Sometimes things don't always go as we plan or intended. Life can takes us places we never planned on. When i had my daughter 27 years ago I never imagined that I would become the sole support and would have to leave her with my mother, aunts and uncles on some over nites and work double shifts in order to do what was best for us. It wasn't the ideal situation or one that I ever wanted, however it all worked out. I think to take the time to come up with a game plan is a very responsible and caring action to take. It may not be the ideal situation or what the OP planned on but it is possible for all to work out.
__________________ Laurie, Jersey Boy  and Miss Brielle |