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Old 04-10-2009, 06:56 PM   #1
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I would like to take the opportunity to make a sincere apology to a wonderfully forgiving friend, Celia of Northbrook Yorkies. I hurt her and her business and I was wrong to do so. I said many bad things about her some months ago and would like to retract my statements and ask for forgiveness from her, as well as explain how I came to make the wrong judgements that I made against her while also not slandering the source of my misinformed information. I am truly sorry that I was easily manipulated into believing the horrible things that I said about Celia. I put my trust into someone who I now believe was jealous of Celia, and was manipulated into believing the lies I was told about her. I have also come to realize that one of the problems I bashed her about was caused by a pet accident instead of genetic defect and I was wrong to post otherwise. I should have discussed what I was told with Celia and gained a true understanding of these issues before I jumped to judgement and made these accusations.
I have aproached the administrators and begged them to remove the original thread. I have explained repeatedly that I was misinformed and manipulated and was upset when I wrote the original thread. My attempts to have the thread deleted have failed. I attempted many times to make a rebuttal post and apologise, but since the threads are confusing, It has hurt Celias' reputation and in turn, her business.
My relationship with Celia has been under much strain because of the mistakes I have made, and I am fortunate that she is a forgiving person and I wish to try my best to make ammends. I made a horrible mistake and put my trust in the wrong person, who easily manipulated me into believing such lies about Celia. After much conversation and apologies, Celia has been gracious enough to remain to be my friend. She is an excellent breeder and a wonderful person and I owe her much for the pain I have caused her.
I would also like to make a recommendation to ANY family who seeks to purchase a new pet from her about how well her dogs are taken care of and loved, are bred for quality and health and great disposition. She strives to produce the finest in quality and is a woman of her word when it comes to standing behind her contracts.
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This person is trying to make a sincere apology and is to be commended for being brave enough to come on here and publically apologize. i know the history but if Celia iss willing to forgive, who are you to try to keep the nasty going. you should be ashamed and in my eyes, you owe this poster an apology.

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your smart remarks are uncalled for. This person is trying to make a sincere apology and is to be commended for being brave enough to come on here and publically apologize. i know the history but if Celia iss willing to forgive, who are you to try to keep the nasty going. you should be ashamed and in my eyes, you owe this poster an apology.
Actually Dee I am not going to apology for anything....I said nothing wrong. Furthermore, I didn't keep the "nasty going", the OP did. You can not come on here and blash someone, then later retrack the statement as if you didn't really mean to say it. What is done is done, you cannot undo what has been said. Lesson learned on her part...and also I made an observation on the websites, if you put your name out there and throw around nasty behavior about one yorkie breeder to another, then take what others might say. I honestly stated the truth "in my eyes".
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I would like to take the opportunity to make a sincere apology to a wonderfully forgiving friend, Celia of Northbrook Yorkies. I hurt her and her business and I was wrong to do so. I said many bad things about her some months ago and would like to retract my statements and ask for forgiveness from her, as well as explain how I came to make the wrong judgements that I made against her while also not slandering the source of my misinformed information. I am truly sorry that I was easily manipulated into believing the horrible things that I said about Celia. I put my trust into someone who I now believe was jealous of Celia, and was manipulated into believing the lies I was told about her. I have also come to realize that one of the problems I bashed her about was caused by a pet accident instead of genetic defect and I was wrong to post otherwise. I should have discussed what I was told with Celia and gained a true understanding of these issues before I jumped to judgement and made these accusations.
I have aproached the administrators and begged them to remove the original thread. I have explained repeatedly that I was misinformed and manipulated and was upset when I wrote the original thread. My attempts to have the thread deleted have failed. I attempted many times to make a rebuttal post and apologise, but since the threads are confusing, It has hurt Celias' reputation and in turn, her business.
My relationship with Celia has been under much strain because of the mistakes I have made, and I am fortunate that she is a forgiving person and I wish to try my best to make ammends. I made a horrible mistake and put my trust in the wrong person, who easily manipulated me into believing such lies about Celia. After much conversation and apologies, Celia has been gracious enough to remain to be my friend. She is an excellent breeder and a wonderful person and I owe her much for the pain I have caused her.
I would also like to make a recommendation to ANY family who seeks to purchase a new pet from her about how well her dogs are taken care of and loved, are bred for quality and health and great disposition. She strives to produce the finest in quality and is a woman of her word when it comes to standing behind her contracts.

It takes a lot to admit when your wrong. I believe in forgiveness. It is easy to get carried away in the madness. I am proud of Celia for rising above and forgiving you. It takes a very strong person to forgive another especially when it came to her reputation and business.

I hope that we all learn a valuable lesson in that this is a forum filled with strangers. We don't truly "know" one another. (for the most part) There is always going to be that one that will say and do whatever it takes to have a little drama in the room. Our true friendships that are found in Yorkietalk.. and outside of this forum should be cherished, guarded & protected. I think our society and others needs to get back to being more selfless. More than not we are more adamant in condemning someone for jumping on a bandwagon or for making a simple mistake then we are taking them by the hand and leading them out of the chaos. It seems like here and in general life people are out for blood over the silliest things. It is enough to turn my stomach!
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I made a big mistake, and I do want everyone to know my site will be taken over by my best friend karen from n2themysticyorkies as well as most of my Dogs, the male yorkies she is refering to like chance have been placed in pet homes, and I do not use them, noone in my home has ever even been in a cage or aboused in any way, you my at any time look me up at caldwell animal control in n.c as well as catawba county where I was born and rasied, my full name is Denise michelle mackey (Houser) divoresed remarried name Rucker also you may as well check with akc on these names, I have nothing to hide, I am however going to have back surgery for a blown disc, and have been blessed to recieve a female puppy Named Dancy with 40 champ in her line, she is 14 weeks old now, I will be keeping her as well as a puppy named lady from my origanl lines I started with over 12 yrs ago, and will be keeping Baily champ sired male 4 yrs old I have already placed chipper & Genna with my friend Tammy for morninghawlkyorkies and the others will be with karen, I still have my dream of going in show one day, with a line I bred , not a champ from someone else, I feed Bil-jac food by the way, so everyone will know, I have all ways used this food and my babies get cowhoofs and their teeth are brushed with oxifesh products, I give a 2 yr health garuntee and a puppy kit full of toy/blanets /bowls/leash and harness, bows potty pads as they are potty pad trained before they leave me as well as vet checked. I thank you to all who have benn understanding on this thread, as for the ones who wish to hate me, I am sorry they can't understand, as for greedy I sale my puppies around 500- 900 the most I have ever gotton is 1200 for I really tiny fm pup, none leave me untill they are 12 weeks old as well, but regartless I did make a mastake, and I do want to at least thank those of you who are willing to be so nice to understand, blessings to you all take care of your wonderful babies, and thank you for not judging me , and thinking I am some evil person, although what I did was a very evil thing! as for you who do wish to hate thats o.k I do understand how this my look but I had to do the right thing, Blessings to you all here, majesticyorkies
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Hey not one of us here is perfect. We all make mistakes, and yes whats done is done (yorkieisme), but the important thing is when we do make mistakes to own up to them, to make amends, and to learn from them, majesticyorkies did that, I for one would rather have a friend that can say Im sorry, I was wrong than one who acts like nothing happened. Hats off to you majesticyorkies for trying to make amends publicly.
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It takes only a small person to try to ruin a reputaion so darn easily on these forums..
It takes a big person to admit that they were wrong and apopogize..
The one reason I do not get so involved with people here is for this reason alone..Once things are written.. it is out there..


I have learned unless it involves me as a person.. I do not like to get into the bashing..

You did the right thing.. and I did not see the original thread..and I just hope the other breeder does not where this and hurt her anymore..judgements are passed too quickly.. and jealously in women IMO is ridiculously not warranted...

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I made a big mistake, and I do want everyone to know my site will be taken over by my best friend karen from n2themysticyorkies as well as most of my Dogs, the male yorkies she is refering to like chance have been placed in pet homes, and I do not use them, noone in my home has ever even been in a cage or aboused in any way, you my at any time look me up at caldwell animal control in n.c as well as catawba county where I was born and rasied, my full name is Denise michelle mackey (Houser) divoresed remarried name Rucker also you may as well check with akc on these names, I have nothing to hide, I am however going to have back surgery for a blown disc, and have been blessed to recieve a female puppy Named Dancy with 40 champ in her line, she is 14 weeks old now, I will be keeping her as well as a puppy named lady from my origanl lines I started with over 12 yrs ago, and will be keeping Baily champ sired male 4 yrs old I have already placed chipper & Genna with my friend Tammy for morninghawlkyorkies and the others will be with karen, I still have my dream of going in show one day, with a line I bred , not a champ from someone else, I feed Bil-jac food by the way, so everyone will know, I have all ways used this food and my babies get cowhoofs and their teeth are brushed with oxifesh products, I give a 2 yr health garuntee and a puppy kit full of toy/blanets /bowls/leash and harness, bows potty pads as they are potty pad trained before they leave me as well as vet checked. I thank you to all who have benn understanding on this thread, as for the ones who wish to hate me, I am sorry they can't understand, as for greedy I sale my puppies around 500- 900 the most I have ever gotton is 1200 for I really tiny fm pup, none leave me untill they are 12 weeks old as well, but regartless I did make a mastake, and I do want to at least thank those of you who are willing to be so nice to understand, blessings to you all take care of your wonderful babies, and thank you for not judging me , and thinking I am some evil person, although what I did was a very evil thing! as for you who do wish to hate thats o.k I do understand how this my look but I had to do the right thing, Blessings to you all here, majesticyorkies
Hi, Denise.

You made a mistake, you owned up to it and said you were sorry. Celia forgave you. In my oh-so-humble opinion, that makes you both good people. It's not easy to say we're sorry, it leaves us open for rejection. But it is important and very good that you did so.

We are all human, we make mistakes, and as my Mother used to say, (God Rest Her Soul) that our mistakes are the way we learn in life.

I always tell people, "Be patient, God is not finished with me yet."

God Bless You, and Happy Easter!

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Ceila and I have worked things out there is alot more to the story that she and I have choosen to keep to our selves so not to cause anyone trouble from the sourse to which the imformation in the original thread came from, this person we would to stay away from, this person has caused alot of heart acke to both of us and trouble too so I do hope somehow you all here can understand why we wish to leave the origianl trouble makers name out thank you all very much, Blessings to all of you here from both of us.. we are building back our friendship, And I do admit what I did wrong . I never should have posted anything neg. about anyone and never will again lesson learned! the hard way, thanks Blessings
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Hi, Denise.

You made a mistake, you owned up to it and said you were sorry. Celia forgave you. In my oh-so-humble opinion, that makes you both good people. It's not easy to say we're sorry, it leaves us open for rejection. But it is important and very good that you did so.

We are all human, we make mistakes, and as my Mother used to say, (God Rest Her Soul) that our mistakes are the way we learn in life.

I always tell people, "Be patient, God is not finished with me yet."

God Bless You, and Happy Easter!

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Thank you so very much and I do hope god is not done with me yet, he has opened my eyes to so much, happy easter to you as well
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Ceila and I have worked things out there is alot more to the story that she and I have choosen to keep to our selves so not to cause anyone trouble from the sourse to which the imformation in the original thread came from, this person we would to stay away from, this person has caused alot of heart acke to both of us and trouble too so I do hope somehow you all here can understand why we wish to leave the origianl trouble makers name out thank you all very much, Blessings to all of you here from both of us.. we are building back our friendship, And I do admit what I did wrong . I never should have posted anything neg. about anyone and never will again lesson learned! the hard way, thanks Blessings
My heart goes out to you... very nice post.. anne
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You are very welcome, and no, Sweetheart, God is never finished with us. I am 56 years young and know that I am still "His work in progress".
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Each one of us needs to remember that there WILL come a time when you will need forgiveness. No one is perfect, and we all make mistakes. Forgiveness is the way we free ourselves to be happy. Here's a saying from Alexander Pope............'Teach me to feel another's woe, To hide the fault I see; That mercy I to others show, That mercy show to me.'
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Each one of us needs to remember that there WILL come a time when you will need forgiveness. No one is perfect, and we all make mistakes. Forgiveness is the way we free ourselves to be happy. Here's a saying from Alexander Pope............'Teach me to feel another's woe, To hide the fault I see; That mercy I to others show, That mercy show to me.'
Joanne,

That is so beautiful and so true. If we do not forgive, how can we expect God, to forgive us?

It was Celia's place to forgive, and she has done so.

I applaud Denise's courage, and her conscience, to come back and post her apology publicly.

Easter is a wonderful time of renewal!

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I don't know what happen , I didn't read any thread about this but I just want to say that "is very easy to make mistakes but very hard to say sorry"
You already did the hardest part ......... hope everything gets better for you.
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