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[Nancy1999]

Originally Posted by dawn27

You are so very Welcome "T" ... Thank you !

Thank you for returning to YT after all you had to endure from the community and giving us an update. I know how hard that had to be considering how some people responded to your original . post.


Please keep up the great work you are doing with Journee and the pups, you are doing a great job. Just remember there is still a long road ahead. We will chat about that later, I'm sure.

As far as your up date post.... I am having a hard time finding the "In your Face" part about it. I'm totaly confused...

But whatever.... Opinions are just that and nothing else. You all can write whatever your little hearts desires no matter how harsh. That dont make you or your opinion of the OP or Newbies right! In any way shape or form.... it just makes you a voice for your passions and views and some times I just wish people like you would think twice before commenting on a thread when someone comes to YT for our HELP!

Very sad to think of how many people have left this forum empty handed with No Help and no where else to turn to ..Because of people like you who feel that they have a right to voice there opinions no matter what the consiquinced are.
You all are so in your face.... about what you feel is right and forget that there are precious lives of a mother and pups involved. and in my mind that takes precedence over your opinion any day!!

I see a different perspective; I see how many of our fine breeders have left or are seriously considering leaving because of posts such as yours and the OP's. Why not just thank people instead of criticizing anyone posts? Otherwise, the thank you is really a jab, not a genuine thank you. Believe me, we aren't the ones who are forgetting the precious lives of the mother and pups.

[yorkietweetie]

[yorkietweetie]

Originally Posted by dawn27

You are so very Welcome "T" ... Thank you !

Thank you for returning to YT after all you had to endure from the community and giving us an update. I know how hard that had to be considering how some people responded to your original . post.


Please keep up the great work you are doing with Journee and the pups, you are doing a great job. Just remember there is still a long road ahead. We will chat about that later, I'm sure.

As far as your up date post.... I am having a hard time finding the "In your Face" part about it. I'm totaly confused...

But whatever.... Opinions are just that and nothing else. You all can write whatever your little hearts desires no matter how harsh. That dont make you or your opinion of the OP or Newbies right! In any way shape or form.... it just makes you a voice for your passions and views and some times I just wish people like you would think twice before commenting on a thread when someone comes to YT for our HELP!

Very sad to think of how many people have left this forum empty handed with No Help and no where else to turn to ..Because of people like you who feel that they have a right to voice there opinions no matter what the consiquinced are.

You all are so in your face.... about what you feel is right and forget that there are precious lives of a mother and pups involved. and in my mind that takes precedence over your opinion any day!!

[dawn27]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

I see a different perspective; I see how many of our fine breeders have left or are seriously considering leaving because of posts such as yours and the OP's. Why not just thank people instead of criticizing anyone posts? Otherwise, the thank you is really a jab, not a genuine thank you. Believe me, we aren't the ones who are forgetting the precious lives of the mother and pups.

Do you mean people like me who try to be Helpful, Kind and try to inform the OP in what ever way I can and Not judge them.


There is a Big difference when someone come here to get the HELP they Need. Between an Experienced Breeders comment and just the regular Jo who is passionate about the situation and wants to express it by commenting on the thread. No matter what the situation or how the OP find themselves in the situation of a pregnancy or whatever else.

I find it hard to believe that a breeder would turn their back on someone in that situation. I may not be the best of the best but that is the reason why I reached out to the OP in the first place. I saw how some people Not Everyone, in a sense attacked her. She was in a difficult situation and needed OUR HelP.

There is a place and time for everything and that was not the right time!

[Nancy1999]

Originally Posted by dawn27

Do you mean people like me who try to be Helpful, Kind and try to inform the OP in what ever way I can and Not judge them.


There is a Big difference when someone come here to get the HELP they Need. Between an Experienced Breeders comment and just the regular Jo who is passionate about the situation and wants to express it by commenting on the thread. No matter what the situation or how the OP find themselves in the situation of a pregnancy or whatever else.

I find it hard to believe that a breeder would turn their back on someone in that situation. I may not be the best of the best but that is the reason why I reached out to the OP in the first place. I saw how some people Not Everyone, in a sense attacked her. She was in a difficult situation and needed OUR HelP.

There is a place and time for everything and that was not the right time!

If you speaking about the ONE reply to get an emergency spay, a pet owner not a breeder wrote this, and it was written TO what she thought was a pet owner not a breeder. Personally, as a pet owner, I would love to know of that option, if I had a pet that was pregnant. Many dogs are lost during whelping and I wouldn't take the chance with my beloved dog. Hearing different options is helpful, even if you don't agree with them.

Most of the breeders haven't turned their backs until they were beated senseless. Again, to me, it seems like some of you want to slap yourselves on the back, and beat others up because you didn't like their imput.

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[ArmaniMan]

Originally Posted by dawn27

But whatever.... Opinions are just that and nothing else. You all can write whatever your little hearts desires no matter how harsh. That dont make you or your opinion of the OP or Newbies right! In any way shape or form.... it just makes you a voice for your passions and views and some times I just wish people like you would think twice before commenting on a thread when someone comes to YT for our HELP!

Very sad to think of how many people have left this forum empty handed with No Help and no where else to turn to ..Because of people like you who feel that they have a right to voice there opinions no matter what the consiquinced are.

You all are so in your face.... about what you feel is right and forget that there are precious lives of a mother and pups involved. and in my mind that takes precedence over your opinion any day!!

Okay

First off, most of what you said didn't even have anything to do with what I said. My pointing out that her tone was rude and immature has nothing to do with whether she gets help- she sure as heck didn't ask for any help in this thread. I doubt she wants help. So you can say all these people have left the forum because of me- but you have no idea. Get a clue. seriously.

And no one posts emoticons just because they like them, they are in response to their feelings.

Imagine if someone posted that their dog died and I wrote- "Aww " as my response. I would EXPECT them to be livid.

So by saying- "even though people said not to, I had puppies, all is well, " - that IS meant to say "in your face".

AND Agreed with everything Nancy said!

[JESSY_RN2B]

If you are a breeder or decided to breed for the heck of it, you should get yourself a real life mentor and know what to do PRIOR to breeding.

The breeder or members of YT do not owe you anything.

I am sick of hearing people complain and post nonesense as if the people on here OWED them to help them with their problems. If people chose not to help then so be it. No one should feel obligated or made to feel they are bad for not doing so.

Your mess, you fix it. If you ask for advice, expect good and bad. If you dont like it hire someone or find yourself real life help in your area.

Really, the nerve of some folks. Then come in here being martyr marys. Eat some humble pie and move on.

Glad your girl and pups are great.

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by JESSY_RN2B

If you are a breeder or decided to breed for the heck of it, you should get yourself a real life mentor and know what to do PRIOR to breeding.

The breeder or members of YT do not owe you anything.

I am sick of hearing people complain and post nonesense as if the people on here OWED them to help them with their problems. If people chose not to help then so be it. No one should feel obligated or made to feel they are bad for not doing so.

Your mess, you fix it. If you ask for advice, expect good and bad. If you dont like it hire someone or find yourself real life help in your area.

Out of the mouths of babes....Your advise is great in every walk of life.

[ArmaniMan]

Originally Posted by JESSY_RN2B

Your mess, you fix it. If you ask for advice, expect good and bad. If you dont like it hire someone or find yourself real life help in your area.

Very nicely said!

[jencar98]

Originally Posted by ArmaniMan

Okay

First off, most of what you said didn't even have anything to do with what I said. My pointing out that her tone was rude and immature has nothing to do with whether she gets help- she sure as heck didn't ask for any help in this thread. I doubt she wants help. So you can say all these people have left the forum because of me- but you have no idea. Get a clue. seriously.

And no one posts emoticons just because they like them, they are in response to their feelings.

Imagine if someone posted that their dog died and I wrote- "Aww " as my response. I would EXPECT them to be livid.

So by saying- "even though people said not to, I had puppies, all is well, " - that IS meant to say "in your face".

AND Agreed with everything Nancy said!

I took her emoticons the same way you did. If one doesn't understand what emoticons are supposed to be used for maybe one shouldn't be using them.

Originally Posted by JESSY_RN2B

If you are a breeder or decided to breed for the heck of it, you should get yourself a real life mentor and know what to do PRIOR to breeding.

The breeder or members of YT do not owe you anything.

I am sick of hearing people complain and post nonesense as if the people on here OWED them to help them with their problems. If people chose not to help then so be it. No one should feel obligated or made to feel they are bad for not doing so.

Your mess, you fix it. If you ask for advice, expect good and bad. If you dont like it hire someone or find yourself real life help in your area.

Really, the nerve of some folks. Then come in here being martyr marys. Eat some humble pie and move on.

Glad your girl and pups are great.

[cally930]

I remember your last thread and that one poster telling you to emergency spay was out of line and responded to that as well. She made a mistake and owned up to it. Unfortunately, if the argument here is whether you came on here now to say "in your face" or not......... the emoticons give it away.

[gemy]

Originally Posted by dawn27

Do you mean people like me who try to be Helpful, Kind and try to inform the OP in what ever way I can and Not judge them.


There is a Big difference when someone come here to get the HELP they Need. Between an Experienced Breeders comment and just the regular Jo who is passionate about the situation and wants to express it by commenting on the thread. No matter what the situation or how the OP find themselves in the situation of a pregnancy or whatever else.

I find it hard to believe that a breeder would turn their back on someone in that situation. I may not be the best of the best but that is the reason why I reached out to the OP in the first place. I saw how some people Not Everyone, in a sense attacked her. She was in a difficult situation and needed OUR HelP.

There is a place and time for everything and that was not the right time!

No one not even the single poster who recommended a spay; attacked her. Everyone is able to post comments, suggestions, advice, on any thread anywhere in this forum.

Well according to your join date you have only been a member for 4mths; not enough time to see the types, nature, and repetitiveness of certain kinds of posts.

And any member of this group(YT), is free to contribute or not, as their time an inclination allows for. Oh yes that includes our breeder members here. Just because you are a breeder does not automatically mean you have to contribute on the multiple threads over time of "oops" pregnacies, oh dear my Lulu got pregnant, just want one litter, don't know anything about anything but I bred her and she is pregnant.

I value our breeder members, for their commitment and passion and willingness to be here, to contribute, to help those new to the world of Yorkies. I have learnt much from them. And YT would be much poorer without their very valuable contributions.

I also value our many members who are a part of rescue; who lay their emotions, their time, and their money on the line, to often times rescue pups and breeding sires/dams, from those oh so innocent "first" time breeders.

I value many members here, who post on the sick and emergency thread, to share their experiences, to help guide a poster to the appropriate health care, to look up emergency hospitals in their area, to pray for the sick and injured who btw are often sick from genetic defects, of those OOPsy pregnancies or I just wanted Molly to experience childbirth kind of breeders.

For those types of breeders I have no time for. Invest your time, energy and money to learn about the breed prior to breeding. Don't expect me to or anyone else here to hold your hand through your mistakes.

[Lisa and Pic]

Originally Posted by JESSY_RN2B

If you are a breeder or decided to breed for the heck of it, you should get yourself a real life mentor and know what to do PRIOR to breeding.

The breeder or members of YT do not owe you anything.

I am sick of hearing people complain and post nonesense as if the people on here OWED them to help them with their problems. If people chose not to help then so be it. No one should feel obligated or made to feel they are bad for not doing so.

Your mess, you fix it. If you ask for advice, expect good and bad. If you dont like it hire someone or find yourself real life help in your area.

Really, the nerve of some folks. Then come in here being martyr marys. Eat some humble pie and move on.

Glad your girl and pups are great.

I agree with Mardelin - great post. No one owes the OP anything and love the Martyr phrase, Jesse_RN2B. In my humble opinion the breeder section does not need someone from the polite police rapping everyone on their knuckles. Geez.

[JESSY_RN2B]

The true intentions of the OP are evident. Everyone has had to say what needed to be said.

The padlock should make its way in here soon.