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I'm relatively new to this and if I were this lady I wouldn't post here again. She was obviously hurting and needed some advice. :( |
The problem is that this poster is not some "newbie" coming on here for friendly advice. As Megansmomma said, she was on here last year looking for advice to breed her 10 month old girl on her first heat: 1) She bred Sassy at 10 months in Oct 2008 (first heat). 2) Sassy had a pup 12/27/2008. 3) She put the pup up for sale 3/11/2009. 4) Sassy has new pups born 9/1/2009. And now because there are those who disagree with coddling her and encouraging her to continue breeding we are being horrible? How about we are trying to point out her past breeding experiences to those who may not have looked them up in order to give the whole picture. She took Sassy to the vet and the vet told her to start all of this stuff for her pups? Where does it say she actually took the pups in to be diagnosed? One died the day before she posted her thread and yet she still didn't take the rest of the pups in? Before she ever "left" for her vet appt, she didn't reply to the questions of why she started them on certain meds and what else she had done, even though she posted after those questions were asked.. If anything, hopefully this thread will scare newbies away from wanting to breed irresponsibly as I don't know what else you would call this Of course we all feel for the momma and the pups but that doesn't mean the owner needs to be encouraged in her breeding. One can only hope she gets Sassy spayed. |
I didnt see anyone encouraging her to breed. Just giving sympathy |
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I'm sorry the pups died, it's very sad. It still needs to be said however that one must be responsible and prepared when breeding. If you don't have money put away for the care of the mom and pups than don't breed. Breeding is not a necessity, it's a priviledge that comes with alot of responsibility. If anything good can come from the death of these pups hopefully it will be this lesson learned. |
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Exactly! Far too many people think it is ok to be irresponsible. If this had been children, she would have been arrested. Why is it OK to neglect any living beings? |
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Yes, you are correct....... "water seeks its own level" Or.... "birds of a feather" |
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I don't breed, but I'm all about educating new breeders and encouraging them to do it properly, as there IS a way to do it properly. I've been involved with rescue and there are too many stories of pups that come from situations like this. The "bashing" comes from the breeder's irresponsibility. If you think it's just opinion on her situation, go search for her previous posts. |
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Excuse me? MY opinion is WHY there ARE well-bred Yorkshire Terriers! It is YOUR point of view that leads to this behavior..just putting 2 dogs together for $$$! Breeders also have a responsibility to the breed in general..and that ALSO includes those that are entertaining breeding..you can't talk down to them and expect that they will listen to someone that is treating them that way???? That they will have an "epiphany" or something?? NO..they will buy from a broker or puppymill..or petstore..so on and on it goes ad nauseum. If a good breeder would have just taken her under their wing..maybe, JUST maybe..this situation would not have happened. I cannot believe how RUDE your post was to me..totally uncalled for!! If you're in rescue..it's time to get out..you are burned out..don't worry..there ARE others that will carry the torch..JMHO. |
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Her first post she came on here wanting to know why her 10 month old hadn't gone into heat yet. Her next post was can she get pregnant from only one mating and then we've got a pregnant Sassy. I don't see anywhere that she came on here asking for advice on how to do it properly. IF she had purchased her pup from a reputable breeder in the first place, Sassy would have been on limited reg and unable to be breed. IF the OP had purchased her from a reputable breeder in the first place and mentioned wanting to bred, well then she'd probably have that mentor that you're talking about. BUT SINCE SHE DIDN'T DO THAT, it's on HER shoulders for breeding irresponsibly. |
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This woman made the decision to breed her dog, not once but twice and when an emergency came up didn't take them to a vet who is trained to save life. No different then if a family had a child that got sick...it goes to a doctor. Everyone of you would be screaming bloody murder if this had happened to a child. Anyone that is in rescue is sick of looking at animals losing their life for greed...anyone in rescue is full to the breaking point because people are dumping their pets everyday...shelters are sick of it, rescues are sick of it but the people who don't look at this everyday seems to think it is okay for puppies to die because this girl didn't want to spend the $$$...Explain to me why this is acceptable...?????? |
How does anyone know that she didnt go to the vet after she made this post and got advice to take them to the vet. I know she said she really didnt have any money but she could have borrowed the money you dont know. Also I think it is very wrong that other members on here are criticized for giving helpful advice or sympathy |
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And it's ok that those of us who think she acted irresponsibly and shouldn't be coddled are getting criticized? |
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Cindy of course we don't want more dogs in rescue but there is such a thing as handling a situation with a bit of tact. Do you think if Pat (YorkieRose) were still here it would have been handled this way. She would have looked beyond what the op had posted and seen some of the problems she probably was in, that she may not have been in earlier. Pat would have made her see her mistake in a kind way but at least express to her some sympathy. There is a time and place for everything and some really show their colors for all of us to see. |
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Who said that someone is "birds of a feather". How is it you find that insulting anyway? "Birds of a feather, flock together" is the entire saying and it is true. People of like interests and ideas do stick together. Simple fact. |
Once again a thread has gone astray. This thread was started because someone was loosing innocent puppies and was in a panic. It was about saving puppies not about weather or not she should have bred her female. Live's were at stake and this woman needed help from people who know how to help her. What is wrong with all of you? This thread was about saving puppies from dying! I don't blame her for not coming back. Who are all of you to beat someone up like this. Times are hard all over the country but you continue to breed your females knowing homes have to be found. There are so many pups in rescues why not stop breeding for a year and allow those pups to get into a loving home? This subject can go round and round forever because everyone has their own points of view. It's not my business what you do or how you do it so stop beating up on those who do something you wouldn't. Next time help save innocent lives then go for the jugular! I don't agree with what she did with her female but that does not mean those puppies did not have the right to live! |
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hugs, Carmen in nj |
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The OP disappeared and after many posts of people inquiring about the puppies....and people sending hugs, I said what I did because I felt it needed to be said. New people would come here and read that stuff and think....oh, if I breed irresponsibly everyone will love me. Seriously. It was getting to be too much...what kind of message was it? If people would just let threads die when the people disappear after saying such horrific things, then the threads would not come to this. They just get on and go on and on and on about how sorry they feel for the OP. Go read my original post on this thread....see that I posted way after the fact because at that point the OP had already disappeared and everyone was feeling sorry for HER. |
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Don't put words in my mouth, please. Read below and see if you can grasp what I was saying! I DID quote the person I was responding to! Quote:
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Oh I got a grasp of what you were saying not just on this thread but the other one |
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Huh? I don't see how another thread has anything to do with my response to that person. |
I wish I never posted! Sorry for bothering everyone and starting an angry debate. But thanks to the ones that really cared. |
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Please update on your puppies? Are they ok? |
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Also how are YOU doing and how is mama doing too? I am very concern about you and the pups.. hugs, Carmen in nj |
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