Message from Villette....

[simonandhallie]

Hi Villette, it's so good to hear from you. I just want you to know that we are still praying for you and sending you hugs~

[Amber_lv]

Originally Posted by red98vett

Than you thank you thank you thank you thank you everyone and Kim for posting this !

(this is long SORRY !!) Thank you for the wonderful cards- the nice gifts & the many phone calls - even the ones I missed and so truyly appreciated - more than you'll ever know. I really REALLY miss my husband. I thought there would be some 'relief' knowing he isn't suffering anymore but I just plain Miss him it's so very quiet and lonely now

Anyway - I'm keeping notes and will personally get back to all of you. I THINK I fixedmy phones and do have a cell if anyone needs it - Was up till 2 am trying and ended up with working phones but then put my my ty out in the process LOL - I was so tired I didn't care so - no tv -and on and off phones ...

Sissy is right - when it rains it pours. I'm hoping the company will work with me as I have many many complaints in about my digital phones

And she's right about how busy I've been - I HAD to stay busy or I'd have just curled up crying - I was pacing and couldn't sleep or eat so I figured cleaning is always a cure for that king of thing plus... Knowing there would be no $$ I have to move fast, The cost of apartments isn't much lower than my house rent so if we could stay here I'd be estatic - The Girls are missing their dad but mostly ok - It's Tessa my cocker I'm worried about. She's just devesated poor girl.

So - since I can't 'talk' to each of you - I'll start a thread and update everyone that way. I feel I can do it soon but do apologise - I had too hard of a time reading the other ones - I kept cryin then couldn't see the words.

Linda (fufu Fashions) was nice enough to print them all out for me when she came over.... I think my girls fell in love with you - Thank you so much for the food I know I was a terrible patient and think it's lack of sleep that's keeping me from eating but I'm trying-

Joan - I NEED THOSE ORTHOPEDIC Socks and Shoes now ask me how I sprained my ankle that now looks like it's 5 times bigger than my other one) and a Thank You to Fred for rushing me a keyboard and ciggies - that was so thoughtful

and Jamie (Yorkiecrazy) and Kelly - THANK YOU BOTH FOR COMING BY too !!! I don't have much time today - still working on Funeral arrangements with his family & I will be flying to Michigan aroung the 8th....Its so awesome - I've only met a few of them but they've welcomed me like they've known me for years from the day we got married. None of us can believe he's really gone

PART II to Follow and BIG HUGS to all of you !!

It's good to hear from you and i am glad you are ok. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask. If you are in need from having the bills shut off i know the Red Cross (they pay utilities) can help you till you can get back on your feet. I know you don't want hand outs but this will help you till you are ready. Good luck hun and please let me know if i can help in any way

[mustangbee]

Hi V!!!!
Sending you hugs!!!!

[Shadow]

I have always loved this poem,thanks for posting this .
V, It's good to see you post and I hope your future days can be filled with the happy memories you made with Lenoard.Take care of yourself.

Originally Posted by celstu1

OH V, BIG HUGS to you!!! You are a rock! So strong and I pray everyday for you to keep that positive attitude and strength of character you have. My thoughts are with you.

After a while (I have this hanging in my house) - Veronica Shoffstall

After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn
that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of woman, not the grief of a child
and you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down
in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn...


(((HUGS))) V!

[crystalsmom]

I'm crying again but I will get those orthopedic shoes in the mail, they might be alittle wet. Oh no what did you do now I'll try to get another pair just like the one's you're wearing here.

I don't know if you got my email but Txshopper, diggy 4 and Peanut made sure everyone knew about your loss and worked like the buziest busy bees I have ever seen. So many wonderful people love you.

[littlewhip]

HI V Iam so glad you posted, We have all missed you so much, you are in our prayers day & night, If you need anything Im in Mi also, please let me know if i can help in any way

[Magneticgal]

Hi V- its good to see you posting again. I have been so worried about you. We have ALL been keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. I just want you to know that I care and am sending a HUGE cyber hug your way!!

[YORKIEMOM2B2006]

Villete, so nice to see you posted. I'm teary eyed again, just thinking of all your going through right now, makes my heart hurt for you. I hope your eating something now and getting your rest. ..I wish there was more I could do for you. just now you are in my thoughts and prayers...
hugs to you

[Rudys Mom]

V, I was so glad to see that you posted. I can only imagine the hurt that you feel in your heart. Sending you, Tessa, Cheri & Chanel hugs from me, Rudy & Lucky. Take Care....

[Monday]

Life is not fair. But to never feel sadness is to never have loved ... your husband was lucky to have been loved by you.

I know the empty feeling ... You are blessed to have friends dropping by and to have your sons with you ... the nights are the saddest.

My thoughts are with you at this sad time .... You need to contact Social Security, they give you $$$ for funeral expenses ... and you need to make arrangements for other benefits.

It is not easy to do these things at this time. I was fortunate to have my daughter do it for me.

hugs to you ....

[Sugar's Mom]

my friend, I am so glad you felt like posting even if it was only for a little while. i feel your pain and you have been constantly in my thoughts and prayers.

[Superstarkba]

V, I am so glad that you posted! You are still in my Prayers. God will work his wonders through and with you.

[SWEETPEA]

v im so glad to hear from you. and happy that you are ok. please stay strong we are all here for you. take care of yourself. hugs and kisses :

[YorkieShadow]

Originally Posted by red98vett

Than you thank you thank you thank you thank you everyone and Kim for posting this !

(this is long SORRY !!) Thank you for the wonderful cards- the nice gifts & the many phone calls - even the ones I missed and so truyly appreciated - more than you'll ever know. I really REALLY miss my husband. I thought there would be some 'relief' knowing he isn't suffering anymore but I just plain Miss him it's so very quiet and lonely now

Anyway - I'm keeping notes and will personally get back to all of you. I THINK I fixedmy phones and do have a cell if anyone needs it - Was up till 2 am trying and ended up with working phones but then put my my ty out in the process LOL - I was so tired I didn't care so - no tv -and on and off phones ...

Sissy is right - when it rains it pours. I'm hoping the company will work with me as I have many many complaints in about my digital phones

And she's right about how busy I've been - I HAD to stay busy or I'd have just curled up crying - I was pacing and couldn't sleep or eat so I figured cleaning is always a cure for that king of thing plus... Knowing there would be no $$ I have to move fast, The cost of apartments isn't much lower than my house rent so if we could stay here I'd be estatic - The Girls are missing their dad but mostly ok - It's Tessa my cocker I'm worried about. She's just devesated poor girl.

So - since I can't 'talk' to each of you - I'll start a thread and update everyone that way. I feel I can do it soon but do apologise - I had too hard of a time reading the other ones - I kept cryin then couldn't see the words.

Linda (fufu Fashions) was nice enough to print them all out for me when she came over.... I think my girls fell in love with you - Thank you so much for the food I know I was a terrible patient and think it's lack of sleep that's keeping me from eating but I'm trying-

Joan - I NEED THOSE ORTHOPEDIC Socks and Shoes now ask me how I sprained my ankle that now looks like it's 5 times bigger than my other one) and a Thank You to Fred for rushing me a keyboard and ciggies - that was so thoughtful

and Jamie (Yorkiecrazy) and Kelly - THANK YOU BOTH FOR COMING BY too !!! I don't have much time today - still working on Funeral arrangements with his family & I will be flying to Michigan aroung the 8th....Its so awesome - I've only met a few of them but they've welcomed me like they've known me for years from the day we got married. None of us can believe he's really gone

PART II to Follow and BIG HUGS to all of you !!

Hi Villette Im glad to see you post. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Im so sad for Tessa too, I hope she will be alright give her some extra attention and lots of hugs and kisses from us. and for the spy girls too.

[AprilLove]

So glad you posted V', it is good to hear your "virtual" voice. You have a huge family of support and love here for you. I want to say again, that I am soo so very sorry for your loss. Hopefully, in time, the pain will lessen somewhat and be replaced by those loving memories of your dear husband. Please take your own time to grieve in your own way, and know that many many folks here think of you often. Bless you dear.