Question Of The Year!!!!!! Help!

[Beabble]

In all honesty, I'd have to say it would have to be a joint decision on both my husband and I's part. If he wasn't for another furkid and I knew his heart wasn't totally and completely in it 110%, then I couldn't do it. It wouldn't be fair to my husband or to the pup. When you bring the pup into the house, you want it to be loved by both the Mom and Dad, not just by you. Why take a chance and "hope" he may fall head over heals in love with another one? What if it backfires and he really never cares for him and wants nothing to do with the pup? You'd feel bad and he'd probably have feelings of resentment like perhaps his feeling didn't matter enough? My suggestion is, talk to your boyfriend and ask what his reasons are for feeling the way he does, if they are real concerns for him, they should be for you as well. I know it's really hard to say no to a new puppy, but I think having a strained relationship would be a lot harder. Best of luck to you.

[Beabble]

Oops, sorry, I should have read through the entire list of posts and replies before responding. Well, at least now you don't have to worry about making this choice now

[erino77]

Originally Posted by melmel84

UPDATE --Once again

So apparently there won't be any puppy making after all. The woman could not get her little one in to the vet in time to get her cleared for brucellous and cytology , so there won't be any breeding with this little one until her next heat =(

Thank you all for your opinions on the matter. I definately would have went for the puppy! Thank YT Talkers!

aww maybe next time I'm glad to hear you require the testing to be done before hand
Your little Onit is out there, I'm sure things will fall into place when the time is right. This must have been how it was meant to be for now. Keep us updated on any future Onit possibilities!

[xxmxaxrxyxx]

Another yorkie!

[maxmom]

Originally Posted by chattiesmom

Coming from an old lady who has been married 27 years.....

I would talk to the BF and come to a mutual decision. Sometimes you have to sacrafice an immediate "I WANT" for the good of a relationship.

I would take the $$.

Without thinking about it twice, I would say-Go for the Puppy, unfortunately, things are not that easy.Something that my mom always says, and still now, I hate to hear:
-Prioritize
That will help make the right decision.
Good luck

[spoiledgirls]

Congrats! They look a lot alike! You can see the family resemblance!

[melmel84]

HAHA! Tino is on schedule with another Little one named Zoe for next wednesday. This other woman called me this morning to inform me that her little gal had gone into heat. So Tino will still get some luvin after all LOL!

He likes the ladies~