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Monday · 01-14-2007, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by marcerella02

i think she needs a meaningful name like Hope, or Desiree (so long hoped for), or Faith... i'm not sure.. i'm going to keep searching...

good choices here .... they are meaningful names ....

I am so thrilled for both of you (Will and Aubrey) funny how things work out ... now you get to shower your love on Ella's sister! Not a replacement, but a pup that grew from the same seed as Ella and was her womb mate!!!

Good Luck!

Monday · 01-14-2007, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Mommy of Brandi

or I was thinking Elsi for Ella's Sister :-) ...

Now therez a thoughtful name ... it honors Ella and alwayz keeps her in the foreground (as she is in all our hearts and minds.)
I like that ... Elsi! very clever, mommy of Brandi!!!

Monday · 01-14-2007, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Mommy of Brandi

or I was thinking Elsi for Ella's Sister :-) ...

Now therez a thoughtful name ... it honors Ella and alwayz keeps her in the foreground (as she is in all our hearts and minds.)
I like that ... Elsi! very clever, mommy of Brandi!!!

Monday · 01-14-2007, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Mommy of Brandi

or I was thinking Elsi for Ella's Sister :-) ...

Now therez a thoughtful name ... it honors Ella and alwayz keeps her in the foreground (as she is in all our hearts and minds.)
I like that ... Elsi! very clever, mommy of Brandi!!!

Monday · 01-14-2007, 12:36 AM

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yougetthesmiles · 01-14-2007, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by willinfla

Dear YT Members,

Hi, This is Will, Aubrey's BF and Ella's daddy. I felt it was time for me to come on here and just say thank you to all of you for being there for Aub and I this last week. This week has been a horror. It has been one of the worst weeks of my life. From the moment the accident with Ella happened my heart has been in pieces. It's been hard battling my different feelings. I have had so much shame, guilt, sadness, and then moments of hope which were then shattered and followed by days of tears.

Through this ordeal I have silently popped on here and followed the thread Aubrey started. At times your messages were my only salvation. The genuine concern, understanding, and compassion from all of you has been absolutely amazing and has been invaluable during this terrible time. You all will really never know how much your support has meant, not just for Aub, but for me as well.

I want to thank all of you for your heartfelt gifts of compassion and understanding, your words of encouragement and hope, and your endless generosity. This is an amazing board, with some really special people. I thank all of you from the depths of my heart.

Sincerely,

Will

Welcome to YT Will!
I just want to say to you that you cant blame yourself, it was a terrible accident, you can not what if your self, it will drive you crazy if you do.
This is such a wonderful community with some very caring and thoughtful people and were proud to have you and Aubrey with us!

Hugs,
Missy

IluvLucy · 01-14-2007, 10:23 AM

Awwwww, Will....you made me cry again. It did my heart good to hear from you. I read about Nessie in the other thread, but had to respond to this one.

Yorkiesforever · 01-14-2007, 11:45 AM

Will you are a truly remarkable man. Aub you are lucky don't let that one go...Glad to hear from you. And congrats on your new addition.

abbie's mom · 01-14-2007, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by willinfla

Hi, This is Will, Aubrey's BF and Ella's daddy. .... It has been one of the worst weeks of my life. From the moment the accident with Ella happened my heart has been in pieces. It's been hard battling my different feelings. I have had so much shame, guilt, sadness, and then moments of hope which were then shattered and followed by days of tears.

Dearest Will,

My heart has been particularly toward you in this time. I've prayed God's arms about you in comfort. Please, please know - as Aubrey has no doubt explained by now - this was an unfortunate ACCIDENT. I commend you both for sticking this out. This heartbreak could have torn you apart. Life happens. Some of it's great - Some, not so great.

sashajade · 01-14-2007, 12:16 PM

i would just like to say im so so sorry for your loss

i lost my annie who i had for just 8 months on the 6th of december she was 6 years old, she had an ear infection when i got her which was treated but not cured, over 3 months we took her back and forwards to the vets as she had a headtilt, couldnt walk, went blind in one eye, they said she had a brain tumor, i didnt think so so i took her to see 5 different vets who all said it wasnt an ear infection it was a brain tumor, on the 5th she saw a vet who said they could do nothing and i needed to have her pts, that night a lump by her ear burst and she had pus coming out her nose and mouth and couldnt breath so i took her to a different vet and he said she had an ear infection that had gone to her brain and filled her lungs and now there was nothing that he could do as she was now dieing, i held her as she was pts

she was such a little sweetheart and what made things even worse was she was so like my sasha who i had had for 12 years and in a way she helped heal some of the pain losing her so when i lost annie it felt like i was also losing sasha again

i know how you feel your sitting there thinking if only this if only that why didnt i do that? i was doing the same, why didnt i take her to a different vet, why didnt i make them open up her ears, but it doesnt change anything there still gone

i do belive that things happen for a reason, not as in its someones fault, but we all have a lifes plan mapped out for us and no matter what we do to change things if somethings ment to happen it will, i think i wasnt ment to have annie that long, she was sent to me to look after as her lifes plan was coming to an end and if she hadnt died of an ear infection she would of died for another reason as it was her time to go, she came to me to heal some of the pain of losing sasha and to show me i could love another dog like i loved sasha, that there was other dogs out there like sasha, and she did that.
i had always said to my partner that she was sent to us for a reason.
i havent been looking for another dog but one found me, i had a dream about a dog called sweetpea and the next day i made a mistake on google and was taken to a site i had never been to b4 and a lady had just put up an ad saying she needed to rehome a shih tzu and its name was sweetpea so i rang her and hopefuly in a weeks time sweetpea is coming to live with me.
so i belive that annie done her job here, it was her time to go as it was sweetpeas time to come here, i could of never rehomed sweetpea if i still had annie.
so maybe your little one was only ment to be here a short time, and no matter what you could of done wouldnt of changed that, maybe you were ment to go through what you have, maybe you are ment to have her sister, and thats your life plan.
i dont belive in god but i do belive in afterlife and fate and this little one coming to you just after you have been through this horrible time makes me belive in fate and a lifes plan all the more.
sending hugs

sashajade · 01-14-2007, 12:27 PM

i would also just like to say fate has just delt another hand this second, a while ago on here just after annie died a member posted about there dog who had the same things as annie so i told them about her, they hadnt updated for ages but ive just been on there post and they just updated that they sadly had to have the yorkie pts, which is so sad.
they also said they have just got another yorkie which they have called SWEETPEA.
so in other words that shows me that iam ment to have the shih tzu sweetpea.

Paisleypup · 01-14-2007, 12:38 PM

Aubrey and Will, I don't get a chance to come to YT very often, but I have to tell you that I saw your thread and just sat and read ALL 39 PAGES!!! I was in tears the whole way through! But I am SO glad that in all of your ordeal with Ella that you have some kind of a happy ending in your new sister of Ella's. God has his eyes on you both for sure! Give her a beautful name and enjoy your new gift, as you DO deserve her!!!!

Doodlebug · 01-14-2007, 03:51 PM

Aubrey and Will, I am SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! This is wonderful news!!! I just can't believe what happened! It is truely a MIRACLE! That is the only name I can think of..."Miracle". There are a lot of great ideas on names here.

It does seem to me also that little Ella gave her life to save her sister. It is just unbeliveable that you now have her LITTERMATE! Her very own SISTER! WOW! I am speechless (almost). What are the odds of something like that happening! It WAS MEANT TO BE!!!

Will, it was so nice to hear from you. You know that everyone has been thinking of you and praying that you will accept that this was an accident that could happen to any of us. I think a lot of us have stepped on our babies. I know I have. All I can say is that is one lucky little baby that has joined your family. You guys have a lot of love to give her.

My best to you both!

starleneo · 01-14-2007, 05:05 PM

I am so sorry for your lost of little ella. But it was meant to be for you to love and cherish her sister. God bless and keep you all.
I was thinking of Allie for a name.

Congradulations on the little one.

Starlene, Taffy & Baby mom

Yano · 01-14-2007, 05:37 PM

I am so happy for your little miracle in the form of a sweet baby sister! Maybe you should call her Mira, for miracle? Bless you and enjoy the new chapter in your life! She is lucky to have parents with such big hearts!

Also...
I just wanted to tell you both again not to blame yourselves for what happened. I don't know that is was clear in my first post!

01-14-2007, 12:36 AM	#575
Monday AND Friday also! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Long Island Posts: 3,371	another great suggestion! mistake __________________ Like dogs, we should sniff butts, not kiss them. Dogs have more friends because they wag their tails, not their tongues. http://music.clevver.com/video/25815...ersion-300.php Last edited by Monday; 01-14-2007 at 12:41 AM.

01-14-2007, 10:23 AM	#577
IluvLucy Lovin' Lucy & Rebel Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,438	Awwwww, Will....you made me cry again. It did my heart good to hear from you. I read about Nessie in the other thread, but had to respond to this one. __________________ Kim , Rebel ,and baby Dixie RIP my sweet Lucy

01-14-2007, 12:16 PM	#580
sashajade YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: kent england Posts: 1,646	i would just like to say im so so sorry for your loss i lost my annie who i had for just 8 months on the 6th of december she was 6 years old, she had an ear infection when i got her which was treated but not cured, over 3 months we took her back and forwards to the vets as she had a headtilt, couldnt walk, went blind in one eye, they said she had a brain tumor, i didnt think so so i took her to see 5 different vets who all said it wasnt an ear infection it was a brain tumor, on the 5th she saw a vet who said they could do nothing and i needed to have her pts, that night a lump by her ear burst and she had pus coming out her nose and mouth and couldnt breath so i took her to a different vet and he said she had an ear infection that had gone to her brain and filled her lungs and now there was nothing that he could do as she was now dieing, i held her as she was pts she was such a little sweetheart and what made things even worse was she was so like my sasha who i had had for 12 years and in a way she helped heal some of the pain losing her so when i lost annie it felt like i was also losing sasha again i know how you feel your sitting there thinking if only this if only that why didnt i do that? i was doing the same, why didnt i take her to a different vet, why didnt i make them open up her ears, but it doesnt change anything there still gone i do belive that things happen for a reason, not as in its someones fault, but we all have a lifes plan mapped out for us and no matter what we do to change things if somethings ment to happen it will, i think i wasnt ment to have annie that long, she was sent to me to look after as her lifes plan was coming to an end and if she hadnt died of an ear infection she would of died for another reason as it was her time to go, she came to me to heal some of the pain of losing sasha and to show me i could love another dog like i loved sasha, that there was other dogs out there like sasha, and she did that. i had always said to my partner that she was sent to us for a reason. i havent been looking for another dog but one found me, i had a dream about a dog called sweetpea and the next day i made a mistake on google and was taken to a site i had never been to b4 and a lady had just put up an ad saying she needed to rehome a shih tzu and its name was sweetpea so i rang her and hopefuly in a weeks time sweetpea is coming to live with me. so i belive that annie done her job here, it was her time to go as it was sweetpeas time to come here, i could of never rehomed sweetpea if i still had annie. so maybe your little one was only ment to be here a short time, and no matter what you could of done wouldnt of changed that, maybe you were ment to go through what you have, maybe you are ment to have her sister, and thats your life plan. i dont belive in god but i do belive in afterlife and fate and this little one coming to you just after you have been through this horrible time makes me belive in fate and a lifes plan all the more. sending hugs __________________ Facebook group yorkies & small terriers worlwide needing fur-ever homes & deathrow Zac Brandi Suki

01-14-2007, 12:27 PM	#581
sashajade YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: kent england Posts: 1,646	i would also just like to say fate has just delt another hand this second, a while ago on here just after annie died a member posted about there dog who had the same things as annie so i told them about her, they hadnt updated for ages but ive just been on there post and they just updated that they sadly had to have the yorkie pts, which is so sad. they also said they have just got another yorkie which they have called SWEETPEA. so in other words that shows me that iam ment to have the shih tzu sweetpea. __________________ Facebook group yorkies & small terriers worlwide needing fur-ever homes & deathrow Zac Brandi Suki

01-14-2007, 12:38 PM	#582
Paisleypup Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Montana Posts: 171	Aubrey and Will, I don't get a chance to come to YT very often, but I have to tell you that I saw your thread and just sat and read ALL 39 PAGES!!! I was in tears the whole way through! But I am SO glad that in all of your ordeal with Ella that you have some kind of a happy ending in your new sister of Ella's. God has his eyes on you both for sure! Give her a beautful name and enjoy your new gift, as you DO deserve her!!!! __________________ http://i104.photobucket.com/albums/m...40a4711do6.gif

01-14-2007, 11:45 AM	#578
Yorkiesforever YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Minnesota Posts: 1,292	Will you are a truly remarkable man. Aub you are lucky don't let that one go...Glad to hear from you. And congrats on your new addition.

01-14-2007, 03:51 PM	#583
Doodlebug ♥Love My Puppies!♥ Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: US Posts: 5,786	Aubrey and Will, I am SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! This is wonderful news!!! I just can't believe what happened! It is truely a MIRACLE! That is the only name I can think of..."Miracle". There are a lot of great ideas on names here. It does seem to me also that little Ella gave her life to save her sister. It is just unbeliveable that you now have her LITTERMATE! Her very own SISTER! WOW! I am speechless (almost). What are the odds of something like that happening! It WAS MEANT TO BE!!! Will, it was so nice to hear from you. You know that everyone has been thinking of you and praying that you will accept that this was an accident that could happen to any of us. I think a lot of us have stepped on our babies. I know I have. All I can say is that is one lucky little baby that has joined your family. You guys have a lot of love to give her. My best to you both! __________________ RIP My Sweet Darling Angel Daisy 08/09/03 - 10/02/15, RIP My Sweet Baby Boy Teddy Bear 02/01/04 - 02/11/16 Photos HERE

01-14-2007, 05:05 PM	#584
starleneo YT Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: central Illinois Posts: 322	I am so sorry for your lost of little ella. But it was meant to be for you to love and cherish her sister. God bless and keep you all. I was thinking of Allie for a name. Congradulations on the little one. Starlene, Taffy & Baby mom

01-14-2007, 05:37 PM	#585
Yano YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 283	So happy 4 you! I am so happy for your little miracle in the form of a sweet baby sister! Maybe you should call her Mira, for miracle? Bless you and enjoy the new chapter in your life! She is lucky to have parents with such big hearts! Also... I just wanted to tell you both again not to blame yourselves for what happened. I don't know that is was clear in my first post! __________________ Jennifer & Takahiro Yano Chibi's Mommy&Daddy "Forget diamonds, Yorkies are a girl's best friend!!!"