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12-14-2007, 03:50 PM | #1 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Fort Hood, Texas
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| So sad, will I ever get over the fear of getting a new baby?? As some of ya'll know, I had gotten a new baby, and she was very ill and had to return her But I can't get out of my head and keep reliving each horrible moment I lived with her in the few hours I had her Like when I woke up after 3 hours of sleep and found her cold and almost dead . I can't forget Do ya'll think I will get over it?? Even my husband is in shock to know I dont want another baby because I am so afraid.
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12-14-2007, 03:56 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California
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| I understand your pain and am so sorry you had to give your baby back... I think that anything can heal with time....
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12-14-2007, 03:57 PM | #3 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Fort Hood, Texas
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| Thanks, It is hard to understand how much I wanted a new babygirl and it turned into a nightmare
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12-14-2007, 04:01 PM | #4 |
Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California
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| It hasn't been very long since it happened. In time you will probably feel better. I hope you are able to get a new baby and enjoy her. It is good you have your Husband to share it with. Feel better soon.
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12-14-2007, 04:02 PM | #5 | |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Orange County, California
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Aw Hon, what you are feeling is totally understandable. That image is still to fresh in your mind, so of course it puts that same feeling of apprehension in your head at the thought of going through that again. Give it time. Only you will know when you are ready to bring a new baby home. Please remember though, that as awful is it was, this was a one time experience that will not happen again. Concentrate on thinking of a happy, healthy baby that is in your future. Think of all the demented, glorious puppy moments like zoomies, chasing your toes, yapping at a toy, doing laps at top speed around anything and everything, bouncing into the air for no particular reason other than the utter joy of being a splendid baby Yorkie. Think of cuddles at night when all that energy is depletedand waking up to sweet Yorkie, Puppy Breath kisses in the morning. That is what you must think of because that is what is in store for you when you try again. Trust me, it will happen. Hugs to you; I am so sorry you have gone through this, Lauren
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12-14-2007, 04:02 PM | #6 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: A little town south of Chicago
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| You've been through a very scary situation but you know you have learned form the experience. If you continue to fear getting a puppy why not think about an adult? |
12-14-2007, 04:02 PM | #7 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Fort Hood, Texas
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| Yeah, you are right about the time, it hasn't been that long Maybe one day
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12-14-2007, 04:03 PM | #8 |
YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: nebraska
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| Your pain will ease over time. I was there once too and a wise woman said to me think of all the love you have to share and the love that will be given in return. |
12-14-2007, 04:05 PM | #9 | |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Fort Hood, Texas
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12-14-2007, 04:07 PM | #10 |
Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: wiith my furbabys
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| Iam so sorry you are feeling so Only time can help ease you pain, I know how you feel, I have lost a babie before and its hard to except, I was scared to, but it did help me after all.
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12-14-2007, 04:09 PM | #11 |
BANNED! | I am sorry for the pain you went thru. I would like to think when the time is right for you to get another baby you will know it in your heart. Time heals our pain and losses so take your time and know we are here for you thru this healing process. |
12-14-2007, 04:10 PM | #12 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Fort Hood, Texas
Posts: 2,107
| Thank You ladies for understanding my feelings I can't help it, specially when I come into YT and see all the new babies, maybe I should not open those threads anymore............Maybe I am torturing myself
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12-14-2007, 04:10 PM | #13 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: CENTRAL TEXAS
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| I can totally relate to how you are feeling......My best friend gave me a pup out of her yorkies litter...I named him Marshall after her....He was everything I ever wanted in a little Yorkie.....I had him 3 weeks and he had a seizure and died in my arms......I literally thought I was going to lose it.....It took time...I swore I would never get another yorkie or even a pup ever again....A couple months later....Hubby took me to see a girl that was for sale....I took one look at her and fell in love....But he said no.....She was dirty, smelly and he felt totally uncomfortable at the breeders...So we left.....While in the truck on the way home....(We drove about 4 hrs to go see her)....I got on the laptop and got on YT....I saw a post about 2 little boys......Called her and we went to see them...Brought Barney home....Went back 3 weeks later and got Benny.....So it does hurt and it does take time....But I promise you...The right one will come along... It still hurts at times...My BF can't get over that I have the boys....She thought my Yorkie fever was over for sure.... So hang in there...It will get better Joyce
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12-14-2007, 04:15 PM | #14 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Fort Hood, Texas
Posts: 2,107
| Thanks that is a sad story with a beautiful perfect ending, maybe with time my heart will heal and I will find my baby girl somewhere.
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12-14-2007, 04:17 PM | #15 |
Mz_s3ski_Kitt3n Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: AZ
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| I am sorry you went through this I couldn't imagine. I think time heals the heart, and too knowing that she had to go back to get better because she was sicky!! I sure hope that you can feel better and heal from your horrible experience. Sending you my best wishes and prayers! |
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