Everyone: can we TURN UP the COMPASSION here?

[Buster Brown]

It was not long before I realized there was a history with many here as well as anywhere else in life. What is posted does not always reflect the whole story. There is often a "between the lines" intent, "left-over" grudges, alterior motives, or sometimes just such a long list of previous "axes ground" that it is difficult to read the words for themselves. Not speaking of any particular individual or thread -- just saying don't be too quick to make decisions about members. The stories are often long and entwined. I don't want this to sound too negative. It is just a fact of life and not something unique to this forum. We have the best of the best here and it is well worth the time to determine who they really are.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by AllDogBoots

....even for the Jewish girl over here

Good....but, one has to know my dear Donna's twisted mind and learn how to read between her lines to get the jest of what's she's really conveying.

And it has nothing to do with anyone's religious beliefs.

[AllDogBoots]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

Good....but, one has toknow my dear Donna's twisted mind and learn how to read between her lines to get the jest of what's she's really conveying.

And it has nothing todo with anyone's religious beliefs.

No, I'm wise. I can see she's heeding advice from this thread.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

I have always been upset when people tell others to be "ashamed of themselves." Those are very unkind words. I have always admired Barney, because she's one of the vendors that does have strong convictions, and isn't on YT just to sell stuff. So YT isn't just a business venture for her. BRAVO!

It always amazes me how someone scolds someone because of their convictions, how they answered, telling them how to behave and in doing so.....they are doing it themselves with nastiness and venom.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

I have always been upset when people tell others to be "ashamed of themselves." Those are very unkind words. I have always admired Barney, because she's one of the vendors that does have strong convictions, and isn't on YT just to sell stuff. So YT isn't just a business venture for her. BRAVO!

Sadly we have seen way too much of that lately. People telling others how to behave and berating them .. yet, they don't see their own words as harsh.
This entire thing is just about that other thread .. it was NOT started to spread good cheer and/or be compassionate. It is about some people pointing their fingers at who they see as mean and/or bullies, yet they don't see that they are themselves acting just as badly or worse than what they are accusing others of being.
This all started over a bad breeder thread...and sorry if it offends some, but that thread was on target. That ad for that puppy was disgusting and if the breeders who are friendly with that breeder want to stick with her, it tells me more than I want to know about them as well. She was not bashed...the truth was laid out for all to see; but since she is friends with certain people it was deemed a bashing. And...for how many days has this carried on?
Seriously people...it really should stop now. You cannot sit and talk trash and thinly veil it with words of compassion. It's like putting lipstick on a pig.

[Brooklynn]

Originally Posted by AllDogBoots

....even for the Jewish girl over here

nothing wrong with joining in in alittle cheer fest

[107barney]

Originally Posted by Breezeaway

You should ashamed for such a statement!!!!!
You as a business owner should have more respect for others than you are showing here in your posts.
I personally will not purchase anything from you again after seeing the callous way you treat people and I'm sure some others feel the same way.
Putting yourself in the middle of controversy and ranting about people is plain and simple bad business practices. Wishing you a misanthropic day.

Merry Christmas

I think it is pretty low for you to insert yourself into my business which is none of yours. But since you brought it up, let's talk about my business. You are not required to purchase from me nor is anyone. But, you'd be missing out. Many vendors here look up to my business practices and some have even asked to work with me. I have some of the most favorable seller reviews on YT, treat my customers very nicely and make beautiful items with my bare hands. My business is donating a portion of our pajama proceeds this holiday season to Yorkie Haven Rescue, and although they don't know it yet, I am making a personal match. I guess they know it now.

[Brooklynn]

Originally Posted by AllDogBoots

No, I'm wise. I can see she's heeding advice from this thread.

Staying on topic

[chachi]

Originally Posted by Buster Brown

It was not long before I realized there was a history with many here as well as anywhere else in life. What is posted does not always reflect the whole story. There is often a "between the lines" intent, "left-over" grudges, alterior motives, or sometimes just such a long list of previous "axes ground" that it is difficult to read the words for themselves. Not speaking of any particular individual or thread -- just saying don't be too quick to make decisions about members. The stories are often long and entwined. I don't want this to sound too negative. It is just a fact of life and not something unique to this forum. We have the best of the best here and it is well worth the time to determine who they really are.

Very true. Some of the people on here that are being called angry or nasty are the most helpful members in this forum always going out of their way to help someone in sick or injured or a new member needing help or advice about something. People really need to take the time to get to know all members new and old for themselves

[Brooklynn]

Silent night, holy night, all is calm, all is bright!

Hark the hearld angels singgg glory to the new born king...

Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle all the way!

Happy holidays!!!

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by 107barney

I think it is pretty low for you to insert yourself into my business which is none of yours. But since you brought it up, let's talk about my business. You are not required to purchase from me nor is anyone. But, you'd be missing out. Many vendors here look up to my business practices and some have even asked to work with me. I have some of the most favorable seller reviews on YT, treat my customers very nicely and make beautiful items with my bare hands. My business is donating a portion of our pajama proceeds this holiday season to Yorkie Haven Rescue, and although they don't know it yet, I am making a personal match. I guess they know it now.

You are not one to hold your tongue, sacrifice you convictions or beliefs for the sake of the almighty dollar. Now if you did that, I would question your integrity.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by Brooklynn

Silent night, holy night, all is calm, all is bright!

Hark the hearld angels singgg glory to the new born king...

Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle all the way!

Happy holidays!!!

Now will the real Donna please stand up? Somebody stole her.

[Brooklynn]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

Now will the real Donna please stand up? Somebody stole her.

I'm telling ya, the Lunar Eclipse has taken over my mind and body...it's in sugar over load

[ArmaniMan]

I usually *try* to stay out of all of this- but I do want to say one thing.

Cathy is one of the best sellers here on YT- beyond the fact that her items are beautiful and top quality- her service is one of a kind. She goes above and beyond to make sure that the items are exactly what you wanted. She went WAY out of her way to make sure a diaper I ordered fit Chloe, taking back one that was already made and making me a totally new one free of charge- when it wasn't her fault at all that it hadn't fit the first time. Aside from her business, she is very active here and always willing to help someone or stand up for what she thinks is right.

I truly hope everyone has a nice Christmas- I am heading to the movies with the rest of the Jews

[Breezeaway]

Originally Posted by chachi

Now who is getting personal and angry

Oh but I am not angry, I find it truly funny how all you go on and on about letting it go but you keep on posting.
It is very entertaining, Carry on