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LittleLolasMom · 10-10-2011, 06:46 AM

The first thing that jumps out at me at this post is why this person got a dog in the first place. Seems it was left to its own devices, had to teach or not teach itself basic things like where to relieve itself or not, was not trained and socialized properly, etc. Treating a dog like a toy for selfish reasons makes me so mad, this person didnt obviously put in the time or dedication to train the pup right, now years later i am not suprised by its behavior at all. i think it was a good effort to try to trian the pup, but why hasnt your gf in years?! and please dont lose your temper witha puppy, its not its fault. its like a child who has been left alone all day for years with no training, what would you expect...patience is a virtue.

Micah my love · 10-10-2011, 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

I for one have no patience with an adult human who says that they have hatred for a small animal due to its panic and pain and stress - and I guess I never will.

Hatred????

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Originally Posted by KazzyK810

If you're a person who finds it necessary to show your dominance over a 4lb dog and discipline it in a such a way that it is terrified of you. And in addition you express your hatred for said dog....it's probably wise not to post on a forum of dog lovers.

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Originally Posted by ladyjane

And, let's hope she has enough sense to pick the right one to surrender.

Well said my friends i agree with your every word..i allow no one to discipline my babies if they need to be thats my job

SassyAnn101 · 10-10-2011, 08:06 PM

Reading through the post I noticed that the OP openly admitted that had hatred for this tiny little baby. To me that says it all. Yorkies are very intelligent and can tell if they are in the presence of someone who loves them or not. I would not ever leave my babies with someone who made them feel uncomfortable or scared. This woman really needs to open her eyes and see what is going on. Either she needs to kick the jerk to the curb, or let this baby go to a rescue where it can be loved and cared for then placed in a home where it will never have to feel that kind of fear again.

Buster Brown · 10-11-2011, 02:24 PM

Well I do not think the OP is really that interested in answers as they have not logged back on since 10/06 and from what I can tell they have not read any posts because all posts were written after they had logged off. So it seems like someone is trying to stir things up. They must lead a rather boring life.

YorkieMother · 10-11-2011, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by QuickSilver

You may be interested in the animal trainer's mantra: "It is never the animal's fault." If an animal "misbehaves", you either train it to do what you want, or if that's not possible, control its environment so that the behavior can't happen.

If people who train killer whales, gorillas, tarantulas, and wolves accept this, perhaps you can soften your attitude towards this little guy.

yes but there are genetic reasons sometimes that even in a very controlled environment things can and do get wild cause that brain can and does miss fire to to a chemical imbalance.

JL

YorkieMother · 10-11-2011, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Buster Brown

Well I do not think the OP is really that interested in answers as they have not logged back on since 10/06 and from what I can tell they have not read any posts because all posts were written after they had logged off. So it seems like someone is trying to stir things up. They must lead a rather boring life.

You can read the posts without logging in and I have done it lots and lots.
I tend to do it when I know the post or thread may cause me to offer a comment that is not guarded or worded with though rather a knee jerk response.
So maybe he has read.
Or maybe he did what someone else suggested and moved out so it not longer his problem so he has moved on. Or maybe he is hard at work fixing things.
Lots of sides to one thing not just that someone is stirring the pot or does not care.

JL

Buster Brown · 10-12-2011, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by YorkieMother

You can read the posts without logging in and I have done it lots and lots.
I tend to do it when I know the post or thread may cause me to offer a comment that is not guarded or worded with though rather a knee jerk response.
So maybe he has read.
Or maybe he did what someone else suggested and moved out so it not longer his problem so he has moved on. Or maybe he is hard at work fixing things.
Lots of sides to one thing not just that someone is stirring the pot or does not care.

JL

True I have my computer set up so I automatically log on when I go to YT so I forgot you can just view. I also understand what you are saying about we never know what is truly going on. I just hope for the best for this dog and as in posts dealing with sick dogs you hope to hear things have worked out. When there are no replies you are left always wondering. But in life you did get to know all the answers too. I hope everything works out for the dog, the boyfriend and the owner.

Yorkiesatwork · 10-12-2011, 05:43 PM

ok... it's Yorkietalkjilley... my bad

Yorkiesatwork · 10-12-2011, 05:45 PM

one more time... it's yorkietalkjilly (no 'e'). Sorry

Taryn0405 · 10-12-2011, 05:45 PM

And the drama pot gets stirred again...

Yorkiesatwork · 10-12-2011, 05:52 PM

Do you folks not realize that many of us grew up with household companions that were DOGS?! We had a chow mix mutt growing up. He was the guardian of the household. No one came through the front door until he approved. Pee inside? OMG NO! Poop inside? Don't even ask! Who trained him? I dunno... maybe my Dad who whacked us in the head for minor infractions... But he had pride and presence and knew who he was. I'm not sure my coddled baby boys have the pride and self-respect that "Sandy" had. Sandy had a job -- protector of the family. My boys seem to be flailing about trying to discover what their 'job' is.

gidget529 · 10-12-2011, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Yorkiesatwork

Do you folks not realize that many of us grew up with household companions that were DOGS?! We had a chow mix mutt growing up. He was the guardian of the household. No one came through the front door until he approved. Pee inside? OMG NO! Poop inside? Don't even ask! Who trained him? I dunno... maybe my Dad who whacked us in the head for minor infractions... But he had pride and presence and knew who he was. I'm not sure my coddled baby boys have the pride and self-respect that "Sandy" had. Sandy had a job -- protector of the family. My boys seem to be flailing about trying to discover what their 'job' is.

Please tell me you are not condoning these kinds of tactics w these small dogs.

Princess10 · 10-12-2011, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Yorkiesatwork

Do you folks not realize that many of us grew up with household companions that were DOGS?! We had a chow mix mutt growing up. He was the guardian of the household. No one came through the front door until he approved. Pee inside? OMG NO! Poop inside? Don't even ask! Who trained him? I dunno... maybe my Dad who whacked us in the head for minor infractions... But he had pride and presence and knew who he was. I'm not sure my coddled baby boys have the pride and self-respect that "Sandy" had. Sandy had a job -- protector of the family. My boys seem to be flailing about trying to discover what their 'job' is.

This man's yorkie could be the size of a chow mixes leg. We used to also smoke in hospitals & not wear seat belts, but it doesn't mean we can't change for the better-and the better of our pets, who are dogs, just like a son or daughter is a human.

I think the bottom line is this OP is one of many (or most likely the same) that know exactly what pushes the passionate minds of YT & comes on here to see how riled up we can get. And he wins yet again. How many pages has this gone on despite it being pretty clear he's either not interested or not in need of our advice, but rather our entertainment? If there was a 'Ridiculous Threads' forum perhaps we could cluster them all together for those to see that aren't aware of them & we could avoid any of this negative behavior at all between us & those that do & don't doubt a thread. I think in the meantime people will use their own judgement & opinions on this public board to answer posts & questions as we see fit.

JMuedog · 10-12-2011, 06:51 PM

I doubt at this point the OP is going to return.

I'm going to go ahead and close this thread.

P.S. OP's girlfriend... plenty of fish in the sea

10-10-2011, 08:06 PM	#63
SassyAnn101 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Tennessee Posts: 647	Reading through the post I noticed that the OP openly admitted that had hatred for this tiny little baby. To me that says it all. Yorkies are very intelligent and can tell if they are in the presence of someone who loves them or not. I would not ever leave my babies with someone who made them feel uncomfortable or scared. This woman really needs to open her eyes and see what is going on. Either she needs to kick the jerk to the curb, or let this baby go to a rescue where it can be loved and cared for then placed in a home where it will never have to feel that kind of fear again. __________________ My Gang: Tanner,Trouble, Chip, Gus, Pee Wee,Haley, Razzle, & Pixie Rest In Peace My Sweet Gizmo & My Pretty Pretty Princess Tenci

10-11-2011, 02:24 PM	#64
Buster Brown Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Toluca Lake, CA Posts: 5,491	Well I do not think the OP is really that interested in answers as they have not logged back on since 10/06 and from what I can tell they have not read any posts because all posts were written after they had logged off. So it seems like someone is trying to stir things up. They must lead a rather boring life. __________________ CarolynBuster Brown "The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."

10-12-2011, 05:45 PM	#70
Taryn0405 Owned by a Gremlin Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: The Mitten State! Posts: 3,706	And the drama pot gets stirred again... __________________ Taryn Momma to Gizmo AKA Monkeyman My husband, daughter, son, and dog make me who I am "My goal in life is to be as good of a person my dog already thinks I am."

10-12-2011, 06:51 PM	#74
JMuedog Love My Little Cuties Donating Member Administrator Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Charleston, IL Posts: 9,899	I doubt at this point the OP is going to return. I'm going to go ahead and close this thread. P.S. OP's girlfriend... plenty of fish in the sea __________________ Jenni Finnigan & Gwenndilyn Forever in my heart

10-10-2011, 06:46 AM	#61
LittleLolasMom YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: New Jersey Posts: 275	The first thing that jumps out at me at this post is why this person got a dog in the first place. Seems it was left to its own devices, had to teach or not teach itself basic things like where to relieve itself or not, was not trained and socialized properly, etc. Treating a dog like a toy for selfish reasons makes me so mad, this person didnt obviously put in the time or dedication to train the pup right, now years later i am not suprised by its behavior at all. i think it was a good effort to try to trian the pup, but why hasnt your gf in years?! and please dont lose your temper witha puppy, its not its fault. its like a child who has been left alone all day for years with no training, what would you expect...patience is a virtue.

10-12-2011, 05:43 PM	#68
Yorkiesatwork YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Jefferson Posts: 284	ok... it's Yorkietalkjilley... my bad

10-12-2011, 05:52 PM	#71
Yorkiesatwork YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Jefferson Posts: 284	Do you folks not realize that many of us grew up with household companions that were DOGS?! We had a chow mix mutt growing up. He was the guardian of the household. No one came through the front door until he approved. Pee inside? OMG NO! Poop inside? Don't even ask! Who trained him? I dunno... maybe my Dad who whacked us in the head for minor infractions... But he had pride and presence and knew who he was. I'm not sure my coddled baby boys have the pride and self-respect that "Sandy" had. Sandy had a job -- protector of the family. My boys seem to be flailing about trying to discover what their 'job' is.