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Superstarkba · 10-06-2007, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by marcerella02

don't settle bella.. don't.... after my josh broke upw ith me i said.. you knwo what.. that isn't someone i want to spend forever with.. i want him to call.. or to suprise me with flowers for no reason... to call just to say hi.. or that he missed me.. he didn't do that... i learned a lesson... i won't settle

See I thought those things were easy, but obviously not!!! I didn't think I was asking too much!!! geeze. What a great Saturday night.

marcerella02 · 10-06-2007, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Superstarkba

Yes, every now and then.. I am sure he worked on his cars for the most part.

The reason I wasn't calling him, would be bc he would yell at me, cuss at me, and I DON"T deserve that! So I said that I wasn't going to talk to him for a week, but it fell through, new I should have lasted

I wouldn't be upset now.

if you had a friend who's bf was swearing at her and yelling at her.. woudlnt' you be telling her she deserved better??? i dont' think anyone should EVER yell at anyone else...

sabsab00 · 10-06-2007, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Superstarkba

Yes, every now and then.. I am sure he worked on his cars for the most part.

The reason I wasn't calling him, would be bc he would yell at me, cuss at me, and I DON"T deserve that! So I said that I wasn't going to talk to him for a week, but it fell through, new I should have lasted

I wouldn't be upset now.

Ok, if hes mistreating you and yelling and cursing - you need to let it go. There is NEVER a reason for someone to talk to you that way. Be assertive and tell him what you want and if thats not what he wants then thats it. I know its hard, but you'll be better off.....

Superstarkba · 10-06-2007, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by marcerella02

if you had a friend who's bf was swearing at her and yelling at her.. woudlnt' you be telling her she deserved better??? i dont' think anyone should EVER yell at anyone else...

Yes, its not easy to leave someone, but I have about had it. I don't think I am going to answer, IF he ever calls it will just make me mad, and say things that I shouldn't.

Superstarkba · 10-06-2007, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by sabsab00

Ok, if hes mistreating you and yelling and cursing - you need to let it go. There is NEVER a reason for someone to talk to you that way. Be assertive and tell him what you want and if thats not what he wants then thats it. I know its hard, but you'll be better off.....

I know, I think I have about had it. And those few days that I wasn't talking to him I was actually fine, didn't worry about him, thoughts crossed my mind when I saw a missed call, but nothing more than a few seconds. I spent more time doing crafty things, like I learned how to sew.. better thigns for me!

Superstarkba · 10-06-2007, 05:36 PM

He's finally calling me, I just hit silent.

sabsab00 · 10-06-2007, 05:36 PM

So you know what to do. You really do deserve better - so insist on it!

Superstarkba · 10-06-2007, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by sabsab00

So you know what to do. You really do deserve better - so insist on it!

I am going to try. We have our good days, 2 times a year, then we have bad days and they are really bad.. I fall soo hard down, and my feelings get hurt, and I don't know if he knows that.

sabsab00 · 10-06-2007, 05:42 PM

I know you feel terrilbe right now...but in the end its going to be worth it.....just take deep breathes and keep your self busy with friends and going out

Superstarkba · 10-06-2007, 05:45 PM

BI***!!! UHH. he said the reason he didn't asnwer was bc 1. I miised his call earlier (bc I was eating with my grandparents for my bday dinner) 2. bc I didn't talk to him for a few days. I told him to return my bday presents, I don't want them, and I will cancel the cabin and just loose the amount I put down.

Patti · 10-06-2007, 05:46 PM

Sorry you are having a rough time. I met my husband when we were 18 and we are still together. But I settled. He rarely buys me gifts on my birthday, we just had our 25th wedding anniversary and he never even said Happy Anniversary. If you are having differences now they usually only get bigger. Don't settle you deserve so much more!!! I know it's hard yto walk away but he seems to have different priorities than you.

Superstarkba · 10-06-2007, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Patti

Sorry you are having a rough time. I met my husband when we were 18 and we are still together. But I settled. He rarely buys me gifts on my birthday, we just had our 25th wedding anniversary and he never even said Happy Anniversary. If you are having differences now they usually only get bigger. Don't settle you deserve so much more!!! I know it's hard yto walk away but he seems to have different priorities than you.

Its soo hard. I need to get out more with more guys, that way I can have a fun time and get my mind off him. But I am NOT looking to date anyone..lol.. theres too much drama.

Patti · 10-06-2007, 05:58 PM

My dtrs high school BF of 3 1/2 years left her 2 years ago and it took her awhile to get over him and she hasn't really had any steady BF but she enjoys time with her friends and one day the right guy will come along for her and you!!!

HallTx1203 · 10-06-2007, 05:58 PM

We have 4 girls. Ranging from 19- 24. We are always telling them that they should never have to settle for less than they deserve. You deserve better too. You deserve flowers, calls, all the things you want.

Maybe call a couple GF's and go see a movie or get a soda. During the day, take the babies to the park....Keep busy....Don't sit by the phone....Talking on YT is good too...lol

This is a hard decision, I wish you all the best.

Superstarkba · 10-06-2007, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by HallTx1203

We have 4 girls. Ranging from 19- 24. We are always telling them that they should never have to settle for less than they deserve. You deserve better too. You deserve flowers, calls, all the things you want.

Maybe call a couple GF's and go see a movie or get a soda. During the day, take the babies to the park....Keep busy....Don't sit by the phone....Talking on YT is good too...lol

This is a hard decision, I wish you all the best.

I will. Hopefully my friend and I can go do some more shopping tomorrow. I am going to wash clothes, and work on some christmas projects, then mid day I am going to take the babies to the park.. it will help.
Hopefully

10-06-2007, 05:46 PM	#26
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	Sorry you are having a rough time. I met my husband when we were 18 and we are still together. But I settled. He rarely buys me gifts on my birthday, we just had our 25th wedding anniversary and he never even said Happy Anniversary. If you are having differences now they usually only get bigger. Don't settle you deserve so much more!!! I know it's hard yto walk away but he seems to have different priorities than you. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

10-06-2007, 05:58 PM	#28
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	My dtrs high school BF of 3 1/2 years left her 2 years ago and it took her awhile to get over him and she hasn't really had any steady BF but she enjoys time with her friends and one day the right guy will come along for her and you!!! __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

10-06-2007, 05:58 PM	#29
HallTx1203 Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: CENTRAL TEXAS Posts: 1,867	We have 4 girls. Ranging from 19- 24. We are always telling them that they should never have to settle for less than they deserve. You deserve better too. You deserve flowers, calls, all the things you want. Maybe call a couple GF's and go see a movie or get a soda. During the day, take the babies to the park....Keep busy....Don't sit by the phone....Talking on YT is good too...lol This is a hard decision, I wish you all the best. __________________ Joyce and Shelby

10-06-2007, 05:36 PM	#21
Superstarkba Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia Posts: 9,369	He's finally calling me, I just hit silent.

10-06-2007, 05:36 PM	#22
sabsab00 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: queens Posts: 1,256	So you know what to do. You really do deserve better - so insist on it!

10-06-2007, 05:42 PM	#24
sabsab00 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: queens Posts: 1,256	I know you feel terrilbe right now...but in the end its going to be worth it.....just take deep breathes and keep your self busy with friends and going out

10-06-2007, 05:45 PM	#25
Superstarkba Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia Posts: 9,369	BI***!!! UHH. he said the reason he didn't asnwer was bc 1. I miised his call earlier (bc I was eating with my grandparents for my bday dinner) 2. bc I didn't talk to him for a few days. I told him to return my bday presents, I don't want them, and I will cancel the cabin and just loose the amount I put down.