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HallTx1203 · 12-13-2007, 06:57 AM

First wanted to say I am so sorry that you are having family troubles.....They are the worst.....My thought after reading the posts...If mom gave one of your babies to your brother, Maybe you could talk to your brother and he could talk to your mom on your behalf....

daisy mae06 · 12-13-2007, 07:06 AM

I really Am so very sorry for all your Troubles...
Not saying you are deceiving but There has got to be more to this...
I just can not see a mother doing this to their Child.
I really am so sorry.

MorkieAZ · 12-13-2007, 07:07 AM

Why couldn't the police help you if the papers are in your name??
Hope things improve for you.

hayleesmommy · 12-19-2007, 06:18 AM

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Originally Posted by daisy mae06

I really Am so very sorry for all your Troubles...
Not saying you are deceiving but There has got to be more to this...
I just can not see a mother doing this to their Child.
I really am so sorry.

My mom found out she had 3 tumors in her head in the middle of july. She wouldn't go into the doctor for them. and still hasn't to this day. Beginging of this month she kinda went downhill. acusing everyone of trying to "kill" her. she kicked my dad out , my brother out. and then me. and now shes kicked out my 8 yr old brother, acusing him of trying to kill her too. and hes autistic. and has no idea what that even means. We're guessing the tumors have grown, and in some way effected her mentaly. the way i put it before didn't really explain.

anyways i got my baby back sunday night! my grandpa came up to be with my mom. and gave her to me while my mom was gone.

bjh · 12-19-2007, 06:23 AM

My prayers go out to you, your mom and your family during these difficult times. I pray that your mother will get the help she needs. Hang in there and be strong.

daisy mae06 · 12-19-2007, 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by hayleesmommy

My mom found out she had 3 tumors in her head in the middle of july. She wouldn't go into the doctor for them. and still hasn't to this day. Beginging of this month she kinda went downhill. acusing everyone of trying to "kill" her. she kicked my dad out , my brother out. and then me. and now shes kicked out my 8 yr old brother, acusing him of trying to kill her too. and hes autistic. and has no idea what that even means. We're guessing the tumors have grown, and in some way effected her mentaly. the way i put it before didn't really explain.

anyways i got my baby back sunday night! my grandpa came up to be with my mom. and gave her to me while my mom was gone.

I am so sorry for all you are going though. I hope you all can get her to go to a Dr. Sounds like she Could really use one.

Are you going to get both babies back?

Tiggerwit · 12-19-2007, 07:46 AM

Sounds like maybe your family needs to intervene and get your mom some help and some medication. Maybe call social services. If the tumors are putting her at risk and she is dillusional, you guys could have her admitted to a facility and then she'd get treatment. I would be afraid that because she is dillusional, that she may harm herself. I know it would be hard but it sounds like someone needs to step it up and do something.

daisy mae06 · 12-19-2007, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Tiggerwit

Sounds like maybe your family needs to intervene and get your mom some help and some medication. Maybe call social services. If the tumors are putting her at risk and she is dillusional, you guys could have her admitted to a facility and then she'd get treatment. I would be afraid that because she is dillusional, that she may harm herself. I know it would be hard but it sounds like someone needs to step it up and do something.

I was thinking the same thing Whit but I just didn't know how to put it.. you said it really well.

chachi · 12-19-2007, 08:25 AM

Your Mom needs someone to take her to get her help. My Husbands Dad had a brain tumor and he was on antidepressants and steroids. It does affect them mentally and they can become quite violent without medicine

jen0225 · 12-19-2007, 10:14 AM

I saw where you got one back but what about the one that was given to your brother?

It looks like your grandpa might still have some positive influence on your mom (unless she figures out he gave you your dog back) but, you and the rest of your family might see if your grandpa can get your mom to sign a medical power of attorney because it sounds like the tumors are causing some serious damage. The damage may not be repairable this late in the process but at least the person holding the power of attorney could get her some treatment that might help with the delusions.

I hope that you and the rest of your family take care of each other, especially the 8 year old. My son has Asperger's (an Autism spectrum disease) so I know that your little brother feels like his world has been turned upside down & inside out...order is everything.

Good luck & I will pray for you & your family.

ellie81 · 12-19-2007, 10:21 AM

I'm glad you got Haylee back. I'm sorry all this is happening to you. Your mom really needs to go to the doctor ASAP. I'll pray for you and your family.

scrappysmom · 12-19-2007, 10:57 AM

so glad you got your baby back ,sure hope your grandpa can get your mom to see a doctor,sending prayers for your family .

scrapindee · 12-19-2007, 11:09 AM

Where is your 8 yo autistic brother? Did she put him out on the streets? Someone needs to contact social services, hospice, child protective services, if your mother is at risk of hurting herself or others.

I'm glad you got Haylee back but about the child?

sassyfire1956 · 12-19-2007, 11:23 AM

Maybe you should get a lawyer- and in most states- if that was your mailing address- she really had no right to kick you out- even if house is in her name- she has to give you notice,time, ect.
No the police can not do anything about it- you need to get a lawyer-he gets the judge to order the returm of property-or payment for the value of the property?
It is bad when it is family- could your brother get the other dog.
Or in some states you and your brother could get her sent for a medical exam-and she might thank you in the end- it might be a medical problem-chemical inbalence to make her change so fast!
I think you need to ge some kind of medical help for her- it could be she just needs some meds to get back to her old self!
I am sorry for you- it has to hurt- and make you mad- then hurt some more!
I would talk to a laywer- or check out small claims

Amy81 · 12-19-2007, 11:30 AM

I'm sorry this is happening to you and your family. but i read your last post and I'm glad you got one of your babies back!! I hope things get better soon!

You and your family are in my prayers

12-13-2007, 06:57 AM	#31
HallTx1203 Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: CENTRAL TEXAS Posts: 1,867	First wanted to say I am so sorry that you are having family troubles.....They are the worst.....My thought after reading the posts...If mom gave one of your babies to your brother, Maybe you could talk to your brother and he could talk to your mom on your behalf.... __________________ Joyce and Shelby

12-13-2007, 07:06 AM	#32
daisy mae06 Kodi & Pixie 2 Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: NEBRASKA Posts: 14,766	I really Am so very sorry for all your Troubles... Not saying you are deceiving but There has got to be more to this... I just can not see a mother doing this to their Child. I really am so sorry. __________________ OK Yorkie Rescue - http://okyorkierescue.org LorisCritterSitter.com

12-19-2007, 07:46 AM	#37
Tiggerwit Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX Posts: 4,596	Sounds like maybe your family needs to intervene and get your mom some help and some medication. Maybe call social services. If the tumors are putting her at risk and she is dillusional, you guys could have her admitted to a facility and then she'd get treatment. I would be afraid that because she is dillusional, that she may harm herself. I know it would be hard but it sounds like someone needs to step it up and do something. __________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy

12-19-2007, 08:25 AM	#39
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	Your Mom needs someone to take her to get her help. My Husbands Dad had a brain tumor and he was on antidepressants and steroids. It does affect them mentally and they can become quite violent without medicine __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

12-19-2007, 10:14 AM	#40
jen0225 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Denton, TX Posts: 112	I saw where you got one back but what about the one that was given to your brother? It looks like your grandpa might still have some positive influence on your mom (unless she figures out he gave you your dog back) but, you and the rest of your family might see if your grandpa can get your mom to sign a medical power of attorney because it sounds like the tumors are causing some serious damage. The damage may not be repairable this late in the process but at least the person holding the power of attorney could get her some treatment that might help with the delusions. I hope that you and the rest of your family take care of each other, especially the 8 year old. My son has Asperger's (an Autism spectrum disease) so I know that your little brother feels like his world has been turned upside down & inside out...order is everything. Good luck & I will pray for you & your family. __________________ mamma to: Trace, Hunter, Landon, Babsy, Gizmo, Taz & Katrina - my zoo

12-13-2007, 07:07 AM	#33
MorkieAZ Inactive Account Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Arizona Posts: 1,276	Why couldn't the police help you if the papers are in your name?? Hope things improve for you.

12-19-2007, 06:23 AM	#35
bjh Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Southeast Texas Posts: 7,959	My prayers go out to you, your mom and your family during these difficult times. I pray that your mother will get the help she needs. Hang in there and be strong.

12-19-2007, 10:21 AM	#41
ellie81 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Florida Posts: 5,314 Blog Entries: 1	I'm glad you got Haylee back. I'm sorry all this is happening to you. Your mom really needs to go to the doctor ASAP. I'll pray for you and your family. __________________ Ellie and Bengi Bengi Is Home!!! - http://youtu.be/8OKv35pk5Pk

12-19-2007, 10:57 AM	#42
scrappysmom Mommy's Baby Doo Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: DesMoines ,Ia Posts: 5,318	so glad you got your baby back ,sure hope your grandpa can get your mom to see a doctor,sending prayers for your family . __________________ mommy to Lizzie, charliegirl Rip Scrappy doo, Rip Sunday.

12-19-2007, 11:09 AM	#43
scrapindee Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Redlands Posts: 4,842 Blog Entries: 2	Where is your 8 yo autistic brother? Did she put him out on the streets? Someone needs to contact social services, hospice, child protective services, if your mother is at risk of hurting herself or others. I'm glad you got Haylee back but about the child? __________________ Scrapindee--Team Furry & the Biewers www.houseofwags.com

12-19-2007, 11:23 AM	#44
sassyfire1956 No Longer a Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Moberly,MO Posts: 180	Maybe you should get a lawyer- and in most states- if that was your mailing address- she really had no right to kick you out- even if house is in her name- she has to give you notice,time, ect. No the police can not do anything about it- you need to get a lawyer-he gets the judge to order the returm of property-or payment for the value of the property? It is bad when it is family- could your brother get the other dog. Or in some states you and your brother could get her sent for a medical exam-and she might thank you in the end- it might be a medical problem-chemical inbalence to make her change so fast! I think you need to ge some kind of medical help for her- it could be she just needs some meds to get back to her old self! I am sorry for you- it has to hurt- and make you mad- then hurt some more! I would talk to a laywer- or check out small claims

12-19-2007, 11:30 AM	#45
Amy81 No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Palatka, Florida Posts: 6,523	I'm sorry this is happening to you and your family. but i read your last post and I'm glad you got one of your babies back!! I hope things get better soon! You and your family are in my prayers