It's always nice to know. . .

[Disney]

Originally Posted by VomLeo

To be honest? I'm lazy.
I don't feel like surfing for 'evidence' right now to prove the obvious.
LOL, oh trust me...I never expected my questions to be answered.

It seems you are putting your own emotions into my post.
It was not intended to be rude- only informative & firm.
The only 'rude' part would be what I highlighted in italics here in this post.

If you don't want answers why ask question?

And I ask for evidence because my English isn't the best and I wouldn't know what to look for, I would be very easily duped and wouldn't know what is good source, not to be deliberately obtuse.

Okay, if you don't want to prove your point because 'you lazy' don't expect anyone to think you're not just lying for your own agenda or expect anyone to think you can see both sides of argument.

If you intend on posting some helpful article for me and coming back sans the attitude, I be more than happy to answer all your questions.


Danielle, I know you love Cody and will do what best for him. It's relly good to hear you has all these options, as I misunderstood when you said there was only two. I know you'll do what is best for him!

Oh and VomLeo? Your 'informative and firm' is my 'condescending and rude'

[jackson25]

Originally Posted by VomLeo

This will be my last post on this thread.

It is fact Disney. It's called numerous studies with a drop of common sense.
I never said that every dog reacts the same. I said that all dogs will move on.
Which IS fact. No it has nothing to because "I saw it" or "I said so"- lets not be childish here. It has everything to do with years of experience in the field Disney. How long have you been training dogs and studying their behavior may I ask? How much real life experience do you have with this topic in depth Disney? Answer me that Batman. How any of you begin to talk about Dani's commitment to her dog or love for him is nearsighted & plain rude. How dare you question her commitment to her dog! Who is (as we all know) her baby. That is like telling a mother that she isn't fully committed to raising her own children!

"I'm sorry, but saying you're right because of what you have experienced and what you see is 'fact' is not right. I've seen dogs go through great stress and not deal well at all with similar arrangement. Does that mean I'm right because of what I've seen? Does that make my opinion fact? No."

How was the handler at this time treating the dog? What methods did they take to ensure the dogs reaction and adaptation to the situation? How did they interact with the dog during the time when it was still stressed? Answer me this...then we'll talk.

That my friend is your problem! Here in lies the issue! Dogs should not be babied because of their breeding or genetics. They are all dogs just as much as we are all humans. Dogs do not differ in thought mode because of where they came from. I am willing to bet you $100 bucks that the only 'issue' Cody will develope if any is separation anxiety. I'm dead serious. I am willing to bet cash- and I don't even bet.

Your last paragraph was just...wow.
Scroll up and re-read my post here. Then read what you said- and vise versa.

Many members including myself, believe our yorkies ARE our babies. For you to make a comment like that is pretty rude considering you are on a YORKIE forum where members chat and share stories about our beloved yorkie babies!

[CJxDanielle]

Originally Posted by Disney

Danielle, I know you love Cody and will do what best for him. It's relly good to hear you has all these options, as I misunderstood when you said there was only two. I know you'll do what is best for him!

I believe I might have not expressed the other options in my original post, that would be a fault on my part

Originally Posted by jackson25

What do college student mothers do with there children when they go off to college?

A lot of the teenage mothers I know are having the baby stay with there parents, visiting when allowed (breaks, traveling back and forth if permitted, etc).

I also know a few who are going to technical college, then transfering to stay with the baby as long as possible, but if they want a better life for them and the child involved some of my friends do realize that they will have to leave the baby at one point or another.

They might find those colleges that happen to have teen mom dorms though.

[jackson25]

Originally Posted by VomLeo

When my mother went to college I went and lived with my Grandfather in Colorado
I really like what you did with the red and the font...looks smashing if I don't say so myself.

I believe that!

I like it too, and I did it all by myself!

[Disney]

Originally Posted by CJxDanielle

I believe I might have not expressed the other options in my original post, that would be a fault on my part

No worries, you're so polite and open to suggestion without being offended, it refreshing! *Goes to thank a member thread..

I like that we can disagree and still get along, set an example and show the older persons here teenagers can maturely disagree!

[Disney]

Originally Posted by jackson25

I believe that!

I like it too, and I did it all by myself!

Gold star!

[jackson25]

Originally Posted by CJxDanielle

I believe I might have not expressed the other options in my original post, that would be a fault on my part




A lot of the teenage mothers I know are having the baby stay with there parents, visiting when allowed (breaks, traveling back and forth if permitted, etc).

I also know a few who are going to technical college, then transfering to stay with the baby as long as possible, but if they want a better life for them and the child involved some of my friends do realize that they will have to leave the baby at one point or another.

They might find those colleges that happen to have teen mom dorms though.

Again, one has to do what one has to do, but whether it makes it the right choice for the parties involved is a different story. A child should have their mother & father involved in their life. An education is very important, but your children & their well being always come first, same with ones pets!

[CJxDanielle]

Originally Posted by Disney

No worries, you're so polite and open to suggestion without being offended, it refreshing! *Goes to thank a member thread..

I like that we can disagree and still get along, set an example and show the older persons here teenagers can maturely disagree!

Better than some of the old folks here I might add
But yes, no need to argue with someone who clearly wants what his best for my dog. Arguing isn't going to solve much is it? We have seen that many times on YT post.

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Its just when people imply that I dont/wont love and care for my dog, that is interest isn't what is being thought of, and that I don't know what commitment is. That is when I get in a pissy mood. . .

[jackson25]

Originally Posted by Disney

Gold star!

WooHoo, I got a gold star and you don't!

[JERSEY BOY]

Sometimes things don't always go as we plan or intended. Life can takes us places we never planned on. When i had my daughter 27 years ago I never imagined that I would become the sole support and would have to leave her with my mother, aunts and uncles on some over nites and work double shifts in order to do what was best for us. It wasn't the ideal situation or one that I ever wanted, however it all worked out. I think to take the time to come up with a game plan is a very responsible and caring action to take. It may not be the ideal situation or what the OP planned on but it is possible for all to work out.

[CJxDanielle]

Originally Posted by jackson25

An education is very important, but your children & their well being always come first, same with ones pets!

Well if I don't get an education, me and Cody won't have much of a future. I'm only interested in what is best for my Codykins & I.

Look at VomLeo, she lived with her grandfather for many years (this I know) and is now back with her mother, whom she loves and adores dearly and I have to admit and love her mom too
She hasn't suffered any scars or damage? She is just fine

[jackson25]

Originally Posted by CJxDanielle

Better than so of the old folks here I might add
But yes, no need to argue with someone who clearly wants what is best for my dog. Arguing isn't going to solve much is it? We have seen that many times on YT post.

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Its just when people imply that I dont/wont love and care for my dog, that is interest isn't what is being thought of, and that I don't know what commitment is. That is when I get in a pissy mood. . .

Not implying that you don't absolutely love Cody.....just hoping that some of the advice given might enlighten you to explore other avenues so that Cody can be a part of the next stage of your life as well, after all you are him momma!

[VomLeo]

"If you don't want answers why ask question?"

Because I find it interesting to prove my point. Not to mention I believe in the freedom to banter.

"Okay, if you don't want to prove your point because 'you lazy' don't expect anyone to think you're not just lying for your own agenda or expect anyone to think you can see both sides of argument."

This is where I get lost. What did I say that makes you think I care if a stranger believes me hole heartily? I am pretty secure in myself and I don't really think I'll be crushed if you stomp all over my computer screen.

"If you intend on posting some helpful article for me and coming back sans the attitude, I be more than happy to answer all your questions."

I don't. Sorry.

"Oh and VomLeo? Your 'informative and firm' is my 'condescending and rude'"

Yeah, you can call it that as well. Fits the description a lot better than what I put. Cudos. Seriously...why? I really did mean the post to be informative and firm. However if you would like it to be twisted then by all means have fun reading it over and over again.

[Disney]

Originally Posted by CJxDanielle

Better than so of the old folks here I might add
But yes, no need to argue with someone who clearly wants what is best for my dog. Arguing isn't going to solve much is it? We have seen that many times on YT post.

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Its just when people imply that I dont/wont love and care for my dog, that is interest isn't what is being thought of, and that I don't know what commitment is. That is when I get in a pissy mood. . .

I total understand, I very upset when my friend say 'It your fault Terry stabbed.' I don't think anyone here means you are bad owner though!

Originally Posted by jackson25

WooHoo, I got a gold star and you don't!

Hey, I got an honourable mention before for bolding parts of post!

[Disney]

Originally Posted by CJxDanielle

Well if I don't get an education, me and Cody won't have much of a future. I'm only interested in what is best for my Codykins & I.

Look at VomLeo, she lived with her grandfather for many years (this I know) and is now back with her mother, whom she loves and adores dearly and I have to admit and love her mom too
She hasn't suffered any scars or damage? She is just fine

Lol I don't think you can compare human to dog in that regard, as much as I loathe to admit. VomLeo would have understood why she was being shifted around. I think Cody will just think, Oii, where did my puppy friend go? hehe