My baby 10 month old got tie with my 2 yr old male!! Help!

[Teegy]

Originally Posted by speleogirl37

She didn't have the money to get her male neutered, but she had the money to add another dog?

Now now we don't know how she got the other dog and it may have been cheaper than a neuter.
Not all of us are aware of the freebies provided in our neighbourhoods and that's why we come here for advice.

why not find out where the person is located and try to help her locate a free spay neuter clinic nearby instead of insulting her with impolite remarks

[Rhetts_mama]

Originally Posted by kdhawks

My thoughts exactly. The male should have been neutered (IMO early), but definitely before bringing a female puppy home. Basic responsibility and this entire situation could have been avoided. You must take care of your current pets before adding any new ones!

Whatever the situation, I hope the OP will listen to the advice sh, e has been given and take her pets in to be spayed and neutered. That little girl is way to young to have pups! Poor little baby.

IMO, the only honest reason for not having a pet/spayed or neutered in 2 years is because someone intended to breed them at some point (baring a true medical condition that prevented the dog from undergoing surgery- at which point no one has any business getting a second dog of the opposite gender).

One would think that anyone who has been a member of this forum for 2 years would be aware of the availability of low cost spay/neuter clinics. But again, that's just my opinion. They would also be aware that diapers and crating won't prevent a tie. I really hope the little baby isn't going to have her own litter.

[kjcmsw]

Originally Posted by speleogirl37

She didn't have the money to get her male neutered, but she had the money to add another dog?

I don't know, I guess I didn't see where she said she bought another dog...maybe someone gave it to her?? I didn't want to assume such.

[scrapindee]

Sorry, it doesn't matter how she acquired the girl. The boy should have been neutered in the 14 months before she got the girl. They were asking for this to happen. No mention of taking the boy to a friend or neighbors when the girl came into heat.

Too many versions of this scenario here on YT. Why don't people take responsibility for their actions before this happens--not after when it is too late.

[lee17]

excuse me, ppl. I didn't know our little one was in heat and yes we are going to spayed and netuer all of them, but don't have the money due to one spouse working and that's me! Now she is spayed and everything is under control. We spoil them very much and love them. We only want the best for them. How many ppl do you know or seen sell their pets b/c they don't have a job anymore? Too many..if you can't learn to love and be commited to a pet don't have any at all!

[edwardsmom]

Well my baby Edward is currently not neutered and i have no intentions of breeding him i just have not done it. If i was bringing a girl home then i would definitely do it but right now i feel like he is perfect how he is i know there are some risks of him developing a tumor or something but i feel like if u are careful and feed well and take good care of your pet then its not that bad if you have not fixed them for whatever reason. I think she should have fixedher boy but I also agree that we cant judge her b/c of her mistake I bet this will never happen again to her.

[lee17]

This is our first time and our boy wasn't fix yet due to our income, lucky I found somewhere they can do it for free. I came here to ask for advice not to judge on ppl w/ their situaition.

[xoxJuliexox]

Originally Posted by speleogirl37

I truly don't mean this to be mean. But....I never understand the "I can't afford it right now" excuses. We have in most states, if not all, low cost spay/neuter programs. You can get it done for $50-$60. This is great if you can't afford what your vet charges. Now this poor BABY may be pregnant, and it may now cost alot more than having her fixed would have. Good luck to you, I really hope she isn't pregnant!!

I'm in California and I have looked around for low cost clinics ythere are none here that will do it for under $100 and the helpers have month long waiting list so I can see why it might be difficult for her in her area.

[xoxJuliexox]

Originally Posted by lee17

This is our first time and our boy wasn't fix yet due to our income, lucky I found somewhere they can do it for free. I came here to ask for advice not to judge on ppl w/ their situaition.

I feel like a lot of people are being very rude here, ya she should have got him fixed but things come up and sometimes things happen you can't control. Everyone jere is to offer advice not give negative comments, didn't your mothers teach you, if you don't jaw nothing nice to say, don't say anything t all. I understand contructive criticism but come on people be a little compassionate.

[lee17]

We caught her during her heating cycle and got it done b4 she can deliver any babies..she is still too tiny to have any herself and don't want ANYTHING to happen to her. Yes, things can happen out of our control but only if we can seek for help for future references. Isn't this site for those whom "love" their yorkies w/out jugding anyone? or am I wrong about this place.

[PANAMA69]

Originally Posted by lee17

We caught her during her heating cycle and got it done b4 she can deliver any babies..she is still too tiny to have any herself and don't want ANYTHING to happen to her. Yes, things can happen out of our control but only if we can seek for help for future references. Isn't this site for those whom "love" their yorkies w/out jugding anyone? or am I wrong about this place.

This is a great site with great people who are passionate about this breed. I'm very sorry that happened to your girl, they depend from us for everything, I have meet two people that this happen to them, thank God none of this two females got pregnant, is sad but is more common that we think accidents happens, I understand, but we have to take extreme measures when we have girl and a boy. We got Mindy and Skiseck, my two senior cats as a ,kitten, one if female and the other is a male, we spay them and neuter them asap that we could, we didn't want a "accident" to happen, because I knew, I will keep all the kittens, I will be known as a cat lady. Glad you decided to get them fix, can't take chance with this little ones at all
PS> The cats were given to us, they need it home, we didn't have much$$$ back them either, our county were we lived, paid for most of it, we fill out a paper and I think we only paid like $30 bucks, I don't remember for every one or as a total was long time ago, the only think we had to go with the vet that they told us.

[lee17]

PANAMA69
Donating YT 500 Club Member
Where did you get that play pen? We have a pink one that is bigger but I love the one you have. Its cute! And all ur babies are beauitful!

[WV~Yorkies]

Originally Posted by lee17

Hello,

My husband and I did not want this to happen. Our little Emma who is 10 month old was in heat and we caught her sticking her butt to the older male. Well we were home and TRY VERY HARD to void her getting tie. He got her twice when we thought she was safe from the male. We put on clothes, and diapers but did not work. Our 2 yr old male got her and now we are terrible stress that she can be having babies..Do anyone know if we can get her a shot or a after pill to void her litters if she is?? We were going to get her netuer but short on money will do it soon! Help!

Originally Posted by lee17

excuse me, ppl. I didn't know our little one was in heat and yes we are going to spayed and netuer all of them, but don't have the money due to one spouse working and that's me! Now she is spayed and everything is under control. We spoil them very much and love them. We only want the best for them. How many ppl do you know or seen sell their pets b/c they don't have a job anymore? Too many..if you can't learn to love and be commited to a pet don't have any at all!

If you didn't know then why in your first post was your trying to keep them apart?

Clothes and diapers do not work. They have to be completly seperated while it heat. Yes it is a pain and alot of crying all night but that is what has to be done.

Will you be having her spayed now or are you going to let her try to have the pups?

[lee17]

Yes, she is spayed! Everything is under control

[WV~Yorkies]

Originally Posted by lee17

Yes, she is spayed! Everything is under control

Glad to hear!