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[Gingergirlsmom]

Susie,

I'm sure I should know this, but WHEN is Tink's surgery???

[omega]

Originally Posted by Gingergirlsmom

Susie,

I'm sure I should know this, but WHEN is Tink's surgery???

I believe it's on Tuesday.

CONGRATS ON YOUR NEW JOB!!!!!!! Way to go!

[omega]

OK, I'm going to throw this out there... since praying people here seem to get results...

My son graduated high school last month. Because of his behavior in general and toward me in particular, he was told he has to move out after he graduates.

A couple days ago, he started in with me again and I told him he has three weeks to move out. Then I left for work and cried the whole time driving there and while I was working. This child is breaking my heart.

Anyway, would you guys please pray that he would find somewhere decent to stay so he isn't out on the streets? He hasn't got money to rent an apartment. He has a job but it's not 40 hrs. a week. I don't want him to end up with people worse than the ones he already spends time wtih.

I love my boy dearly but I can't take how he treats me. It hurts too much and it has totally worn me out - I'm at the end of my rope here.

Making him leave is SO hard. I'm crying as I write it - I love him so much and he is making such stupid decisions with his life.

So - thanks in advance for you prayers for him. I know God has something planned for him and I'm hoping he will find that without having to go through hell first, you know?

I tell you, without my faithful canine lovebugs here with me, I'm not sure what I would do. Not sure if I could face getting up in the morning without them here.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Oh, one more thing - pray that he and I will have a good relationship again - that what is going on now will not separate us.

[tiggerr36792]

Originally Posted by omega

OK, I'm going to throw this out there... since praying people here seem to get results...

My son graduated high school last month. Because of his behavior in general and toward me in particular, he was told he has to move out after he graduates.

A couple days ago, he started in with me again and I told him he has three weeks to move out. Then I left for work and cried the whole time driving there and while I was working. This child is breaking my heart.

Anyway, would you guys please pray that he would find somewhere decent to stay so he isn't out on the streets? He hasn't got money to rent an apartment. He has a job but it's not 40 hrs. a week. I don't want him to end up with people worse than the ones he already spends time wtih.

I love my boy dearly but I can't take how he treats me. It hurts too much and it has totally worn me out - I'm at the end of my rope here.

Making him leave is SO hard. I'm crying as I write it - I love him so much and he is making such stupid decisions with his life.

So - thanks in advance for you prayers for him. I know God has something planned for him and I'm hoping he will find that without having to go through hell first, you know?

I tell you, without my faithful canine lovebugs here with me, I'm not sure what I would do. Not sure if I could face getting up in the morning without them here.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Oh, one more thing - pray that he and I will have a good relationship again - that what is going on now will not separate us.

Awww Mom sometimes tough love is the only think that helps set them straight again. Perhaps this will help him get back on the correct path!! I will send a prayer your way!!! Good luck.

[Gypsy & Me]

Originally Posted by omega

OK, I'm going to throw this out there... since praying people here seem to get results...

My son graduated high school last month. Because of his behavior in general and toward me in particular, he was told he has to move out after he graduates.

A couple days ago, he started in with me again and I told him he has three weeks to move out. Then I left for work and cried the whole time driving there and while I was working. This child is breaking my heart.

Anyway, would you guys please pray that he would find somewhere decent to stay so he isn't out on the streets? He hasn't got money to rent an apartment. He has a job but it's not 40 hrs. a week. I don't want him to end up with people worse than the ones he already spends time wtih.

I love my boy dearly but I can't take how he treats me. It hurts too much and it has totally worn me out - I'm at the end of my rope here.

Making him leave is SO hard. I'm crying as I write it - I love him so much and he is making such stupid decisions with his life.

So - thanks in advance for you prayers for him. I know God has something planned for him and I'm hoping he will find that without having to go through hell first, you know?

I tell you, without my faithful canine lovebugs here with me, I'm not sure what I would do. Not sure if I could face getting up in the morning without them here.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Oh, one more thing - pray that he and I will have a good relationship again - that what is going on now will not separate us.

I pray that everything will work out for you... I pray that things will right themselves... don't give up on him, keep hope alive in your heart and concentrate on his goodness....

My prayers are with you...

[Morkie4]

Originally Posted by omega

chocolate and money

Well, I will not bow down to ya, but I will give you the chocolates and the money!!

[Gingergirlsmom]

Originally Posted by omega

OK, I'm going to throw this out there... since praying people here seem to get results...

My son graduated high school last month. Because of his behavior in general and toward me in particular, he was told he has to move out after he graduates.

A couple days ago, he started in with me again and I told him he has three weeks to move out. Then I left for work and cried the whole time driving there and while I was working. This child is breaking my heart.

Anyway, would you guys please pray that he would find somewhere decent to stay so he isn't out on the streets? He hasn't got money to rent an apartment. He has a job but it's not 40 hrs. a week. I don't want him to end up with people worse than the ones he already spends time wtih.

I love my boy dearly but I can't take how he treats me. It hurts too much and it has totally worn me out - I'm at the end of my rope here.

Making him leave is SO hard. I'm crying as I write it - I love him so much and he is making such stupid decisions with his life.

So - thanks in advance for you prayers for him. I know God has something planned for him and I'm hoping he will find that without having to go through hell first, you know?

I tell you, without my faithful canine lovebugs here with me, I'm not sure what I would do. Not sure if I could face getting up in the morning without them here.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Oh, one more thing - pray that he and I will have a good relationship again - that what is going on now will not separate us.

Sending prayers your way. It sounds like you had some tough decisions to make and that you made the ones that will be best for your son in the long run. It's got to be incredibly hard...but I feel sure that someday he will thank you for making him stand on his own two feet.

[AMD]

Hi Jodi and Carol! I have to go, but Hello anyway!!
Jodi, do I spell your name right? or is it Jody?

[yorkiemalt]

Originally Posted by omega

OK, I'm going to throw this out there... since praying people here seem to get results...

My son graduated high school last month. Because of his behavior in general and toward me in particular, he was told he has to move out after he graduates.

A couple days ago, he started in with me again and I told him he has three weeks to move out. Then I left for work and cried the whole time driving there and while I was working. This child is breaking my heart.

Anyway, would you guys please pray that he would find somewhere decent to stay so he isn't out on the streets? He hasn't got money to rent an apartment. He has a job but it's not 40 hrs. a week. I don't want him to end up with people worse than the ones he already spends time wtih.

I love my boy dearly but I can't take how he treats me. It hurts too much and it has totally worn me out - I'm at the end of my rope here.

Making him leave is SO hard. I'm crying as I write it - I love him so much and he is making such stupid decisions with his life.

So - thanks in advance for you prayers for him. I know God has something planned for him and I'm hoping he will find that without having to go through hell first, you know?

I tell you, without my faithful canine lovebugs here with me, I'm not sure what I would do. Not sure if I could face getting up in the morning without them here.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Oh, one more thing - pray that he and I will have a good relationship again - that what is going on now will not separate us.

Oh my....I'm so sorry. I went through a similar situation with my daughter when she turned 18. As much as it hurts...it sounds like you're doing the right thing.

Can you check your local churches, counseling centers and even your hospitals. There is usually a group for parents in your situation....google under "tough love". It's always helpful to have others to speak to who have been or are in similar situations.

Take care of yourself...hug your babies and have faith. If you need to talk...feel free to pm me.

Kim

[Gypsy & Me]

Originally Posted by AMD

Hi Jodi and Carol! I have to go, but Hello anyway!!
Jodi, do I spell your name right? or is it Jody?

Nope, lol, it's JUDY! lol

[Tink's Mom]

Originally Posted by omega

OK, I'm going to throw this out there... since praying people here seem to get results...

My son graduated high school last month. Because of his behavior in general and toward me in particular, he was told he has to move out after he graduates.

A couple days ago, he started in with me again and I told him he has three weeks to move out. Then I left for work and cried the whole time driving there and while I was working. This child is breaking my heart.

Anyway, would you guys please pray that he would find somewhere decent to stay so he isn't out on the streets? He hasn't got money to rent an apartment. He has a job but it's not 40 hrs. a week. I don't want him to end up with people worse than the ones he already spends time wtih.

I love my boy dearly but I can't take how he treats me. It hurts too much and it has totally worn me out - I'm at the end of my rope here.

Making him leave is SO hard. I'm crying as I write it - I love him so much and he is making such stupid decisions with his life.

So - thanks in advance for you prayers for him. I know God has something planned for him and I'm hoping he will find that without having to go through hell first, you know?

I tell you, without my faithful canine lovebugs here with me, I'm not sure what I would do. Not sure if I could face getting up in the morning without them here.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Oh, one more thing - pray that he and I will have a good relationship again - that what is going on now will not separate us.

I'm sorry things have gone this way Omega. You know I'm praying.

[Gingergirlsmom]

Originally Posted by AMD

Hi Jodi and Carol! I have to go, but Hello anyway!!
Jodi, do I spell your name right? or is it Jody?

I see Vicki already made the correction. LOL, you were close though, and I just appreciate being thought of whatever you call me

[Gypsy & Me]

Originally Posted by Gingergirlsmom

I see Vicki already made the correction. LOL, you were close though, and I just appreciate being thought of whatever you call me

LMAO... yeah, erm, it's Vicky

[Tink's Mom]

Originally Posted by Gypsy & Me

LMAO... yeah, erm, it's Vicky

Chuckle, chuckle. I understand. We have a physician in Harrogate who insists on alling me Sue. I HATE Sue. My name is Susie (really Susan but only family calls me that) but he won't change! It's quite frustrating!

[omega]

Originally Posted by yorkiemalt

Oh my....I'm so sorry. I went through a similar situation with my daughter when she turned 18. As much as it hurts...it sounds like you're doing the right thing.

Can you check your local churches, counseling centers and even your hospitals. There is usually a group for parents in your situation....google under "tough love". It's always helpful to have others to speak to who have been or are in similar situations.

Take care of yourself...hug your babies and have faith. If you need to talk...feel free to pm me.

Kim

Thanks, that is really sweet of you. I am looking into a group but haven't gotten the courage up yet to go...