please help my yorkie is beyond sick

[megansmomma]

Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1

Thank you for this.......I have absolutely NO tolerance for people that beg for help, get it, then rather than come back and say a simple "Thanks" or "pup is doing fine", come back here, spend a LARGE amount of time inventing excuses for rude, ungrateful behavior and insult people that took their PRECIOUS time to respond to a plea for help....like HER time is more important than any of us on here.....

Excuse me.......I am headed to the liquor cabinet on this one!!!!!!!!!

Don't forget to drop by the User CP to adjusts accordingly

[Yorkiemom1]

Originally Posted by megansmomma

Don't forget to drop by the User CP to adjusts accordingly

I have ALREADY taken care of that!!! Thanks again!!! I got it done easily!!

[matese]

Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1

I hope your "pregnancy" does not have to carry the brunt of all your excuses for not being gracious when people help you! Pregnancies only last 9 months.... You can find time to defend your ungrateful behavior, but you cant find time to post a three word update on your pitiful puppy. If you do not have time to return to "a forum" that took time to help you, you probably need to find time to seek help at the vet for your dog. You pay your bill there and leave and dont need to thank anyone there for anything they do for you because you PAID for the help you got. You pay a bill and you dont owe them a simple "thanks"for anything. That is the difference between begging for free advice or help and getting it, or going to a vet and paying for what you get. For YOUR future reference, a simple THANK YOU is lot cheaper than a vet bill, and alot of the time, the HELP you get from this forum that you now thumb your nose at, will save you a large amount of money. BE GRATEFUL!

Well said Judy

[MauiGirl]

Originally Posted by Bossypartigurl

i don't know what type of weirdos you ladies or people think I am or that you are. But i don't have time to worry about you or a forum. I ask questions and got answers. After my pet was fine i had no reason to come on here. Preparing for the arrival of my son. So you have a bless day. And get a hobby please sounds like you take the internet too serious.

Since April after you brought home your 6 week old puppy, and started desperate threads about how he was sick, throwing up, not eating, bleeding, beyond sick, etc. you have received tons of help from many members for one reason only. Because we care about the PUP!

Is it really asking too much of you to just update after you get everybody all concerned?

[Bossypartigurl]

Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1

Well, of course you didnt have the time, the decency or the courtesy to return and THANK the people that gave you support, concern and answers. How SILLY of US to think you MAY be grateful for the support you recieved. You run along now now and get busy again with your complicated, intense life and dont you fret about about the simple social grace to thank people that use THEIR time out of THEIR busy lives, to try to help YOU!!! YOU are the important thing here.....not us or your pup or what you stirred up in OUR souls to try to help you. Please refer to YOUR hobby next time you need help....we are not here to be used at will, then insulted because we stopped to help you. The world does not revolve around YOU and what YOU find important in YOUR busy life. We are all busy, many of us probably get more done in a 24 hour period than you get done in a week.

Meanwhile, SOMEBODY on here please tell me how to block a poster....this will be my first time doing this, and in MY book, this one requires not one more second of MY time!!! I have NO use or concern for selfishness, self centered, unappreciative behavior.

yes please block yourself. Good ridden toodles.

[Bossypartigurl]

Originally Posted by MauiGirl

Since April after you brought home your 6 week old puppy, and started desperate threads about how he was sick, throwing up, not eating, bleeding, beyond sick, etc. you have received tons of help from many members for one reason only. Because we care about the PUP!

Is it really asking too much of you to just update after you get everybody all concerned?

Exactly i hadn't been on here since april. I forgot all about this site until i google my dogs symptoms and this site pop back up.

[Bossypartigurl]

Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1

I hope your "pregnancy" does not have to carry the brunt of all your excuses for not being gracious when people help you! Pregnancies only last 9 months.... You can find time to defend your ungrateful behavior, but you cant find time to post a three word update on your pitiful puppy. If you do not have time to return to "a forum" that took time to help you, you probably need to find time to seek help at the vet for your dog. You pay your bill there and leave and dont need to thank anyone there for anything they do for you because you PAID for the help you got. You pay a bill and you dont owe them a simple "thanks"for anything. That is the difference between begging for free advice or help and getting it, or going to a vet and paying for what you get. For YOUR future reference, a simple THANK YOU is lot cheaper than a vet bill, and alot of the time, the HELP you get from this forum that you now thumb your nose at, will save you a large amount of money. BE GRATEFUL!

To be honest i didn't get any help from this post just people telling me to take him to the vet. Which i knew i was going to do. But i did put i appreciate the concern until i got the nasty comments. Whats sad is another member inbox me and explain how you guys are how she feels she can't even speak without getting bashed. That's sad that people feel that way. This should be a site people want to come on.

[Lovetodream88]

I'm thinking if you have time to keep coming back to argue you had time to post an update but whatever. There will always be people who hate this board and there will always be people who love it. I will never understand why the ones who hate it keep coming back unless there confused and they really do love it who knows. I also will never get why there are people who hate the board so much and stay behind the scenes and pm people every time they see an argument start. Maybe they do or maybe they don't and it used by people to say they have back up I donno. At the end of they day most of the people on this board care about the dogs and just want to know if the dog is ok because they do worry about it. Many nights I have sat up crying and praying hoping dogs posted about here lived and are ok and it's not because I don't have a life but because I care about those even the ones I don't know. When left to worry for a long time in my opinion that is as mean as calling names or being nasty.

[DBlain]

To the OP; you do not have a lock on busy, many of the people that took the time to try to offer you advice are busy as well. Polite people make the time to say thank you to those that tried to help in a timely manner, rude people don't and when called on the carpet they get defensive and confrontational, you can take a guess on what describes you best. I have a very good memory and if I see you asking for help again, I will be sure to link this thread to your new thread so the busy people that might make time to help you are forewarned. I hope your pup does not wind up finding himself forgotten once you are busy with your new baby.

[ladyjane]

Originally Posted by Bossypartigurl

Where can i find these rules?

http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sic...sick-pets.html

There is such a thing as common etiquette. I have received much helpful information on this forum and am a very busy person and, even when dealing with life threatening issues of mine and my pups, I can take a few minutes out to update people. As someone said, you don't have a lock on a busy life.

People come here and offer help to people....they don't HAVE to do that. All anyone asks is a response...that is NOT that hard to do.

[matese]

Originally Posted by DBlain

To the OP; you do not have a lock on busy, many of the people that took the time to try to offer you advice are busy as well. Polite people make the time to say thank you to those that tried to help in a timely manner, rude people don't and when called on the carpet they get defensive and confrontational, you can take a guess on what describes you best. I have a very good memory and if I see you asking for help again, I will be sure to link this thread to your new thread so the busy people that might make time to help you are forewarned. I hope your pup does not wind up finding himself forgotten once you are busy with your new baby.

Originally Posted by ladyjane

http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sic...sick-pets.html

There is such a thing as common etiquette. I have received much helpful information on this forum and am a very busy person and, even when dealing with life threatening issues of mine and my pups, I can take a few minutes out to update people. As someone said, you don't have a lock on a busy life.

People come here and offer help to people....they don't HAVE to do that. All anyone asks is a response...that is NOT that hard to do.

[matese]

Originally Posted by Bossypartigurl

To be honest i didn't get any help from this post just people telling me to take him to the vet. Which i knew i was going to do. But i did put i appreciate the concern until i got the nasty comments. Whats sad is another member inbox me and explain how you guys are how she feels she can't even speak without getting bashed. That's sad that people feel that way. This should be a site people want to come on.

There are NO VETS on this forum, when Boss had blood on his pee pad, instead of taking pup and bloody pad to vet, you come here looking for answers instead of grabbing pup & pad and going to vet with both, you waste time asking this forum what could it be, The dog MUST be seen by a vet, all members can do is advise to see a vet, that was their advise,You are looking for FREE diagnosis, this cannot be done with a picture. All members can do is GUESS what could have caused it, advise:::take pup to vet. Your last post "my dog is beyond sick" HELP. Again, there are NO VETS on this forum,you were given the best advise, "take dog to nearest ER" ok all understood you were /are 38 weeks pregnant, long drive,husband away, scared to make the trip alone. What you don't understand is, You come on this forum, throw out to members these horrific issues going on with your pup, even if all they can do is say "go to vet" you don't understand or CARE, that you leave many members worrying ABOUT YOUR PUP, what you do not understand is, this forum LOVES and CARES not only for their babies (DOGS) but all babies (DOGS), they keep your puppy in their prayers, they worry if YOUR puppy is ok. This forum is filled with members that are here for the LOVE of dogs. If another member sent you a PM about this last thread, stating QUOTE::Whats sad is another member inbox me and explain how you guys are.....Then that member is just as inconsiderate as you are.
You asked for help, was told see a vet, then you vanish, day after day after day, members come on asking for up-date PLEASE, get no response, yes, one now has to think it was it a hoax, a prank. Instead of apologizing saying you were busy preparing for new arrival, you came on calling concerned members weirdos, suggesting they have no life. Sad that you have no regard for ppl that care about someone else's dog. This is the BEST forum for help, unfortunately in both of your threads all that could be offered was to see your vet. Sorry you could not get FREE diagnosis, instead you received much concern for YOUR pup. What really baffles me is the time you now have to keep coming back to stir up the pot.
[/QUOTE]::This should be a site people want to come on.
It is, and ppl do, and appreciate the help they are offered,even if it is just a "take the dog to your vet". Have a blessed day.

[ShowGirlLola]

Your puppy is less than a year old and has had 3 emergencies, either he's very unhealthy or you're doing something wrong. Either way you're going to need YT again, I don't understand why you're choosing to burn the bridge with the forum and many of the most knowledgable members.

[joyce evans]

I would also like to add that yes this is a forum and yes you have to be on the net to get here but on this site are the most knowledgeable Yorkie owners and breeders in the world. Way too much knowledge here for any Yorkie owner to take a chance on being banned. Like the OP said any search she does brings her here. This site has allowed me to make new friends, look at yorkie pictures, congratulate new yorkie owners, show off by baby, learn about food choices and diseases, how to find a healthy pup..I could go on and on. I have prayed, I have cried and I have followed up on threads just to see how a pup is doing..just like yours OP many, many times. I have a life and a very good one I might add but these people are my yorkie family and I have received much support from them in the past 2 years. I am not weird, yorkie crazy maybe. I can tell you that if any of us were to post like you have in the past about your sick pup and not give an update we would have hell to pay too! And if any of us make poor decisions you can bet that we will hear about that too no matter how long we have been here. Not to mention if we give bad advise!! It is all about the love of these pups. If you would only take the time to read some of the other threads you will see how helpful and compassionate members are here. I can honestly tell you I wish I had found this site many years ago. In an emergency situation one should always take their pup to a vet. We could all have learned from your experience had you done that. Your life will be way busier when you have your baby and there are members here that have experienced that too... How to deal with a baby and a yorkie. Life can just throw curveballs sometimes and you can bet that someone here has been there and done that and can shed some light for someone else. It's up to us to take the advise or not. For the people that spend far more time on this site and have way more to offer than I..well they are number 1 in my book. They have my Yorkies back! For the members that work this site like a job and never get paid I commend them! They come here to offer advise for the sick and injured, help with anything and everything and even console people that have lost their beloved pet. They do all of this for free. My advise..calm down and let it go. Think about whether you really want to be a member here or not. You will be remembered so just think about it. Yes you got very defensive but I also see both sides to the story. Apologies are in order. Enough...I will just say that we are real people that really care and you will never find another community of people that will be there when you need them. Yes sick babies do drive us crazy!! An update would have been appreciated more than you know.

[Piddle Place]

How is Boss? Hoping for good news! Paws crossed. Let us know