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chattiesmom · 04-16-2009, 03:12 PM

I did gift exchanges for several years and just got burned out. I would have serious anxiety about whether I had "sent enough" or whether or not my partner would like the items that I sent. In the early exchanges that I did, the gifts were smaller, but gradually the exchanges became more expensive with people sending bigger and more costly gifts. I found that I would buy, buy buy and worry that I didn't have enough so I would buy some more, and would ship my box still worried that it wasn't big enough or full enough or that my partner would be disappointed. Please understand that all of the anxiety I had was self imposed, but stressful, nonetheless so I decided to take a break.

I sincerely hope that the Spring, 2009 GE is the best ever and that all participating have loads of fun!

chattiesmom · 04-16-2009, 03:18 PM

Hummmmm here I am again, I re-read my post above and it sounded negative -- I didn't mean it that way. I DID very much enjoy the exchanges even through the stress.

I am very greatful to the Admin and Moderators for this very special YT activity.

QuickSilver · 04-16-2009, 03:19 PM

I will agree that it's a little intimidating to see these incredible gift boxes other people would get. I did a couple rounds of shopping because I didn't want my SB to get least lavish box. I wouldn't be averse to putting a maximum spending limit if people were amenable to that.

Obviously I did enjoy myself though, as I'm back for more.

I have a different shopping strategy this time.

linda44 · 04-16-2009, 03:32 PM

Aww Amanda, dont feel like that, I dont think they are meaning it like you took it. I think they were just trying to say what they would like, and Im sure they would be happy with what they got. I for one, get so excited making up the GE package and teasing, getting a package in return is really a bonus. Come on join the fun.

Wabbit · 04-16-2009, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by QuickSilver

I will agree that it's a little intimidating to see these incredible gift boxes other people would get. I did a couple rounds of shopping because I didn't want my SB to get least lavish box. I wouldn't be averse to putting a maximum spending limit if people were amenable to that.

Obviously I did enjoy myself though, as I'm back for more.

I have a different shopping strategy this time.

I have to admit that I have gone OVERBOARD on the gifts....LOL And My hubby about flipped when I told him I joined again!!

BUT I also have a different strategy this time....I'm going to MAKE things and try to make it more personal.....

Tcarnagie · 04-16-2009, 04:13 PM

Well I will admit that I am one that goes overboard on the GE also. I have been in 2 so far and just signed up for my 3rd one. I do it cause I love to shop for dogs and I shop early and buy in larger quantities so that really cuts the cost down for me.

When we first started, I was a little nervous not knowing what to get and whether they would like it but that does not seem to be the case. Everyone seems to enjoy anything that they get and are very grateful. I don't get intimidated by the do's and don't list....they help me in finding the perfect gift for our buddies. I would rather know ahead of time that they can't or don't want certain items rather than me sending stuff that they can't or won't be able to use. You will find that everyone that does participate in the GE are very easy going and will love everything. I sure enjoy being a part of it and maybe one day you will give it a try and love it also. It is not about the money or what you send but about getting to meet others and having fun exchanging gifts.

linda44 · 04-16-2009, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Tcarnagie

Well I will admit that I am one that goes overboard on the GE also. I have been in 2 so far and just signed up for my 3rd one. I do it cause I love to shop for dogs and I shop early and buy in larger quantities so that really cuts the cost down for me.

When we first started, I was a little nervous not knowing what to get and whether they would like it but that does not seem to be the case. Everyone seems to enjoy anything that they get and are very grateful. I don't get intimidated by the do's and don't list....they help me in finding the perfect gift for our buddies. I would rather know ahead of time that they can't or don't want certain items rather than me sending stuff that they can't or won't be able to use. You will find that everyone that does participate in the GE are very easy going and will love everything. I sure enjoy being a part of it and maybe one day you will give it a try and love it also. It is not about the money or what you send but about getting to meet others and having fun exchanging gifts.

Really well said. OK LETS HAVE SOME FUN!!!!

Cinq1964 · 04-16-2009, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by journey826

I think your feelings are valid,because that is how you feel.

It doesn't bother me,it takes away the nervousness of buying something they don't like or use.I look at it this way I would prefer to know what not to get because I would hate to buy gifts for someone and they don't like them and either give them away or donate them,makes me feel like I wasted my money.I also hate to keep gifts I hate so the giver will feel good,I think the way the GE is set ,EVERYONE participating has the chance to love most if not all of what they get,and to me that is the point.

Agree with you!! Everyone has their own opinion, but I would prefer to give something they really want, than something the will have no use for. This is my 4 one or so, and I enjoy the shopping and receiving! Come join, I don't think you will be disappointed!

emilyann · 04-16-2009, 05:52 PM

I have to agree with you. If that doesn't totally annoy me, it's the 50 million threads of people whining because certain people haven't made hint threads yet. I'm not talking about the threads where someone is casually asking where the rest are that signed up, I'm talking about the ones who whine about how they signed up for it to be fun and no one is participating. There's a reason why your buddy is a secret

.

I loved my first and only GE though... it was great fun on the giving and receiving end and I still to this day cherish everything Lilly and I both got. I just get so frustrated even thinking about all the threads that come along with the GE that I see every day while it's going on "WHERE ARE ALL THE OTHERS WHO HAVEN'T POSTED HINT THREADS".

amandawash · 04-16-2009, 05:57 PM

First of all, I really didn't mean to offend anyone. And please don't think I was picking certain people out, it's just after reading all the sign-ups, it just seemed like people were focusing more on things they DON'T want, rather than the concept (which is shopping for your secret buddy, right?). I UNDERSTAND health issues and allergies, but I guess if I got something my guys couldn't have or I didn't like, I would just rather give it to my parents dogs

they eat anything

There's still some time left, I guess we'll see

JMuedog · 04-16-2009, 06:03 PM

Ok, on this subject.... I noticed a couple people don't want toys made in China, but I can't find toys NOT made in China...

Anyone have any idea of what toys are not made in China??

I really want to start shopping!

twalla · 04-16-2009, 06:06 PM

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Originally Posted by JMuedog

Ok, on this subject.... I noticed a couple people don't want toys made in China, but I can't find toys NOT made in China...

Anyone have any idea of what toys are not made in China??

I really want to start shopping!

I would assume (and yes I know what that does) that they mean the rubber ones that have the paint since the paint was supposed to have lead in it. The stuffed ones are ok, IMHO.

You could always remove the tags and sew on your own ... MADE IN IL

emilyann · 04-16-2009, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by JMuedog

Ok, on this subject.... I noticed a couple people don't want toys made in China, but I can't find toys NOT made in China...

Anyone have any idea of what toys are not made in China??

I really want to start shopping!

Check out Etsy.com! Handmade dog toys, always make sure the quality is decent (should be in the item description). Also, several of the toys that aren't made in China are a little more expensive but you should be able to find some by doing Google searches "MADE IN USA DOG TOYS". Hope that helps!

emilyann · 04-16-2009, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by twalla

You could always remove the tags and sew on your own ... MADE IN IL

lmao...

JMuedog · 04-16-2009, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by twalla

I would assume (and yes I know what that does) that they mean the rubber ones that have the paint since the paint was supposed to have lead in it. The stuffed ones are ok, IMHO.

You could always remove the tags and sew on your own ... MADE IN IL

lol

Sounds like an idea, I really am having a hard time finding them not made in China... all Finni's favorite toys are.

04-16-2009, 03:12 PM	#16
chattiesmom Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 17,674	I did gift exchanges for several years and just got burned out. I would have serious anxiety about whether I had "sent enough" or whether or not my partner would like the items that I sent. In the early exchanges that I did, the gifts were smaller, but gradually the exchanges became more expensive with people sending bigger and more costly gifts. I found that I would buy, buy buy and worry that I didn't have enough so I would buy some more, and would ship my box still worried that it wasn't big enough or full enough or that my partner would be disappointed. Please understand that all of the anxiety I had was self imposed, but stressful, nonetheless so I decided to take a break. I sincerely hope that the Spring, 2009 GE is the best ever and that all participating have loads of fun! __________________ Silk Step-In Harnesses www.foxypups.etsy.com

04-16-2009, 03:18 PM	#17
chattiesmom Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 17,674	Hummmmm here I am again, I re-read my post above and it sounded negative -- I didn't mean it that way. I DID very much enjoy the exchanges even through the stress. I am very greatful to the Admin and Moderators for this very special YT activity. __________________ Silk Step-In Harnesses www.foxypups.etsy.com

04-16-2009, 03:19 PM	#18
QuickSilver Thor's Human Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: San Francisco, CA Posts: 5,929 Blog Entries: 31	I will agree that it's a little intimidating to see these incredible gift boxes other people would get. I did a couple rounds of shopping because I didn't want my SB to get least lavish box. I wouldn't be averse to putting a maximum spending limit if people were amenable to that. Obviously I did enjoy myself though, as I'm back for more. I have a different shopping strategy this time. __________________ If you love something, set it free. Unless it's an angry tiger.

04-16-2009, 03:32 PM	#19
linda44 Luv my 7 Furkids Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: napa Posts: 9,655 Blog Entries: 4	Aww Amanda, dont feel like that, I dont think they are meaning it like you took it. I think they were just trying to say what they would like, and Im sure they would be happy with what they got. I for one, get so excited making up the GE package and teasing, getting a package in return is really a bonus. Come on join the fun. __________________ Linda, & furbutts http://www.sketchesbybarney.com

04-16-2009, 04:13 PM	#21
Tcarnagie Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Arlington, TX Posts: 1,705	Well I will admit that I am one that goes overboard on the GE also. I have been in 2 so far and just signed up for my 3rd one. I do it cause I love to shop for dogs and I shop early and buy in larger quantities so that really cuts the cost down for me. When we first started, I was a little nervous not knowing what to get and whether they would like it but that does not seem to be the case. Everyone seems to enjoy anything that they get and are very grateful. I don't get intimidated by the do's and don't list....they help me in finding the perfect gift for our buddies. I would rather know ahead of time that they can't or don't want certain items rather than me sending stuff that they can't or won't be able to use. You will find that everyone that does participate in the GE are very easy going and will love everything. I sure enjoy being a part of it and maybe one day you will give it a try and love it also. It is not about the money or what you send but about getting to meet others and having fun exchanging gifts. __________________ Tammie ~ Emily Rose (Emme) ~ Jasper ~ Missy Crash ~ Lola ~ Baby Grace ~

04-16-2009, 05:52 PM	#24
emilyann Lovin' My LilBug! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Kentucky Posts: 2,513	I have to agree with you. If that doesn't totally annoy me, it's the 50 million threads of people whining because certain people haven't made hint threads yet. I'm not talking about the threads where someone is casually asking where the rest are that signed up, I'm talking about the ones who whine about how they signed up for it to be fun and no one is participating. There's a reason why your buddy is a secret . I loved my first and only GE though... it was great fun on the giving and receiving end and I still to this day cherish everything Lilly and I both got. I just get so frustrated even thinking about all the threads that come along with the GE that I see every day while it's going on "WHERE ARE ALL THE OTHERS WHO HAVEN'T POSTED HINT THREADS". __________________ love my lillybug! rags and ribbons!

04-16-2009, 05:57 PM	#25
amandawash Lovin' my R & R Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Middleton, Idaho Posts: 2,152	First of all, I really didn't mean to offend anyone. And please don't think I was picking certain people out, it's just after reading all the sign-ups, it just seemed like people were focusing more on things they DON'T want, rather than the concept (which is shopping for your secret buddy, right?). I UNDERSTAND health issues and allergies, but I guess if I got something my guys couldn't have or I didn't like, I would just rather give it to my parents dogs they eat anything There's still some time left, I guess we'll see __________________ Amanda 's Ranger & Ryder

04-16-2009, 06:03 PM	#26
JMuedog Love My Little Cuties Donating Member Administrator Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Charleston, IL Posts: 9,899	Ok, on this subject.... I noticed a couple people don't want toys made in China, but I can't find toys NOT made in China... Anyone have any idea of what toys are not made in China?? I really want to start shopping! __________________ Jenni Finnigan & Gwenndilyn Forever in my heart