Everyone: can we TURN UP the COMPASSION here?

[lillymae]

Originally Posted by jmdt

in my opinion one must walk in anothers shoes to criticize or judge them. I believe in compassion. People come here for help and advice. Sometimes just to tell us the crazy antics our babies do. I say tread lightly it might be you someday that needs the compassion. We don't come here for a lecture.
Let's try to stick to the subject of the thread.

Amen !

[AllDogBoots]

If people are leaving because of drama then they are part of the drama.

[chachi]

Originally Posted by AllDogBoots

If people are leaving because of drama then they are part of the drama.

I respectfully disagree. Some drama people do leave but Ive seen alot that just participate in positive threads leave becuse they are tired of how the forum going. Honestly Ive been here 5 yrs and Ive never seen such turnaround.

[manolos mom]

Originally Posted by AllDogBoots

If people are leaving because of drama then they are part of the drama.

Agree, they are on other Forums stirring the pot.

[AllDogBoots]

Originally Posted by chachi

I respectfully disagree. Some drama people do leave but Ive seen alot that just participate in positive threads leave becuse they are tired of how the forum going. Honestly Ive been here 5 yrs and Ive never seen such turnaround.

I suppose that I'm the type of person that can turn the other cheek or ignore if something bothers me. But I do hear what you are saying. The forum really is becoming difficult to peruse through without seeing some kind of drama somewhere. I haven't thought about the people that just leave because they don't want to be here.

[BaxtersMommy]

Originally Posted by manolos mom

Agree, they are on other Forums stirring the pot.

I don't understand why they don't just let it go. They continue to come here hiding their IP addresses and fueling the fire. It is dumb. That is why I decided to just start a silly thread. Sometimes you just gotta laugh!

[AllDogBoots]

Originally Posted by BaxtersMommy

I don't understand why they don't just let it go. They continue to come here hiding their IP addresses and fueling the fire. It is dumb. That is why I decided to just start a silly thread. Sometimes you just gotta laugh!

Perhaps they would let it go if both sides would let it go? Can't they (whomever that is) just be ignored and perhaps the fuel will run out?

[107barney]

Originally Posted by AllDogBoots

If people are leaving because of drama then they are part of the drama.

Totally agree with this. That is why you hear about their grand departures.

[chachi]

Originally Posted by AllDogBoots

Perhaps they would let it go if both sides would let it go? Can't they (whomever that is) just be ignored and perhaps the fuel will run out?

Thats what everyone needs to do. This is not the first forum created to bash YT members and admins and it wont be the last I am sure

[BaxtersMommy]

Originally Posted by AllDogBoots

Perhaps they would let it go if both sides would let it go? Can't they (whomever that is) just be ignored and perhaps the fuel will run out?

Very true. Hopefully it will stop now that Bonny requested that thread to be closed.

[manolos mom]

Originally Posted by BaxtersMommy

I don't understand why they don't just let it go. They continue to come here hiding their IP addresses and fueling the fire. It is dumb. That is why I decided to just start a silly thread. Sometimes you just gotta laugh!

Agree, Dana there is so much going on behind the scenes. People who left YT complained about it being so negative and hostile but they continue the Drama on their "lets be positve forums" and continue to come back to YT and stir up more drama. Please, YT is not going away and never will. It will only become Better and Stonger after all of this is said and done.

[rbelland]

[QUOTE=manolos mom;3188349]Agree, Dana there is so much going on behind the scenes. People who left YT complained about it being so negative and hostile but they continue the Drama on their "lets be positve forums" and continue to come back to YT and stir up more drama. Please, YT is not going away and never will. It will only become Better and Stonger after all of this is said and done.[/QUOTE]

Could not have said that better.

[cj125]

Originally Posted by chachi

I respectfully disagree. Some drama people do leave but Ive seen alot that just participate in positive threads leave becuse they are tired of how the forum going. Honestly Ive been here 5 yrs and Ive never seen such turnaround.

I have to agree with you on this too, Chachi.

[Lou]

I have to agree with Chachi too!
Ya'll remember a member we used to have name Crystal's Mom? she was the sweetest thing but eventually stopped posting because the drama was getting to her. After all it is about the dogs not the people.

[lillymae]

You see, this is my point. Still talking about people that aren't even here. Move on, Let it GO !!!