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TammyJM · 10-07-2007, 07:26 AM

I miss seeing V's upbeat posts but understand why she is not been on lately. I think about her and wonder how she is doing, thanks for posting this to let us know.

God bless you,Villette~
Tammy

ryorkies · 10-07-2007, 10:10 AM

Villette, Please try to remember that things will get easier and you will feel better. Every day is a step forward and soon the darkness will fade and you will begin to see more and more bright days ahead.

Sending you loving hugs....

Lou · 10-08-2007, 10:30 AM

Oh V,
If you could only know how much we miss you and want you to return. We need ya woman!

I know I personally can't understand the depth of your grief but please know that I care about you and want the best for you. Please take care of yourself. Hopefully this flu will pass and you strength will return.

red98vett · 10-09-2007, 10:50 AM

Man you guys- I'm just now seeing this thread and thank you so so much.

It's been so hard and I think what I thought was a virus is a reaction to all the changes and losing my husband so I guess it's stress but I've never felt so sick before in my life as I did the last 2 weeks.

I'm trying to focus on one day at a time and eating very bland food but it's so hard to eat. My girls need me and they're keeping me going and you all have been just outstanding and awesome with your prayers and emails and pm's -

I wish I was here and miss you all so much but am trying to find full time work and also trying to go thru my husbands things - it's a hard hard thing to do but I have to look at the future now. The girls are depending on me to get us thru this and thanks to you all I know I have friends.

I love you and thanks so much - your prayers mean more to me than I can say. I really miss posting and talking. It seems like forever since I laughed but I know one day this all will get easier.

Sending hugs to everyone and thank you. I feel so bad I didn't see this sooner but you just made me smile and that's SO appreciated.

cariblonde · 10-09-2007, 11:30 AM

Please try to take care of yourself during this difficult time, you are missed and loved very much.

from all of us at YT

mustangbee · 10-09-2007, 11:42 AM

Hugs to you V!

Oscar's Mom · 10-09-2007, 12:01 PM

Hugs to you V!!! You ARE a strong lady...just pick yourself up and take it a moment at a time, then a minute, then a day, then a week and so on...you will soon realize just how strong you really are! I have often said that we can't change anything that happened yesterday, and we can't make what might happen tomorrow happen - we can only live in today and that is all we need to worry about...just today. Embrace yourself V and embrace life! Take today to grow stronger and just look forward to tomorrow...it is gonna be a brand new day with brand new dreams. You ARE gonna make it my friend!!!

Josie's Mom · 10-09-2007, 01:54 PM

Hi Villette

Just wanted to drop by and say Hello.
I'm sorry your feeling under the weather.
Good luck in your job search I'm sure you will find something. Take care and hope to see you around here real soon.

Shelby&Seymour · 10-09-2007, 01:57 PM

Hope that you start feeling better soon, Vi! Have yourself a few crackers and don't forget to Drink plenty of water!!!!!!! Just a little at a time and you will be able to conquer this stress issue..... Just do it on YOUR time! It hasn't been that long...... and you are still grieving which is normal. Everyone deals with things differently and you know what is best for you.
.............. a Full-time job???? Are you looking for anything particular? Have you got any leads on a position that you are hoping to get? Hoping that you find the perfect job..... and anyone that gets the oportunity to work with you will be so lucky!

red98vett · 10-10-2007, 04:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Shelby&Seymour

Hope that you start feeling better soon, Vi! Have yourself a few crackers and don't forget to Drink plenty of water!!!!!!! Just a little at a time and you will be able to conquer this stress issue..... Just do it on YOUR time! It hasn't been that long...... and you are still grieving which is normal. Everyone deals with things differently and you know what is best for you.
.............. a Full-time job???? Are you looking for anything particular? Have you got any leads on a position that you are hoping to get? Hoping that you find the perfect job..... and anyone that gets the oportunity to work with you will be so lucky!

Hey there - I'm plugging away - my situation now is finding work asap and then will have to move - but just overwhelmed with it all. I'm taking one day at a time and can use all the prayers you have. I never dreamed losing him would be this hard and can't seem to stop my mind from spinning all the time

I have an appointment with a staffing agency tommorrow but from past experience - they can be slow in placing people but I'm trying !! Thank you all so much for the encouragment - Ive never been in the place I'm in right now and I'm just hoping I can pick up the pieces of my life and the girls can have a happy mom again.

Superstarkba · 10-10-2007, 04:19 AM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

Hey there - I'm plugging away - my situation now is finding work asap and then will have to move - but just overwhelmed with it all. I'm taking one day at a time and can use all the prayers you have. I never dreamed losing him would be this hard and can't seem to stop my mind from spinning all the time

I have an appointment with a staffing agency tommorrow but from past experience - they can be slow in placing people but I'm trying !! Thank you all so much for the encouragment - Ive never been in the place I'm in right now and I'm just hoping I can pick up the pieces of my life and the girls can have a happy mom again.

sometimes staffing agencies can be slow. But have you thought about looking at your local governement employment page? I go to google and type in my county and state then human resources. Then you should see the employment page on there. Good luck!!! I am still praying for you.

red98vett · 10-10-2007, 04:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Superstarkba

sometimes staffing agencies can be slow. But have you thought about looking at your local governement employment page? I go to google and type in my county and state then human resources. Then you should see the employment page on there. Good luck!!! I am still praying for you.

I sure have - so far not much out there with the pay I need but I'm doing new searches everyday and utilizing my contacts too.

I sure miss everyone here but once I get my new life going I hope I can post some - I've never been alone before and it's just been really hard to be upbeat - the last thing I want to do is depress everyone on here so that's why I haven't been saying too much.

Love you guys and thank you again for everything

RMKC · 10-10-2007, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

I sure have - so far not much out there with the pay I need but I'm doing new searches everyday and utilizing my contacts too.

I sure miss everyone here but once I get my new life going I hope I can post some - I've never been alone before and it's just been really hard to be upbeat - the last thing I want to do is depress everyone on here so that's why I haven't been saying too much.

Love you guys and thank you again for everything

Keeping my fingers crossed for you V, that you find something soon !

laurenr · 10-10-2007, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

I sure have - so far not much out there with the pay I need but I'm doing new searches everyday and utilizing my contacts too.

I sure miss everyone here but once I get my new life going I hope I can post some - I've never been alone before and it's just been really hard to be upbeat - the last thing I want to do is depress everyone on here so that's why I haven't been saying too much.

Love you guys and thank you again for everything

Vilette, you should NEVER feel like that with your friends on YT, or any of your friends for that matter. You are an amazing lady, people understand your situation and just want to be there for you. If you are feeling down, post away your troubles here.... feel free to moan and groan as much as you like....... when you fall, we are here to pick you right back up again.

As for the job search, any employment agency would be quick to see how amazing your "people skills" are, how personable you are, and would want to snap you right up before someone else would.
Huge hugs,
Lauren

Shadow · 10-23-2007, 05:45 AM

Thinking on you this morning V,I hope the job hunting id going good. Hugs to you and the girls.

10-08-2007, 10:30 AM	#33
Lou Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: A little town south of Chicago Posts: 4,525	Oh V, If you could only know how much we miss you and want you to return. We need ya woman! I know I personally can't understand the depth of your grief but please know that I care about you and want the best for you. Please take care of yourself. Hopefully this flu will pass and you strength will return. __________________ http://www.its-a-yorkie-thing.com Gracie Skeeter Adie Tyler

10-09-2007, 10:50 AM	#34
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Man you guys- I'm just now seeing this thread and thank you so so much. It's been so hard and I think what I thought was a virus is a reaction to all the changes and losing my husband so I guess it's stress but I've never felt so sick before in my life as I did the last 2 weeks. I'm trying to focus on one day at a time and eating very bland food but it's so hard to eat. My girls need me and they're keeping me going and you all have been just outstanding and awesome with your prayers and emails and pm's - I wish I was here and miss you all so much but am trying to find full time work and also trying to go thru my husbands things - it's a hard hard thing to do but I have to look at the future now. The girls are depending on me to get us thru this and thanks to you all I know I have friends. I love you and thanks so much - your prayers mean more to me than I can say. I really miss posting and talking. It seems like forever since I laughed but I know one day this all will get easier. Sending hugs to everyone and thank you. I feel so bad I didn't see this sooner but you just made me smile and that's SO appreciated. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

10-09-2007, 11:30 AM	#35
cariblonde Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: wilmington nc Posts: 1,585	Please try to take care of yourself during this difficult time, you are missed and loved very much. from all of us at YT __________________ Proud Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club and in the end, its not the years in your life that count but the life in your years.... Abraham Lincoln

10-09-2007, 11:42 AM	#36
mustangbee Donating YT 9000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina :) Posts: 10,616	Hugs to you V! __________________ Friends are God's way of apologizing for our relatives. "Love & Support Our YT Members" Gina & Princess Member of the SSLS

10-09-2007, 12:01 PM	#37
Oscar's Mom My Little Biker Dude Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 2,065	Hugs to you V!!! You ARE a strong lady...just pick yourself up and take it a moment at a time, then a minute, then a day, then a week and so on...you will soon realize just how strong you really are! I have often said that we can't change anything that happened yesterday, and we can't make what might happen tomorrow happen - we can only live in today and that is all we need to worry about...just today. Embrace yourself V and embrace life! Take today to grow stronger and just look forward to tomorrow...it is gonna be a brand new day with brand new dreams. You ARE gonna make it my friend!!! __________________ ****************** Debbie G. - Oscar's Mom ****** PRAYERS FOR ALL THOSE KICKING CANCER'S BUTT!!! **************** RIP SHARON 8-10-63 to 9-21-08

10-07-2007, 07:26 AM	#31
TammyJM No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: With My Beautiful Fur Babies! Posts: 5,525	I miss seeing V's upbeat posts but understand why she is not been on lately. I think about her and wonder how she is doing, thanks for posting this to let us know. God bless you,Villette~ Tammy

10-07-2007, 10:10 AM	#32
ryorkies No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Yorkieville Posts: 2,860	Villette, Please try to remember that things will get easier and you will feel better. Every day is a step forward and soon the darkness will fade and you will begin to see more and more bright days ahead. Sending you loving hugs....

10-09-2007, 01:54 PM	#38
Josie's Mom Jojo's & Junior's too! Donating YT Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Watsonville, CA Posts: 1,379	Hi Villette Just wanted to drop by and say Hello. I'm sorry your feeling under the weather. Good luck in your job search I'm sure you will find something. Take care and hope to see you around here real soon. __________________ Josie, Jojo, Junior & Veronica ...No Home is Complete Without a Yorkie...or Two...better make that 3!..

10-09-2007, 01:57 PM	#39
Shelby&Seymour "& Seeger, too" Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Central Kentucky Posts: 5,169	Hi Vi!! Hope that you start feeling better soon, Vi! Have yourself a few crackers and don't forget to Drink plenty of water!!!!!!! Just a little at a time and you will be able to conquer this stress issue..... Just do it on YOUR time! It hasn't been that long...... and you are still grieving which is normal. Everyone deals with things differently and you know what is best for you. .............. a Full-time job???? Are you looking for anything particular? Have you got any leads on a position that you are hoping to get? Hoping that you find the perfect job..... and anyone that gets the oportunity to work with you will be so lucky! __________________ Happy Fall Y'all! 🎃

10-23-2007, 05:45 AM	#45
Shadow No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: California Posts: 5,368	Thinking on you this morning V,I hope the job hunting id going good. Hugs to you and the girls.