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rosey442 · 12-21-2008, 02:39 AM

Hi. I'll try to keep this brief and to the point. I live in a very rural area surrounded by Amish farms. I personally live in a very nice mobile home in a small, but nice mobile home park. It is very nice except for one thing/person. The wife of the park supervisor has let his title go to her head and she goes around throwing her weight around making others miserable in a lot of little ways bragging that she can say/do anything that she wants because she's the park manager. That being said; for whatever reason, she has decided that she does not like me nor my children. Even though I have never said nor done anything to this woman for her to dislike me.
Since this past spring she has repeatedly called Children & Youth Services making false accusations of "leaving my children alone for hours while I went to a bar". I don't even drink! I would never leave my children alone for anything as they are too immature and irresponsible yet. They both are autistic. And they themselves would cry and have a fit if I even tried to leave them. I have been accused numerous times of "not supervising them and leaving them unattended." This translates to allowing the to go outside for short while; maybe 1/2 hour to an hour at a time to play After all, they do have to eventually learn to make decisions for themselves and if they're never given the opportunity to do so, how will they ever be able to do so?
Again, these have been for the most part, considered unfounded. Several neighbors that I am friendly with have told me how this woman came right out and told them that she has called and "reported" me and encouraged them to do so also. I was also accused once of being mean and that I beat them them. Again unfounded.
Finally the creme de le creme from this woman: I became behind in my lot rent due to a couple of large bills that I had to pay at the time, and as I live on a fixed income (SS disability), it is difficult to catch up again. I have one more payment in January and then I am caught up. In the meantime, this woman told CYS that I was being evicted ( 2 months ago, I'm not. The decision is not up to her- it's up to the owner of the park. Thank God, for if it was up to her, we probably would be evicted.). She also told the mortgage company for my mobile home the same thing which is untrue. Finally, to add insult to injury- she either told her daughter (who is 12 and an unbelievable brat) or else her daughter overheard. Either way, my personal business is not this child's business nor is it the business of the park as she (the child) goes about babbling it to anyone who will listen to her. My neighbor tells me that this child goes around saying that I haven't paid lot rent for 6 months- totally untrue. I have the cashed checks to prove it.
She's also going around telling everyone that supposedly the sheriff was looking for me that I have a warrant for arrest. Also untrue. As my neighbor says, her life must be incredibly empty, boring or something that she has focused on me and has started spreading all of these rumors. Right now I am focused on getting my children back and doing what I need to do to get them back- after which, I will concentrate suing this woman for slander and libel. And character assassination, For some reason she is jealous of me, so this is her way of getting back at me. A power trip for her.
Because of a lot of these complaints and untruths- the end result was that my sons were taken away from me. They are in the custody of CYS. My older son is at Devereaux, which is a residential school specifically for autistic children. My younger son is at the Children's Home of York in their Emergency Shelter section. Both of my sons are so lonely and at times bored and just want to come so badly.
Because of this woman's cold and selfish heart, my sons will suffer emotionally from this for the rest of their lives. My youngest son just got hurt today at the shelter. They had to take him to the hospital-he broke his left foot. If that had happened while he was at home with me- I would have been crucified for it for not having adequately supervised him (I am a single parent- no significant other either), but it happens there, and that's ok. Where is the justice?
My sons want so badly to be home- I want so badly to have them at home. That would be the best Christmas gift ever!

And now Christmas is just about here. My mother died the 23rd 4 years ago, and now I don't have my sons either. I don't know how I'm going to make it through this Christmas and New Year.
That was also why it was so important for me to have Molly even though it is probably in reality the worst time financially to have her. But emotionally, I feel having her is more than worth the money spent.
PLEASE forgive me that this is so long----but the other thing I need your prayers are for me. I am a diabetic and have had a diabetic ulcer on right plantar of my right foot for the past year that has not healed. Instead, it has gotten larger, leaks more blood and plasma than before, my foot is swelling now, the toenail of the right great toe keeps falling off after it no sooner grows in and finally, it (my foot) has begun to hurt. Something it didn't do before which has the doctor worried. I also have diabetic peripheral neuropathy in my feet, legs, hands and arms. Anyway, on Christmas Eve, I go to the hospital for an x-ray of the right foot as well as an injection of an isotope for a bone scan of the right foot to be done about 6 hours later. This is to rule out osteomyelitis. If it is osteo, I will have to have the forefront of my right foot amputated.
I have tried to prepare my sons about this- just in case.
As it stands right now, we have to wait until our court hearing on Mon., Dec. 29th at 1pm before CYS will allow the boys to start home visitation- with the goal of home reunification. I have to go through a few hoops before getting them back- I have to go to a pyschologist for counseling (with all of this going on, it's not such a bad thing), take a 6 week Domestic Violence class (who knows why? I'm not in any sort of relationship) and a Parenting Class. My lawyer told me I'd have these classes to take because they really don't have anything on me and that they need me to do something before giving the boys back to me.
I'm upset too, because the 29th is my youngest son's birthday- he turns 11 that day.
PLEASE FORGIVE ME that this has been so long- but I have had a lot of crap going on in my life to have to deal with. I also go to the hospital this evening at 8pm for a CPAP titration test. I'll leave Mon., Dec. 22 with a script for a CPAP and mask which will probably be delivered by the 23-24. Lovely Christmas present, eh? I'm looking forward to it, perhaps I'll at least be able to sleep well for the first time in years now.
Anyway, remember my sons and I for Christmas, the court hearing (I'm hoping that the judge will order home visitations to start- as Devereaux especially is pushing for it as it is part of their therapeutic treatment) and that home reunification will occur within 1-2 months, or sooner.
Finally, please remember me in your prayers that I don't have osteomyelitis and that antibiotics, debriding, topical creams and bandages will be enough for healing.
God Bless everyone for the Holidays and also for your prayers as I believe in the power of prayer.

dixon · 12-21-2008, 07:08 AM

I am so sorry. I will keep you in my prayers. If you ever need to talk I'll be there for you. Many years ago my children were taken away from me for no reason. I got them back after a week of he** and didn't have to do anything. All the charges were found to be false. Hang in there you will get them back.

Yorkieluv · 12-21-2008, 09:01 AM

I am so sorry

Prayers for you and your sons...I hope everything works out, and I will be praying that your son's foot is okay.

patty58 · 12-21-2008, 01:30 PM

Oh honey I am so sorry that you are going thru all of this. Please know that you and your sons are in my prayers.

MeganS · 12-21-2008, 01:36 PM

Oh my gosh.

I'm so sorry that you're going through all of this. I can't imagine how hard this has been on your sons and you. Is there a reason they couldn't at least keep them together? This is so sad.

I hope that you are able to get justice. I'll have you (and your sons) in my prayers.

Little Bit · 12-21-2008, 02:08 PM

Sending out prayers! I am so sorry for all you have had to go through.

Hugs!

LuvMySissy · 12-21-2008, 06:31 PM

Wow - that is alot of any one person to handle. Sending my prayers that you can be strong and get your children back and that your tests turn out okay as well as you can get on the road to health. I hope that you are able to sue that wonderful lady who has caused you so much pain - but if that doesn't work out - remember karma is a b$t@h!!!!!!!

carmen in nj · 12-21-2008, 06:51 PM

I believe in Karma and what goes around comes around, you will see it.. sending prayers and good vibes to you.. have faith..
hugs,
cArmen in nj

chloesMama · 12-21-2008, 07:05 PM

I am sorry this is happening to you.. For you and your sons to be harassed like this to satisfy the cold heart and mean spirit of another is very sad and wrong.

4doggiemama · 12-21-2008, 07:07 PM

Justice does come in unexpected forms. And lots of times it isn't even without taking revenge. Hugs to you and your boys. Nasty that this is happening to you. Prayers going towards heaven for you. Take care of yourself. ~Joanne~

TootiesMom · 12-21-2008, 07:10 PM

I am so sorry this is happening to you. I will say a prayer that your children are returned to you soon. Good Luck with your medical testing.
Bless You!
d

Patti · 12-22-2008, 07:10 AM

How terrible for you and how awful of that woman. I will keep you all in my prayers.

PANAMA69 · 12-22-2008, 04:54 PM

Sending you prayers

rosey442 · 12-22-2008, 07:00 PM

Thanks everyone so much for your prayers and concerns. If you would like to see a picture of my sons and read a bit more of this mess; you can go to savemyboys.com. For those in the Lancaster area, there is a guy (Ben) on daddyjustice.com who won a case for a local woman and her daughter. It is a landmark case. He helped her win a settlement of $125,000.
My lawyer told me that rather than be adversarial with CYS, I should just do as they ask to get my boys back sooner. Then, go to Ben and sue.
Because I live on SS disability, my lawyer is pro bono. My daughter doesn't believe that he is doing his utmost for me like he would if I were a paying client. I don't know what to believe.
Because of them taking them from me, my income has been halved. My boys each receive SSI, as they are autistic.
Because of the loss of their income too, it has really hit hard. Just running back and forth to visit each boy once per week and bring them fast food as a treat costs about $200 or so per month. After paying all my bills, it leaves me with very little.
I am also depressed because I was able to buy only a few gifts for the boys and one for each grandchild. Nothing for my daughter who greatly deserves something as she's been very good to me and the boys.
Because of all of my running around, feeling depressed, I forgot to contact my local CAP office sooner; anyway I found out I missed by a day for being able to sign up for Toys for Tots. Same for the Salvation Army.
Not only will this be a lonely Christmas for the boys and I; but it will be a very lean one for the boys. And, for that, I feel even worse.
But, we all have each other and know that we love each other. That is something that not all children have as my sons have found out from this experience. They are even more precious to me and I to them.
I am hoping that after the 29th (court hearing at 1pm), that we will soon have home visits.
Please keep us in your thoughts.
Carolyn
P.S. I had asked the boy's CYS caseworker about Christmas gifts as well as their MH/MR caseworker. But, I am not going to hold my breath as they haven't done anything else for them up to this point; other than to take them away.
Who knows? Maybe there will be a secret Santa for them after all.

msjagg · 12-22-2008, 08:41 PM

I will keep you and your sons in my prayers. The lady @ the park will get hers... Paybacks are h*ll, remember that!! It's a very lean year for everyone with the economy the way it is!! Prayers that all will work out with your diabetes. On Dec. 29th the lies she told will be found not true and you will get your boys back!! Blessings to you and your family this holiday season and prayers for a better New Year!!! Baron's Mom

12-21-2008, 02:39 AM	#1
rosey442 Donating YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Providence, PA USA Posts: 302	Please Pray for Us & Keep Us in Your Thoughts (PLEASE READ!) Hi. I'll try to keep this brief and to the point. I live in a very rural area surrounded by Amish farms. I personally live in a very nice mobile home in a small, but nice mobile home park. It is very nice except for one thing/person. The wife of the park supervisor has let his title go to her head and she goes around throwing her weight around making others miserable in a lot of little ways bragging that she can say/do anything that she wants because she's the park manager. That being said; for whatever reason, she has decided that she does not like me nor my children. Even though I have never said nor done anything to this woman for her to dislike me. Since this past spring she has repeatedly called Children & Youth Services making false accusations of "leaving my children alone for hours while I went to a bar". I don't even drink! I would never leave my children alone for anything as they are too immature and irresponsible yet. They both are autistic. And they themselves would cry and have a fit if I even tried to leave them. I have been accused numerous times of "not supervising them and leaving them unattended." This translates to allowing the to go outside for short while; maybe 1/2 hour to an hour at a time to play After all, they do have to eventually learn to make decisions for themselves and if they're never given the opportunity to do so, how will they ever be able to do so? Again, these have been for the most part, considered unfounded. Several neighbors that I am friendly with have told me how this woman came right out and told them that she has called and "reported" me and encouraged them to do so also. I was also accused once of being mean and that I beat them them. Again unfounded. Finally the creme de le creme from this woman: I became behind in my lot rent due to a couple of large bills that I had to pay at the time, and as I live on a fixed income (SS disability), it is difficult to catch up again. I have one more payment in January and then I am caught up. In the meantime, this woman told CYS that I was being evicted ( 2 months ago, I'm not. The decision is not up to her- it's up to the owner of the park. Thank God, for if it was up to her, we probably would be evicted.). She also told the mortgage company for my mobile home the same thing which is untrue. Finally, to add insult to injury- she either told her daughter (who is 12 and an unbelievable brat) or else her daughter overheard. Either way, my personal business is not this child's business nor is it the business of the park as she (the child) goes about babbling it to anyone who will listen to her. My neighbor tells me that this child goes around saying that I haven't paid lot rent for 6 months- totally untrue. I have the cashed checks to prove it. She's also going around telling everyone that supposedly the sheriff was looking for me that I have a warrant for arrest. Also untrue. As my neighbor says, her life must be incredibly empty, boring or something that she has focused on me and has started spreading all of these rumors. Right now I am focused on getting my children back and doing what I need to do to get them back- after which, I will concentrate suing this woman for slander and libel. And character assassination, For some reason she is jealous of me, so this is her way of getting back at me. A power trip for her. Because of a lot of these complaints and untruths- the end result was that my sons were taken away from me. They are in the custody of CYS. My older son is at Devereaux, which is a residential school specifically for autistic children. My younger son is at the Children's Home of York in their Emergency Shelter section. Both of my sons are so lonely and at times bored and just want to come so badly. Because of this woman's cold and selfish heart, my sons will suffer emotionally from this for the rest of their lives. My youngest son just got hurt today at the shelter. They had to take him to the hospital-he broke his left foot. If that had happened while he was at home with me- I would have been crucified for it for not having adequately supervised him (I am a single parent- no significant other either), but it happens there, and that's ok. Where is the justice? My sons want so badly to be home- I want so badly to have them at home. That would be the best Christmas gift ever! And now Christmas is just about here. My mother died the 23rd 4 years ago, and now I don't have my sons either. I don't know how I'm going to make it through this Christmas and New Year. That was also why it was so important for me to have Molly even though it is probably in reality the worst time financially to have her. But emotionally, I feel having her is more than worth the money spent. PLEASE forgive me that this is so long----but the other thing I need your prayers are for me. I am a diabetic and have had a diabetic ulcer on right plantar of my right foot for the past year that has not healed. Instead, it has gotten larger, leaks more blood and plasma than before, my foot is swelling now, the toenail of the right great toe keeps falling off after it no sooner grows in and finally, it (my foot) has begun to hurt. Something it didn't do before which has the doctor worried. I also have diabetic peripheral neuropathy in my feet, legs, hands and arms. Anyway, on Christmas Eve, I go to the hospital for an x-ray of the right foot as well as an injection of an isotope for a bone scan of the right foot to be done about 6 hours later. This is to rule out osteomyelitis. If it is osteo, I will have to have the forefront of my right foot amputated. I have tried to prepare my sons about this- just in case. As it stands right now, we have to wait until our court hearing on Mon., Dec. 29th at 1pm before CYS will allow the boys to start home visitation- with the goal of home reunification. I have to go through a few hoops before getting them back- I have to go to a pyschologist for counseling (with all of this going on, it's not such a bad thing), take a 6 week Domestic Violence class (who knows why? I'm not in any sort of relationship) and a Parenting Class. My lawyer told me I'd have these classes to take because they really don't have anything on me and that they need me to do something before giving the boys back to me. I'm upset too, because the 29th is my youngest son's birthday- he turns 11 that day. PLEASE FORGIVE ME that this has been so long- but I have had a lot of crap going on in my life to have to deal with. I also go to the hospital this evening at 8pm for a CPAP titration test. I'll leave Mon., Dec. 22 with a script for a CPAP and mask which will probably be delivered by the 23-24. Lovely Christmas present, eh? I'm looking forward to it, perhaps I'll at least be able to sleep well for the first time in years now. Anyway, remember my sons and I for Christmas, the court hearing (I'm hoping that the judge will order home visitations to start- as Devereaux especially is pushing for it as it is part of their therapeutic treatment) and that home reunification will occur within 1-2 months, or sooner. Finally, please remember me in your prayers that I don't have osteomyelitis and that antibiotics, debriding, topical creams and bandages will be enough for healing. God Bless everyone for the Holidays and also for your prayers as I believe in the power of prayer.

12-21-2008, 09:01 AM	#3
Yorkieluv Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: USA Posts: 7,178	I am so sorry Prayers for you and your sons...I hope everything works out, and I will be praying that your son's foot is okay. __________________ Miko 's his Mommy

12-21-2008, 01:30 PM	#4
patty58 Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas Posts: 5,272	Oh honey I am so sorry that you are going thru all of this. Please know that you and your sons are in my prayers. __________________ Decide To Make It A Good Day

12-21-2008, 01:36 PM	#5
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,016 Blog Entries: 1	Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry that you're going through all of this. I can't imagine how hard this has been on your sons and you. Is there a reason they couldn't at least keep them together? This is so sad. I hope that you are able to get justice. I'll have you (and your sons) in my prayers. __________________ Megan "I have my dreams, I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen All Gave Some; Some Gave All

12-21-2008, 02:08 PM	#6
Little Bit Tiny Dog Big Heart Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 6,205	Sending out prayers! I am so sorry for all you have had to go through. Hugs! __________________ Little Bit

12-21-2008, 07:08 AM	#2
dixon Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: kansas Posts: 86	I am so sorry. I will keep you in my prayers. If you ever need to talk I'll be there for you. Many years ago my children were taken away from me for no reason. I got them back after a week of he** and didn't have to do anything. All the charges were found to be false. Hang in there you will get them back.

12-21-2008, 06:31 PM	#7
LuvMySissy Luv my Angel, too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA Posts: 9,333	Wow - that is alot of any one person to handle. Sending my prayers that you can be strong and get your children back and that your tests turn out okay as well as you can get on the road to health. I hope that you are able to sue that wonderful lady who has caused you so much pain - but if that doesn't work out - remember karma is a b$t@h!!!!!!! __________________ Sissy & Angel

12-21-2008, 06:51 PM	#8
carmen in nj Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Hopatcong, NJ, USA Posts: 4,615 Blog Entries: 74	I believe in Karma and what goes around comes around, you will see it.. sending prayers and good vibes to you.. have faith.. hugs, cArmen in nj __________________ My Etsy shop is OPEN... Carmen in nj

12-21-2008, 07:05 PM	#9
chloesMama YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: here :) Posts: 1,182	I am sorry this is happening to you.. For you and your sons to be harassed like this to satisfy the cold heart and mean spirit of another is very sad and wrong. __________________ *Chloe & Sydney*

12-21-2008, 07:07 PM	#10
4doggiemama Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: KS Posts: 3,289	Justice does come in unexpected forms. And lots of times it isn't even without taking revenge. Hugs to you and your boys. Nasty that this is happening to you. Prayers going towards heaven for you. Take care of yourself. ~Joanne~ __________________ Joanne Eli ChipperEva Snowboy Rosie(R.I.P. 1996-July 29, 2013) Cocoa(R.I.P 1998-April 26, 2012):

12-21-2008, 07:10 PM	#11
TootiesMom and Hopeys Mom Too Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Louisiana Posts: 4,109	I am so sorry this is happening to you. I will say a prayer that your children are returned to you soon. Good Luck with your medical testing. Bless You! d __________________ Donna's little herd.... Tooties Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?271687 Hopeys Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?448723 and Tinker, TBone(RIP) Laci .. OH, and Me-Kitty(RIP)

12-22-2008, 07:10 AM	#12
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	How terrible for you and how awful of that woman. I will keep you all in my prayers. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

12-22-2008, 04:54 PM	#13
PANAMA69 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: ~~YorkieWorld~~ Posts: 8,428	Sending you prayers __________________

12-22-2008, 07:00 PM	#14
rosey442 Donating YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Providence, PA USA Posts: 302	Thanks everyone so much for your prayers and concerns. If you would like to see a picture of my sons and read a bit more of this mess; you can go to savemyboys.com. For those in the Lancaster area, there is a guy (Ben) on daddyjustice.com who won a case for a local woman and her daughter. It is a landmark case. He helped her win a settlement of $125,000. My lawyer told me that rather than be adversarial with CYS, I should just do as they ask to get my boys back sooner. Then, go to Ben and sue. Because I live on SS disability, my lawyer is pro bono. My daughter doesn't believe that he is doing his utmost for me like he would if I were a paying client. I don't know what to believe. Because of them taking them from me, my income has been halved. My boys each receive SSI, as they are autistic. Because of the loss of their income too, it has really hit hard. Just running back and forth to visit each boy once per week and bring them fast food as a treat costs about $200 or so per month. After paying all my bills, it leaves me with very little. I am also depressed because I was able to buy only a few gifts for the boys and one for each grandchild. Nothing for my daughter who greatly deserves something as she's been very good to me and the boys. Because of all of my running around, feeling depressed, I forgot to contact my local CAP office sooner; anyway I found out I missed by a day for being able to sign up for Toys for Tots. Same for the Salvation Army. Not only will this be a lonely Christmas for the boys and I; but it will be a very lean one for the boys. And, for that, I feel even worse. But, we all have each other and know that we love each other. That is something that not all children have as my sons have found out from this experience. They are even more precious to me and I to them. I am hoping that after the 29th (court hearing at 1pm), that we will soon have home visits. Please keep us in your thoughts. Carolyn P.S. I had asked the boy's CYS caseworker about Christmas gifts as well as their MH/MR caseworker. But, I am not going to hold my breath as they haven't done anything else for them up to this point; other than to take them away. Who knows? Maybe there will be a secret Santa for them after all.

12-22-2008, 08:41 PM	#15
msjagg YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Lancaster, PA. U.S.A. Posts: 1,449	I will keep you and your sons in my prayers. The lady @ the park will get hers... Paybacks are h*ll, remember that!! It's a very lean year for everyone with the economy the way it is!! Prayers that all will work out with your diabetes. On Dec. 29th the lies she told will be found not true and you will get your boys back!! Blessings to you and your family this holiday season and prayers for a better New Year!!! Baron's Mom __________________ Jodi G. Mum to : -Sammy,:-Baron Georg, :-Sophie Kennedy, and Carys Bella...