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Originally Posted by dawn27  Do you mean people like me who try to be Helpful, Kind and try to inform the OP in what ever way I can and Not judge them.
There is a Big difference when someone come here to get the HELP they Need. Between an Experienced Breeders comment and just the regular Jo who is passionate about the situation and wants to express it by commenting on the thread. No matter what the situation or how the OP find themselves in the situation of a pregnancy or whatever else.
I find it hard to believe that a breeder would turn their back on someone in that situation. I may not be the best of the best but that is the reason why I reached out to the OP in the first place. I saw how some people Not Everyone, in a sense attacked her. She was in a difficult situation and needed OUR HelP.
There is a place and time for everything and that was not the right time! |
No one not even the single poster who recommended a spay; attacked her. Everyone is able to post comments, suggestions, advice, on any thread anywhere in this forum.
Well according to your join date you have only been a member for 4mths; not enough time to see the types, nature, and repetitiveness of certain kinds of posts.
And any member of this group(YT), is free to contribute or not, as their time an inclination allows for. Oh yes that includes our breeder members here. Just because you are a breeder does not automatically mean you have to contribute on the multiple threads over time of "oops" pregnacies, oh dear my Lulu got pregnant, just want one litter, don't know anything about anything but I bred her and she is pregnant.
I value our breeder members, for their commitment and passion and willingness to be here, to contribute, to help those new to the world of Yorkies. I have learnt much from them. And YT would be much poorer without their very valuable contributions.
I also value our many members who are a part of rescue; who lay their emotions, their time, and their money on the line, to often times rescue pups and breeding sires/dams, from those oh so innocent "first" time breeders.
I value many members here, who post on the sick and emergency thread, to share their experiences, to help guide a poster to the appropriate health care, to look up emergency hospitals in their area, to pray for the sick and injured who btw are often sick from genetic defects, of those OOPsy pregnancies or I just wanted Molly to experience childbirth kind of breeders.
For those types of breeders I have no time for. Invest your time, energy and money to learn about the breed prior to breeding. Don't expect me to or anyone else here to hold your hand through your mistakes.