with the sole mission of saving yorkies and yorkie mixes. Why these people want to bash such a wonderful organization is unconscionable.

Bottom line is that this is a very good thread that gives people a lot to think about. It is an important discussion for all pet owners.

It may be distasteful but necessary for any responsible pet owner.

I fail to understand why anyone would assume that anything you say is the policy of the organization you work for unless you represent it as so.

At least you can enjoy knowing the fact that if these people are taking the time to harass you that is less time they have to cyber bully a less stable target and cause someone serious emotional harm. See, you're always helping, if when you don't know it.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by nana911

It may be distasteful but necessary for any responsible pet owner.

I fail to understand why anyone would assume that anything you say is the policy of the organization you work for unless you represent it as so.

At least you can enjoy knowing the fact that if these people are taking the time to harass you that is less time they have to cyber bully a less stable target and cause someone serious emotional harm. See, you're always helping, if when you don't know it.

That's the truth. Someone else might crumble. The wording used was really quite disgusting...I will not go into detail.
Yep...nice way of looking at it! I am helping people. Thank you! Very refreshing way of seeing things!

[YorkieZoo]

Well I may sound nuts but as with you guys we have also fretted about this.

We actually set up a "trust fund" for our dogs (we make small bi-weekly contributions via payroll deduction).

While we haven't figured out the "who" yet, we did want to make sure that whoever does in the event, that they aren't burdened with expenses and cannot bear the financial burden.

You can actually set up this type of trust with a financial advisor. Ours is set so that expenses have to be at a vet, groomer, or from a pet store (food).

Just in case someone went nuts and decided to use the money for a tv or something. I don't think anyone we trusted enough with our babies would do something like that, but, I am a bit cynical and figured it was the best way to go with the funds.

It's not huge, but we have been at it for few years and it should cover enough food for about 4 years and routine vet visits for 4.

We still contribute to it and would like to have enough to cover at least one or two large procedures should they ever arise.

or maybe we are just nerds.

[Cares4Dogs]

Wow, this hasnt even crossed my mind. I trust though that my family would find loving homes. My granny died and nobody was in a position to take her dogs and my sister found them a very good home together and checks in on them periodically.

My aunt found out she has advanced breast cancer. She & her husband decided they wanted each other and their dog cremated, their ashes mixed together and then buried. Their dog is really old so they really have no idea who is gonna go first. It saddens me to think of it.

I think if I died before my dogs do, I'd have a LOT more to worry about....like my human kids.