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JCarlson2004 · 03-20-2007, 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by YorkieRose

I think everyone should be extremely careful right now...this is exactly how the last law suit got started..and that was heard all over the Yorkie world, plus it black listed a number of breeder with potential.

I do not fault the buyer for posting..I fault the breeder for making a private matter personal..and for goodness sakes take the high road and return the deposit..in the long run it will save you a ton of stress..many things in life are NOT a matter of being right or wrong...it is a matter of doing what is right for the situation. IF you want to fight, believe me, many in the Yorkie world will be more then happy to take you on again...

I agree with you and I apologize for participating in this thread. To the buyer, I'm glad you told your side of the story (even though it wasn't fair for this to be brought on a public Yorkie forum) but I hope everything works out for you. I'm sorry you won't be getting Tilly. I wish you the best of luck. To the breeder, I know you'll have no problems selling that little girl. It's a shame things didn't work out. Good luck to you too.

chachi · 03-20-2007, 05:45 AM

I agree. It is nice to have the other side of the story. This just sounds like a misunderstanding now

Susan123 · 03-20-2007, 06:07 AM

Sorry to hear your not going to be breeding any more, I've always admired you as a breeder. Congratulations on your sons accomplishments. What a joyful time, will be soon at least.

yorkiegirl83 · 03-20-2007, 06:35 AM

I haven't replied to this thread because I really dislike it when private matters get turned into a public topic, which in my opinion is not neccessary at all.

I just wanted to say that I really hope that everything works out for both the buyer and the seller and that the situation can be resolved. <3

luvdorkyyorkies · 03-20-2007, 06:56 AM

Yes there are always two sides to a story, and hearing both can make you feel differently.
Sounds like a disappointing aggravating day for both. Communication is so important, I have sometimes forgot to tell someone a valuable piece of info, if I dont write it down Im doomed

I so hope you all resolve your differences and come to terms both of you are happy and at peace with.
I too wish I wouldnt have commented on this private matter, but I did.
I did learn something about airlines I sure didnt know though!

Hope all works out.

FlDebra · 03-20-2007, 07:10 AM

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Originally Posted by wnalegria

Off topic but I do have to brag- My stud that I am showing is going to be featured in a National magazine. No not a animal. My 17 year old son.
He is a junior this year in high school and is being recruited by over 30 different colleges for football. The end of this month he is having his picture taken and having a interview done by ESPN. There will be a article about him and other midwest recruits and the group picture will be the magazine cover.

This is my bright spot and a good reason for me to not have a house full of dogs. My health is not the greatest and I want to be able to enjoy Nick's senior year of high school and be able to watch him every weekend and then play college football. This recruiting business is like taking a special out every week end and fighting for BOB and Group and Best in Show. This is major money when it can cost up 30 to 40 thousand dollars a year at some of these schools like Notre Dame, Duke and the Ivy shools. We are trying to get a full ride scholarship- and things look very bright for his future.

Wow! Congratulations! As the mom of a Freshman football player (QB and defensive corner), I can really appreciate the talent your son must have to be getting that sort of attention from the big name school recruiters. That is indeed a lot to be proud about! Good luck to him and I hope in a few years mine will be following in those same footsteps! You are so right -- the prize in this case is HUGE!

BTW -- I think all agree you did the right thing with the puppy (well all except the lady who arrived so unprepared to provide for the puppy!)

Take care and let us know where your son decides to play. We watch a LOT of football in this house and I will be glad to cheer him on.

FlDebra · 03-20-2007, 07:29 AM

I should read all the way to the end before I post......

In a way, I am glad for the thread though. It is a good learning experience for both sides of the deal. I want to breed some day if all works out. I think this is a good object lesson to have a contract that covers all details. I will probably buy more Yorkies and I am pretty sure the next one will come from out of state. I will make sure to triple check all transportation arrangements and see the sales contract ahead of time, as well as make sure of the type of final payment expected.

Seems like a couple of good people just got crossed up. If some of us learn from the experience though, we can turn it to a positive. I have probably saved myself a LOT of grief by reading the experiences of others here at the forum. I learn every day and will hopefully be much better prepared because of others. For that I am thankful.

RLC12345678 · 03-20-2007, 07:43 AM

I am glad both sides of the story were posted. Even though this is a private matter, we can all learn something from this. Thank you, both of you, for sharing your story. So sorry things did not work out, but everything happens for a reason. This particular puppy was obviously not meant to be yours. Best of luck to you both.

baby03 · 03-20-2007, 08:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YorkieRose

I think everyone should be extremely careful right now...this is exactly how the last law suit got started..and that was heard all over the Yorkie world, plus it black listed a number of breeder with potential.

I do not fault the buyer for posting..I fault the breeder for making a private matter personal..and for goodness sakes take the high road and return the deposit..in the long run it will save you a ton of stress..many things in life are NOT a matter of being right or wrong...it is a matter of doing what is right for the situation. IF you want to fight, believe me, many in the Yorkie world will be more then happy to take you on again...

I agree!!

BamaFan121s · 03-20-2007, 12:52 PM

I agree with the person who suggested closing this thread. I understand everyone wanting their side of the story understood, I suppose, what I don't get is why people who aren't even involved are bringing up old, touchy issues--issues that don't even involve ANYONE here but that always stir up drama, hurt feelings and cause turmoil. Yes, this is all very familiar of a previous situation...and you see what the result was. For the love of Pete, WHY even bring that up? Just in poor taste and pouring salt on an old wound.

Susanbee51 · 03-20-2007, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

I agree with the person who suggested closing this thread. I understand everyone wanting their side of the story understood, I suppose, what I don't get is why people who aren't even involved are bringing up old, touchy issues--issues that don't even involve ANYONE here but that always stir up drama, hurt feelings and cause turmoil. Yes, this is all very familiar of a previous situation...and you see what the result was. For the love of Pete, WHY even bring that up? Just in poor taste and pouring salt on an old wound.

Definately agree with you Bama. Guess some just like to dredge up things that are long past and should have remained buried.

KiKiPie · 03-20-2007, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

I have to agree....one shouldn't post only one side of a story epecially when the other person is a member here...it only makes things worse for both parties involved.

It sure didn't sound like anyone was trying to scam anyone and those are the kinds of warnings we should be reading about - not misunderstandings...sorry - that's JMO

I never get involved in these controversial threads but..
I agree totally. I cant imagine how hurt i would be if I got on here one day and there were all these posts about me. It would break my heart. Some things should be left private. BTW, to the buyer, I think that your post was very nice and mature. Good for you.

03-20-2007, 05:45 AM	#47
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I agree. It is nice to have the other side of the story. This just sounds like a misunderstanding now __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

03-20-2007, 07:29 AM	#52
FlDebra Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: FL Posts: 7,651	I should read all the way to the end before I post...... In a way, I am glad for the thread though. It is a good learning experience for both sides of the deal. I want to breed some day if all works out. I think this is a good object lesson to have a contract that covers all details. I will probably buy more Yorkies and I am pretty sure the next one will come from out of state. I will make sure to triple check all transportation arrangements and see the sales contract ahead of time, as well as make sure of the type of final payment expected. Seems like a couple of good people just got crossed up. If some of us learn from the experience though, we can turn it to a positive. I have probably saved myself a LOT of grief by reading the experiences of others here at the forum. I learn every day and will hopefully be much better prepared because of others. For that I am thankful. __________________ FlDebra and her ABCs Annie, Ben, Candy Promoting Healthy Breeding to the AKC Yorkshire Terrier Standard

03-20-2007, 06:07 AM	#48
Susan123 YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 1,455	Sorry to hear your not going to be breeding any more, I've always admired you as a breeder. Congratulations on your sons accomplishments. What a joyful time, will be soon at least.

03-20-2007, 06:35 AM	#49
yorkiegirl83 Love My Furbabies! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: somewhere Posts: 4,427	I haven't replied to this thread because I really dislike it when private matters get turned into a public topic, which in my opinion is not neccessary at all. I just wanted to say that I really hope that everything works out for both the buyer and the seller and that the situation can be resolved. <3

03-20-2007, 06:56 AM	#50
luvdorkyyorkies BANNED! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 1,681	Yes there are always two sides to a story, and hearing both can make you feel differently. Sounds like a disappointing aggravating day for both. Communication is so important, I have sometimes forgot to tell someone a valuable piece of info, if I dont write it down Im doomed I so hope you all resolve your differences and come to terms both of you are happy and at peace with. I too wish I wouldnt have commented on this private matter, but I did. I did learn something about airlines I sure didnt know though! Hope all works out.

03-20-2007, 07:43 AM	#53
RLC12345678 I heart Hootie & Hobbs Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: USA Posts: 7,149	I am glad both sides of the story were posted. Even though this is a private matter, we can all learn something from this. Thank you, both of you, for sharing your story. So sorry things did not work out, but everything happens for a reason. This particular puppy was obviously not meant to be yours. Best of luck to you both.

03-20-2007, 12:52 PM	#55
BamaFan121s Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Alabama Posts: 11,432	I agree with the person who suggested closing this thread. I understand everyone wanting their side of the story understood, I suppose, what I don't get is why people who aren't even involved are bringing up old, touchy issues--issues that don't even involve ANYONE here but that always stir up drama, hurt feelings and cause turmoil. Yes, this is all very familiar of a previous situation...and you see what the result was. For the love of Pete, WHY even bring that up? Just in poor taste and pouring salt on an old wound.