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EmrldShdwQueen · 03-07-2008, 05:54 PM

I just have to vent for a second. I just got TOLD off because I explained to someone who called about my puppies that I like to be as involved as possible in their lives, even after they leave me. I said I had no problem babysitting if she ever wanted to go out of town, and that I really like to have frequent updates after I send a baby home. She actually told me that was "ridiculous" and said she didn't want to buy a puppy from someone who "checks up" on them after they're already sold. She said it should be their business and their business only what happens to the dog after it leaves me. I was completely shocked. What an IDIOT!!

I don't usually tell people off, but the first thing out of my mouth was, "well if that's how you feel, trust me, I wouldn't sell a puppy to you if you begged me."

Sorry, I just had to get that off my chest. I am amazed at some of the things people say when they call about puppies...I truly am...

mypreciouspups · 03-07-2008, 05:57 PM

Well I am with you on this one.. I guess this person has not done enough homework to know that a breeder should be able to be right there, take an interest... maybe she feels intimidated that you would watch over her in the wrong way.. and feel that she could lose her pet.. not sure why she would feel that,. but obviously her own problem, and nothing you are doing wrong at all....
It is ok to share this kind of thing.. I can feel your being upset.. for your babies..

BamaFan121s · 03-07-2008, 05:59 PM

Don't let it get to you. I would think any new owner would be thrilled and view it as a good sign that a breeder cares so much about the pups they are producing. Sounds as maybe she didn't have the noblest of intentions in mind for this pup. So, see ya! YOU are doing the right thing!

Yorkieville200 · 03-07-2008, 06:00 PM

Good for you!

You sure don't want one of your babies going to that woman!

Geez, I think it's wonderful you offered to babysit if she ever goes out of town.

Sheila

bjh · 03-07-2008, 06:00 PM

The lady should have thrilled that you cared enough about your puppies to want to stay in touch with them. Some people just don't get it. Try not to let it bother you.

linda44 · 03-07-2008, 06:01 PM

you go girl......Im with you.

mechchic3 · 03-07-2008, 06:05 PM

Your not having a very good week are you? Poor thing I think I know what you need..............A Day At The Spa................. that always helps me. You know something they are your pups and I think that it's great that you are involved in their lives. Good for you for sticking up for your babies

. Hope next week is better for you.Hugs

a2luckygirl · 03-07-2008, 06:06 PM

LOL!! oh, you are so lucky that they will not ever get one of your puppies!!!
I think you said just what should of been said!
why would she not want to?? And a offer to puppy sit if needed! Wow!! Pretty Great service I think!!

One of the things Banjo's 1st human mommy said is will you please let me know every once in a while how he is!! I send her a pic. and a little note every month or so!!

EmrldShdwQueen · 03-07-2008, 06:06 PM

Thanks guys, that makes me feel better...I just had a few minutes of being thoroughly pissed.

It's not like I'm asking to move into their house and watch them every second, I just want a few simple emails or phone calls at minimum to let me know how he or she is doing. They don't have to tell me what kind of food they eat, how many times a day they poop, or how many toys they have...

Of course, if they DID tell me those things I wouldn't mind that either!

I just really and truly care about them, they're not just "puppies" to me, they're part of the family, and I get attached to every one of them.

EmrldShdwQueen · 03-07-2008, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by mechchic3

Your not having a very good week are you? Poor thing I think I know what you need..............A Day At The Spa................. that always helps me. You know something they are your pups and I think that it's great that you are involved in their lives. Good for you for sticking up for your babies

. Hope next week is better for you.Hugs

lol, no I'm not...

But you know, my babies may have short hair and I may be criticized for caring about them, but at least they're all healthy, happy, and spoiled rotten...

MICKEYK · 03-07-2008, 06:09 PM

wow that was really rude of her.my tucker will be a year old the 20th of this month i still email pics and update the breeder that i bought him from.she never asked me to but i wouldnt have cared if she did i just do it out of kindness and to insure her he got a very good home

OLIVIA_KARHIS · 03-07-2008, 06:14 PM

GOD FOR YOU!!

I keep the breeder I got my girls from , updated. I try to send pix of them here and there. She should be GALD that you care enough about your furkids that you want to know about them, after they leave your home!

Two to one, she prob was going to take your pup and breed her or him for money and not care anything about the pup.

You Did The Right thing!!!

luckylady · 03-07-2008, 06:39 PM

I'm with you all the way on this one also. When Lexie's pups went to their new homes, I let the new owners know that I would appreciate any updates/pictures they could give me. They have my email address and I have theirs...if I wouldn't hear from them, I would be sending an email asking how they're doing. Not constantly of course, just now and then. So far they have been very good about it...I got pictures and comments on their first Christmas (they left right before). I plan on sending an email out in April when the pups turn 6 months asking for new pictures and maybe again at 1 year. I am happy to hear/say that they are all happy & doing well with their new families.

MyFairLacy · 03-07-2008, 06:48 PM

How stupid...why would you want to buy a puppy from a breeder that has no interest in it after it leaves? With my older cat and Lacy, I have no contact with their breeders. I wrote a letter to Lacy's breeder when she was a year old and told her how she was doing. I gave her my e-mail address and told her if she ever wanted me to bring Lacy by if I was traveling through there to let me know. She e-mailed me back and said it was nice to hear she was doing well and that she often wondered about the puppies she sold. And that was it.. With my youngest cat, I don't keep in frequent touch with her breeder, although I did e-mail her more often at first. I'll probably send her new pics sometime soon and give her an other update. I feel like I could call her if I needed anything and she would be there...she's really a great breeder. When I buy my next puppy, I hope I already have a relationship with the breeder beforehand and I expect them to want updates and to see them occasionally. I feel like a good breeder will be there for you if you ever have a question and will want to be somewhat involved in the puppy's life

Jody Renfroe · 03-07-2008, 07:16 PM

I think it's great that you would want to keep in touch with your babies. The lady I got Scooter from, while a nice lady (and I got a really sweet pup), has never called once to check on him. I called her a few times after I got him just to thank her and to let her know how he was doing, but she really didn't seem that interested. I made sure that she had my phone number and address, even told her exactly where I lived and told her she was welcome to drop by anytime to check on him, but I've never heard from her.

I'm not a breeder, just a yorkie lover, but...if I were a breeder, I'd be one who wanted to know how my babies were doing. After all, they were yours first and they are like our children!!! I think you were absolutely right and I don't blame you for being angry. Had it been me, it would have given me great pleasure to tell her she couldn't have one of my children! JMO

03-07-2008, 05:54 PM	#1
EmrldShdwQueen No Longer a Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: US Posts: 3,987	You have GOT to be kidding me... I just have to vent for a second. I just got TOLD off because I explained to someone who called about my puppies that I like to be as involved as possible in their lives, even after they leave me. I said I had no problem babysitting if she ever wanted to go out of town, and that I really like to have frequent updates after I send a baby home. She actually told me that was "ridiculous" and said she didn't want to buy a puppy from someone who "checks up" on them after they're already sold. She said it should be their business and their business only what happens to the dog after it leaves me. I was completely shocked. What an IDIOT!! I don't usually tell people off, but the first thing out of my mouth was, "well if that's how you feel, trust me, I wouldn't sell a puppy to you if you begged me." Sorry, I just had to get that off my chest. I am amazed at some of the things people say when they call about puppies...I truly am...

03-07-2008, 06:05 PM	#7
mechchic3 Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Tampa Posts: 531	Your not having a very good week are you? Poor thing I think I know what you need..............A Day At The Spa................. that always helps me. You know something they are your pups and I think that it's great that you are involved in their lives. Good for you for sticking up for your babies. Hope next week is better for you.Hugs __________________ Sophie& Rambo Rambo proud member of "The Little Gentlemen's Club"

03-07-2008, 06:06 PM	#8
a2luckygirl YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: HASTINGS, NE- 4 NOW!!! Posts: 2,208	LOL!! oh, you are so lucky that they will not ever get one of your puppies!!! I think you said just what should of been said! why would she not want to?? And a offer to puppy sit if needed! Wow!! Pretty Great service I think!! One of the things Banjo's 1st human mommy said is will you please let me know every once in a while how he is!! I send her a pic. and a little note every month or so!! __________________ :I PLAYING....THE BANJO........ AND KISSING MY MOMMY:kiss3

03-07-2008, 06:14 PM	#12
OLIVIA_KARHIS Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: GERMANY Posts: 1,544	GOD FOR YOU!! I keep the breeder I got my girls from , updated. I try to send pix of them here and there. She should be GALD that you care enough about your furkids that you want to know about them, after they leave your home! Two to one, she prob was going to take your pup and breed her or him for money and not care anything about the pup. You Did The Right thing!!! __________________ Bunny &Bella Supporting The Troops

03-07-2008, 06:39 PM	#13
luckylady Living My Yorkie Dream Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Nebraska Posts: 6,114 Blog Entries: 6	I'm with you all the way on this one also. When Lexie's pups went to their new homes, I let the new owners know that I would appreciate any updates/pictures they could give me. They have my email address and I have theirs...if I wouldn't hear from them, I would be sending an email asking how they're doing. Not constantly of course, just now and then. So far they have been very good about it...I got pictures and comments on their first Christmas (they left right before). I plan on sending an email out in April when the pups turn 6 months asking for new pictures and maybe again at 1 year. I am happy to hear/say that they are all happy & doing well with their new families. __________________ Rose Lucky,Toby, Hannah,Camie, & Reggie Heartland Biewers and Yorkies

03-07-2008, 05:57 PM	#2
mypreciouspups Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Florida/Canada Posts: 5,514	Well I am with you on this one.. I guess this person has not done enough homework to know that a breeder should be able to be right there, take an interest... maybe she feels intimidated that you would watch over her in the wrong way.. and feel that she could lose her pet.. not sure why she would feel that,. but obviously her own problem, and nothing you are doing wrong at all.... It is ok to share this kind of thing.. I can feel your being upset.. for your babies..

03-07-2008, 05:59 PM	#3
BamaFan121s Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Alabama Posts: 11,432	Don't let it get to you. I would think any new owner would be thrilled and view it as a good sign that a breeder cares so much about the pups they are producing. Sounds as maybe she didn't have the noblest of intentions in mind for this pup. So, see ya! YOU are doing the right thing!

03-07-2008, 06:00 PM	#4
Yorkieville200 YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: IL Posts: 2,179	Good for you! You sure don't want one of your babies going to that woman! Geez, I think it's wonderful you offered to babysit if she ever goes out of town. Sheila

03-07-2008, 06:00 PM	#5
bjh Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Southeast Texas Posts: 7,959	The lady should have thrilled that you cared enough about your puppies to want to stay in touch with them. Some people just don't get it. Try not to let it bother you.

03-07-2008, 06:01 PM	#6
linda44 Luv my 7 Furkids Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: napa Posts: 9,655 Blog Entries: 4	you go girl......Im with you.

03-07-2008, 06:09 PM	#11
MICKEYK BANNED FOR STEALING YORKIETALK CONTENT! Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: MI Posts: 2,052	wow that was really rude of her.my tucker will be a year old the 20th of this month i still email pics and update the breeder that i bought him from.she never asked me to but i wouldnt have cared if she did i just do it out of kindness and to insure her he got a very good home

03-07-2008, 06:48 PM	#14
MyFairLacy Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: DFW, Texas Posts: 11,003	How stupid...why would you want to buy a puppy from a breeder that has no interest in it after it leaves? With my older cat and Lacy, I have no contact with their breeders. I wrote a letter to Lacy's breeder when she was a year old and told her how she was doing. I gave her my e-mail address and told her if she ever wanted me to bring Lacy by if I was traveling through there to let me know. She e-mailed me back and said it was nice to hear she was doing well and that she often wondered about the puppies she sold. And that was it.. With my youngest cat, I don't keep in frequent touch with her breeder, although I did e-mail her more often at first. I'll probably send her new pics sometime soon and give her an other update. I feel like I could call her if I needed anything and she would be there...she's really a great breeder. When I buy my next puppy, I hope I already have a relationship with the breeder beforehand and I expect them to want updates and to see them occasionally. I feel like a good breeder will be there for you if you ever have a question and will want to be somewhat involved in the puppy's life __________________ ~Magnifique Yorkies~ Purchasing from backyard breeders, pet shops, and puppymills perpetuates the suffering of other dogs. Educate yourself and buy from reputable breeders or rescue.

03-07-2008, 07:16 PM	#15
Jody Renfroe No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 1,375	I think it's great that you would want to keep in touch with your babies. The lady I got Scooter from, while a nice lady (and I got a really sweet pup), has never called once to check on him. I called her a few times after I got him just to thank her and to let her know how he was doing, but she really didn't seem that interested. I made sure that she had my phone number and address, even told her exactly where I lived and told her she was welcome to drop by anytime to check on him, but I've never heard from her. I'm not a breeder, just a yorkie lover, but...if I were a breeder, I'd be one who wanted to know how my babies were doing. After all, they were yours first and they are like our children!!! I think you were absolutely right and I don't blame you for being angry. Had it been me, it would have given me great pleasure to tell her she couldn't have one of my children! JMO