prego yorkie

[yorkietweetie]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

What don't you get it's very self explanatory.

Don't breed without a mentor....and don't come onto a forum to get the answers that you want to hear.

The Martyr Mary meaning the OP came on and had an in your face attitude and when she was called on it....all of a sudden she played the victom, didn't know the what the symbols she used meant....

Please believe I have not tried to play the victim...That is not the case, but hat is your opinion as well

[yorkietweetie]

Originally Posted by Lil Sis

agree





agree


I am glad your little girl is ok. You were lucky. I think many members did try to help you... it just wasn't the advice you wanted so you got upset.
I agree... the spay comment was a little harsh and in error, but I agree in some cases it would be the best option.
I do think you are not seeing what this group is about.. they are great people and very honest. If you can't deal with this group don't come on to stir up trouble. If you didn't mean anything by the faces... you could have said sorry I didn't mean anything, now I know how they appeared. simple
but getting all defensive makes you look bad.. immature

So at the end of the day everyone has said what they had to say and apparently everyone thinks because I put the emotions next to my comment it means in your face. Which is completely wrong, if that is the way anyone took it please except my apologizes. I just like to put emoition next to most of my posting and it is what it is...


I actually did apologize and explain that was not my intent.

And you are right sometimes you dont agree with posting and we should take a step back b4 we respond...

[yorkietweetie]

Originally Posted by megansmomma

Congratulation on your new puppies and that your mom was able to deliver healthy puppies. I would like to invite you to read this thread and the heartache that you could have faced but were lucky enough not to experience. We are not a bunch of mean witches looking for a fight. We are collectively very passionate about the breed that we love. Most of us would never consider taking the risk to allow a whelping of our girls. We firmly believe that breeding should be left to those that have experience and not something that should be done on a whim.

http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sic...th-no-vet.html

I'm glad the you have decided to spay your girl. It's probably the best choice you have made so far.

thank you for the link. and I dont think you are mean ppl, I just think that we each read things in different context and what you may think is one way, I or someone else may read another way. That is the downfall with speaking on a Theard. Each person takes the posting in there own way!!!!

I do understand that i was lucky and there could of been complications and I am very thankful that it didnt happen.

[YorkieRose]

I have no idea if I responded to your orginial thread...but my advise is always the same..do what is best for the bitch and not human emotions.

The worst situations have a way of turning out well...the best of situations have a way of going wrong..
If you believe in God..thank Him over and over...

It is all a gamble...sometimes you win and sometimes you lose...the only thing I ever pat myself on the back about is...I try to do what is best for my dogs...at the end of the day I have no regrets...

Best wishes...you brought these pups into the world and are responsible for them until their death...even if you sell them.

[katy-yorkie]

Originally Posted by Nancy1999

What a great reply, I loved that you point out genetic defects; too many breeders/pet owners believe their responsibility ends at the whelp.

Yes, please check that the puppies are free from genetic defects. Genetic defects are hell. So many precious, sweet puppies live with genetic defects. Heartbreaking.

[yorkietweetie]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

That's is what you said, just worded it differently. You came on to say what you had to say. It wasn't received favorably.

Everyone is glad that your girl and the pups are fine.....but, that doesn't mean because everything went fine, they condone the pregnancy or the risk you took by allowing it to happen.

Thanks!

I wasnt actually waiting for someone to come on here an agree with what i did I was simply posting because I had a couple of ppl who had asked how my dog was doing and how her whelp went. And someone took m post in the wrong way, and it blow up from there!!!

Thanks again and if I have offended anyone please except my apologizes!

[yorkietweetie]

Originally Posted by YorkieRose

I have no idea if I responded to your orginial thread...but my advise is always the same..do what is best for the bitch and not human emotions.

The worst situations have a way of turning out well...the best of situations have a way of going wrong..
If you believe in God..thank Him over and over...

It is all a gamble...sometimes you win and sometimes you lose...the only thing I ever pat myself on the back about is...I try to do what is best for my dogs...at the end of the day I have no regrets...

Best wishes...you brought these pups into the world and are responsible for them until their death...even if you sell them.

thanks and believe me I have prayed and Thanked God every single day that we have a successful whelp and pray that they continue to stay healthy. Now its time to raise them and find a very very good home for them

[YorkieRose]

Originally Posted by yorkietweetie

thanks and believe me I have prayed and Thanked God every single day that we have a successful whelp and pray that they continue to stay healthy. Now its time to raise them and find a very very good home for them

[dawn27]

Originally Posted by Mardelin

What don't you get it's very self explanatory.

Don't breed without a mentor....and don't come onto a forum to get the answers that you want to hear. I got that part!

The Martyr Mary meaning the OP came on and had an in your face attitude and when she was called on it....all of a sudden she played the victom, didn't know the what the symbols she used meant....

I very much try to respect everyone here on YT no matter how you choose to reply toward a post. Especially the breeders who I have learned so much from. No complaints there...

But I can not get why this this this or even this can stir up so much drama !!

Seriously People LET IT GO ALREADY! My goodness....


Congrats on a successful whelping
Congratulations on the new litter
Great job!
Good to hear that all is well

Take care EVRYONE and Enjoy the remainder of your weekend.

[yorkietweetie]

Originally Posted by dawn27

I very much try to respect everyone here on YT no matter how you choose to reply toward a post. Especially the breeders who I have learned so much from. No complaints there...

But I can not get why this this this or even this can stir up so much drama !!

Seriously People LET IT GO ALREADY! My goodness....


Congrats on a successful whelping
Congratulations on the new litter
Great job!
Good to hear that all is well

Take care EVRYONE and Enjoy the remainder of your weekend.

Thanks

[Mardelin]

Originally Posted by dawn27

I very much try to respect everyone here on YT no matter how you choose to reply toward a post. Especially the breeders who I have learned so much from. No complaints there...

But I can not get why this this this or even this can stir up so much drama !!

Seriously People LET IT GO ALREADY! My goodness....


Congrats on a successful whelping
Congratulations on the new litter
Great job!
Good to hear that all is well

Take care EVRYONE and Enjoy the remainder of your weekend.

Since you haven't been a member here long enough to learn what these, it's really easy to interpret what the do mean just run your curser over them...and whala....explanations appear. Roll eyes (states sarcastic) the pink smily guy is means stick out tongue. and so forth and so on....So, the OP used several that were in your face symbols, not room for interpretation from members.

[lillymae]

Originally Posted by dawn27

You are so very Welcome "T" ... Thank you !

Thank you for returning to YT after all you had to endure from the community and giving us an update. I know how hard that had to be considering how some people responded to your original . post.


Please keep up the great work you are doing with Journee and the pups, you are doing a great job. Just remember there is still a long road ahead. We will chat about that later, I'm sure.

As far as your up date post.... I am having a hard time finding the "In your Face" part about it. I'm totaly confused...

But whatever.... Opinions are just that and nothing else. You all can write whatever your little hearts desires no matter how harsh. That dont make you or your opinion of the OP or Newbies right! In any way shape or form.... it just makes you a voice for your passions and views and some times I just wish people like you would think twice before commenting on a thread when someone comes to YT for our HELP!

Very sad to think of how many people have left this forum empty handed with No Help and no where else to turn to ..Because of people like you who feel that they have a right to voice there opinions no matter what the consiquinced are.

You all are so in your face.... about what you feel is right and forget that there are precious lives of a mother and pups involved. and in my mind that takes precedence over your opinion any day!!

Yea, I didn't see the " In Your Face either ". A little truth maybe but no "In Your Face" I just see no need for a RUDE response ever, but I guess that's just me. Thank You for helping her out.

[Deuce]

Originally Posted by yorkietweetie

Well everyone I am back, even after I had some ppl tell me to give my dog an abortion or I was not a smart breeder, and many many more comments that I didnt care for. But just wanted to let everyone know that my yorkie had a successul Whelp, she gave birth to two beautiful puppies on April 16th, she had a boy and girl. Mommies and puppies are doing well, they have both been to the vet to get checked and have also had there tails docked and declawed.

I would like to say to all the YT newbies, that you are gonna get some ppl on here that beat you up because we are all able to give our input, but please keep reading because there are ppl on here that are welling to help and give you good info.

I want to thank everyone who helped me and continued to reach out to me even when I wasn't happy with the comments.

Special thanks to Dawn27 she was a great help and has been here for me every step of the way.

pics will be added to my page if you would like to go and take a look at the new addition.

Honestly, even without the emotions I feel like this is a "in your face" post. Kind of reminds me of:
http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/gen...ll-doubts.html

I'm glad that the whelp was successful and that you know you have your hands full over the next 12 weeks. Be sure to research all prospective buyers of your puppies and ensure that you stay in contact just in case your pups are carrying defects. Try to sell on spay/neuter contracts, though if they don't have papers I don't know how you can enforce that.

Are you planning on getting your male neutered as well?

[Lil Sis]

Originally Posted by yorkietweetie

I really wish you would of seen the posting i got before you chose to post you comments. Because it was pretty bad, very bad at that. Very few came to give additional information. The point I was tryin to make is if I am asking for information dont come and beat me up, help a person out because at this time its to late to say anything because my dog was already prego.

So please re-read my posting and believe me I wasn't throwing anything back in anyone face. If that is how u feel then that is your opinion and there is another person I may not need to speak to on YT.

Please believe me i was worried to death that something might of happened, but there was maybe only 2 or 3 ppl who were willing to help me out when I asked question the rest wanted to tell me I as not responsible and I am just doing it for fun, or what were you thinking

So please find my other posting and read them before you responds.

Thanks for your info and once again like I said I have had one person that has been there to help me every step of the way!!!!!!!

I am also aware of the lady who lost one of her puppies and have been speaking to her on the side.

Once again thanks armaniman, but on this one I would rather not deal with this madness again!!!!

Originally Posted by yorkietweetie

So at the end of the day everyone has said what they had to say and apparently everyone thinks because I put the emotions next to my comment it means in your face. Which is completely wrong, if that is the way anyone took it please except my apologizes. I just like to put emoition next to most of my posting and it is what it is...

But please understand this, I will still be using emoition icons and if you are not sure what i meant by them feel free to ask

Once again thanks for everyone input!!!!

Originally Posted by yorkietweetie

So at the end of the day everyone has said what they had to say and apparently everyone thinks because I put the emotions next to my comment it means in your face. Which is completely wrong, if that is the way anyone took it please except my apologizes. I just like to put emoition next to most of my posting and it is what it is...


I actually did apologize and explain that was not my intent.

And you are right sometimes you dont agree with posting and we should take a step back b4 we respond...

Apologized... really???? Well may be that is the problem here... if you said f*** y** and someone said to you that is rude would you respond..
"oh I did not mean f*** y** but I like saying f*** y** so deal with it" and think that was apologizing????
I mean you NO HARM and i am TRULY glad all worked out well.... but I hope you really look at what people are saying to you and not get so defensive. This is a life lesson that goes beyond the puppy.. it is how you deal with people. I hope you gain from this and not just get mad.
Good luck

[Rhetts_mama]

Originally Posted by dawn27

I very much try to respect everyone here on YT no matter how you choose to reply toward a post. Especially the breeders who I have learned so much from. No complaints there...

But I can not get why this this this or even this can stir up so much drama !!

Seriously People LET IT GO ALREADY! My goodness....


Congrats on a successful whelping
Congratulations on the new litter
Great job!
Good to hear that all is well

Take care EVRYONE and Enjoy the remainder of your weekend.

If it were a single case of not knowing about the icons, it would probably be easier to "let it go". But when you look at the history of this poster, it makes me go "hmmm..."

When the poster first posted here in March, she was told that using the terminology "prego yorkie" conveyed a cavalier attitude about breeding. Yet she's continued to use it again in this thread. That to me supports the theory that this whole thing was an "in your face" type of posting.