APOLOGY to all/ rehoming kizzy, PLEASE READ

[Bama Yorkie Mom]

sorry and thanks to all who gave ideas even if a couple made it sound like i was holding back on why i really wanted to get rid of her, like i wasnt telling all the truth about kizzy, as I know it makes people wonder sometimes, even I wonder why some times people want to rehome one, but to me if they want to just because they dont want them, it is up to them. I dont think anyone meant to actually hurt my feelings. I've been pretty upset for a while now and i couldnt do the things i have always done and I just cant stand having to let hubby work and do stuff for me after work, when I dont work and i'm home all day. he is good to me. But he did let me know last night when I told him i had offers Kizzy already, that she wasnt going anywhere and that I would feel better once I got my cast off and could give them their reg baths and brushings and care for them like ive always done, because he knows how much i always loved giving them baths, making them pretty and how much company they had been to me and he said right now I was just letting things get to me because i had to much time to sit here and think on things i couldnt control and let everything get to me. He thinks I need my dogs as i'm home a lot and he said he can tell a difference in the way ive felt since getting them. but i dont think thats all their is to it. he just loves them too and dont want to admit its him too. So I guess that ends the idea of Kizzy going anywhere. And honestly, he is right about my getting depressed because i had too much time on my hands this past 5 weeks when i couldnt just go about my business without having to ask for help from him. I guess i'v always been too hard headed or independent to sit and let people do things for me. and I do hate that. I rather do anything than ask someone to do something for me as small as cutting up my meat, like he was doing among other things, like lifting things i couldnt just to get supper on the table, etc.
I got some good news today tho.the dr. removed my cast and said the bone was healed and i dont even have to wear the splint he thought i would. tho its still gonna be sore for a while, but to wear the splint when im doing house work and dont do too much to the point it hurts which wont be too much for a while. but to exercise my wrist and fingers each day and take it a day at a time to build up the muscles and get the fluids circulating again. so i feel a lot better tonight, and i'm sure kizzy will be happier to get back in My own arms for her baths and of course maggie to as they have always been so good about their baths. just hope things work out for my kids, as i am dreading my holidays this yr if their not all here together. but since their just separated i told them both, for the kids i hope they can do like they did last yr and come on like their nothing wrong. they were separated during the holidays last yr and came on up like nothing was different.. so they've been separated over a yr, before we knew it, so can you see why we were so shocked?, yet they were still going places and doing things with the kids and still are. I know they will both always do whats best for the kids. they always have.
sorry again all and i owe an apology and hope its accepted.

[chachi]

You dont have to apologize for anything. It sounded like you had alot going on and I dont think anyone could fault you or judge you because of it. I am glad to hear you are keeping kizzy. I know you are making the right decision. I hope things get better for you and your family situation resolves itself

[Tiggerwit]

You have no reason to apologize. Happy thoughts and warm wishes headed your way.

[Olivier]

You don't have to apologize .

[annaschaben]

There are a lot of people on here who tend to judge people. And unless they've been in your shoes they have no right to judge. Some times I think their mothers should have told them that if they didn't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all.

[red98vett]

I'm glad your keeping her - they're so cute together and I think they'd have missed each other -

[JiggityJig]

You don't owe anyone an apology, and I hope that after things settle down for you a bit you are able to see that noone here meant any harm either. You know how it is around here....the dogs are Number 1!!!!

I've defended other people here before when they've needed to rehome their dogs, but in this case I think you've made the right decision. Not that MY opinion matters , but I really think you would have missed Kizzy so much. And I'm glad that your husband is supporting you, and I think you're right, I think HE doesn't want to lose Kizzy either!

I know the holidays can be so stressful when things are tense in the family. I hope that you are able to find a measure of peace, and ENJOY THOSE DOGS!!!

[Willow]

I hope your arm heals soon and I am glad you decided to keep Kizzy. May your furbabies fill your home with the love and warmth that only they can give for years to come!

[Patti]

I am so glad you are feeling a little better and Kizzy ill stay where he is loved. No one can say what the right decision is for anyone. That is a personal choice and I am glad you didn't let it get to you so much that you stopped coming here. We would miss you.

[doortego]

Sounds like your husband is a keeper. My opinion (unwarranted & worth what you are paying for it} is that you are just having a little mild depression and really shouldn't make any drastic decisions for a while. I'm sure that you are more than a little upset about your kids problems, (and who wouldn't be) but I don't think gettting rid of Kizzy would solve anything, and probably only make you feel worse.

Best wishes to you and your family. I know its trite but try to focus on the good things, your arm is healing, your husband loves you & your dogs, your kids are well and making an effort to keep things peaceful. I'm having a hard time not singing " Count your blessings, name them one by one, count your blessings see what God hath done, count your many blessings, name them one by one & it will surprise you what the Lord hath done".

One of those blessings for you & everyone here is that you really don't have to hear me sing. One of my blessings was not talent in the music dept.

[Dragonfly]

No need to apologize... I'm happy you did what you thought was right... That's what matters most, I soooooooo happy you are keeping Kizzy Glad your arm is getting better.

[RLC12345678]

Linda, I am so happy that you got your cast off and that you're feeling better and most importantly, that you're keeping Kizzy!!!!! That is fabulous news! I think Kizzy and Maggie both would have been so sad if you had rehomed her. Glad everything seems to be working out. I'm here if you need me! ((((((((hugs!)))))))))

[Jenn218]

Awwww......I do hope you are doing better! Don't let all that is going on in your life wear you down. I know you are glad to be back to your old self again, as are the girls, but just don't over do it!

It is good that you are keeping Kizzy, but if you feel she needs a new home, that is what she needs. Just let us know before she goes, maybe she can find a home on YT.

BUT for the time being......she will be happy to have her Mommy "back" and will do her best to not get on your nerves! HA!

Good luck w/ everything and we send all the best!

[JeanieK]

I'm so happy that you've decided to keep her. It would have been so sad to split them up.

The only one you owe an appology to is Kizzy and I'm sure she forgives you.

I hope all goes well with your arm. I'm just like you I hate having to depend on someone else to do things for me. But sometimes we just have to.

[Bama Yorkie Mom]

thanks for understanding. next time i get down, i'll stay off computer till i'm feeling better.