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JeanieK · 08-03-2007, 08:09 AM

In one hour I have to take my husband to the Dr to see if he will have to have is foot amputated.

I am scared to death of what our lives will be like from here forward.

I know many of you have gone through things like this. How do you make it through to tomorrow when you hate what tomorrow might bring?

If I am feeling this bad, how bad must it be for him.

I need all the prayers and support that I can get right now.

I hide in here because I don't want him to know I'm crying.

Please hold my hand.

ARCHIE · 08-03-2007, 08:17 AM

Oh heavens Jeanie was it an accident or is he a diabetic?
Whatever the reason I am sending prayer's to get you through this
difficult time and prayer's for him that his foot can be saved.
Hang in there girl and think positive. I am holding your hand.

Rudys Mom · 08-03-2007, 08:19 AM

I pray that your husband doesn't have to have that done.

Sending you a BIG hug from me, Rudy & Lucky.

Take Care....

Judy in Waco · 08-03-2007, 08:19 AM

I'm holding your hand! And we're praying for both of you right now. I know you're scared. I would be too. I really pray that the doctor gives you better news than you're expecting. If his foot does need to be amputated, I have seen some amazing things done with prosthetics and such. Keep your chin up sweetie. I'm proud of you for being so strong. Hugs.

Hokule'a · 08-03-2007, 08:22 AM

I'm here holding your hand also and saying a prayer for both of you right now

Tillys_mom · 08-03-2007, 08:24 AM

Sending prayers your way!!!

simplyyorkies · 08-03-2007, 08:26 AM

Powerful prayers headed your way!
I wish I had some pearl of wisdom that would help ease your fears but all I have to offer is friendship. I'll be here every day and always available for a shoulder to lean on.
Wipe away your tears, hold your head up and face the moment. Allow your friends at YT to carry the worry for now while u and hubby live in the moment and when u return we will deal with the answers together.

SugarMama · 08-03-2007, 08:31 AM

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I'm praying for your husband, the dr, and you. Please be strong, you'll make it through this. Keep us updated. Good luck.

Gingergirlsmom · 08-03-2007, 08:31 AM

Oh my gosh, you poor thing. I don't have any wisdom to offer, but will be here for you...I'm praying that you get good answers when you head to the doctors this afternoon.

red98vett · 08-03-2007, 08:39 AM

Here's my Hand Jeanie.

you know you can call me anytime - I know what you're going thru on a daily basis and I hope he doesn't need amputation .....please come post as soon as you hear something and big hugs to you both

ps -
and in case you need to know (since I just got thru cutting my lawn) - yes....it was good for me ...

does that help bring a smile to your face ???

zoeybear · 08-03-2007, 09:29 AM

A few months ago my husband was in the hospital for 7 days with MRSA. The infection got into an incision from knee surgery. They told me the infection was in his leg BONE after the second surgery to clean it. I was so scared he would lose his leg. I could not even begin to think about what it would mean for us. I was terrified.Thankfully he did not lose his leg. Your husband is lucky to have you there for him. I am hoping everything goes well for you both. Keeping you in my thoughts.

Sookie · 08-03-2007, 09:41 AM

I hope everything turns out ok for you and your hubby...thoughts and prayers are headed your way (hand holding too).

jp4m2 · 08-03-2007, 09:43 AM

Oh Jeanie, your husband must be so frightened also....Lets just all pray all this worry and sadness was unnecessary and everything is going to be ok....

TootiesMom · 08-03-2007, 09:44 AM

Bless you and Bless your hubbie!
May God ride your shoulder and guide you through this tough time...
d

AngelWorks · 08-03-2007, 09:53 AM

You and your husband are getting all my best thoughts today.

Let go to whatever power you believe in.

We can only feel that things are out of control if we believe we have any control over the outcome. In this case--it's out of your control.

It's amazing how quickly you'll feel more grounded after letting go.

Then no matter what happens, you'll have a calm, clear head.

08-03-2007, 08:09 AM	#1
JeanieK Donating YT 12K Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Council Bluffs Iowa Posts: 12,552	I am scared to death In one hour I have to take my husband to the Dr to see if he will have to have is foot amputated. I am scared to death of what our lives will be like from here forward. I know many of you have gone through things like this. How do you make it through to tomorrow when you hate what tomorrow might bring? If I am feeling this bad, how bad must it be for him. I need all the prayers and support that I can get right now. I hide in here because I don't want him to know I'm crying. Please hold my hand.

08-03-2007, 08:19 AM	#3
Rudys Mom Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Lancaster, PA Posts: 4,327	I pray that your husband doesn't have to have that done. Sending you a BIG hug from me, Rudy & Lucky. Take Care.... __________________ Rudy, Zoey & Buster's mom (Dawn) Rest In Peace my precious Gracie girl & Lucky buddie Dogster:http://www.dogster.com/dogs/382659 & http://www.dogster.com/dogs/497315

08-03-2007, 08:19 AM	#4
Judy in Waco Gizzy & Kandi spoil me Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Waco, Texas Posts: 8,477	I'm holding your hand! And we're praying for both of you right now. I know you're scared. I would be too. I really pray that the doctor gives you better news than you're expecting. If his foot does need to be amputated, I have seen some amazing things done with prosthetics and such. Keep your chin up sweetie. I'm proud of you for being so strong. Hugs. __________________ The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa ( RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)

08-03-2007, 08:22 AM	#5
Hokule'a Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Salt Lake City, UT Posts: 4,591	I'm here holding your hand also and saying a prayer for both of you right now __________________ Eva and her keikis: Hokule'a, Kalani & Pi'ilani

08-03-2007, 08:24 AM	#6
Tillys_mom Spoilin' Tilly & Jack Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,227	Sending prayers your way!!! __________________ Momma Tilly Money will buy you a pretty good dog, but it won't buy the wag of his tail.

08-03-2007, 08:17 AM	#2
ARCHIE No Longer A Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: NEW YORK Posts: 16,218	Oh heavens Jeanie was it an accident or is he a diabetic? Whatever the reason I am sending prayer's to get you through this difficult time and prayer's for him that his foot can be saved. Hang in there girl and think positive. I am holding your hand.

08-03-2007, 08:26 AM	#7
simplyyorkies Gabor Galore Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Illinois Posts: 606	Powerful prayers headed your way! I wish I had some pearl of wisdom that would help ease your fears but all I have to offer is friendship. I'll be here every day and always available for a shoulder to lean on. Wipe away your tears, hold your head up and face the moment. Allow your friends at YT to carry the worry for now while u and hubby live in the moment and when u return we will deal with the answers together. __________________ Zsa-Zsa and Eva Darling Mine

08-03-2007, 08:31 AM	#8
SugarMama YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Minnesota Posts: 479	I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I'm praying for your husband, the dr, and you. Please be strong, you'll make it through this. Keep us updated. Good luck. __________________ Have a great day! ~Mindy~

08-03-2007, 08:31 AM	#9
Gingergirlsmom and Bernie's mom too!" Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 8,283	Oh my gosh, you poor thing. I don't have any wisdom to offer, but will be here for you...I'm praying that you get good answers when you head to the doctors this afternoon. __________________ Ginger Bernie Fun Kitty

08-03-2007, 08:39 AM	#10
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Here's my Hand Jeanie. you know you can call me anytime - I know what you're going thru on a daily basis and I hope he doesn't need amputation .....please come post as soon as you hear something and big hugs to you both ps - and in case you need to know (since I just got thru cutting my lawn) - yes....it was good for me ... does that help bring a smile to your face ??? __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

08-03-2007, 09:29 AM	#11
zoeybear Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,186	A few months ago my husband was in the hospital for 7 days with MRSA. The infection got into an incision from knee surgery. They told me the infection was in his leg BONE after the second surgery to clean it. I was so scared he would lose his leg. I could not even begin to think about what it would mean for us. I was terrified.Thankfully he did not lose his leg. Your husband is lucky to have you there for him. I am hoping everything goes well for you both. Keeping you in my thoughts. __________________ We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made. -M. Acklam

08-03-2007, 09:41 AM	#12
Sookie My Four Sweet Babies Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Jersey near Philadelphia Posts: 5,452	I hope everything turns out ok for you and your hubby...thoughts and prayers are headed your way (hand holding too). __________________ I LOVE MY BABIES

08-03-2007, 09:43 AM	#13
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys Posts: 5,056	Oh Jeanie, your husband must be so frightened also....Lets just all pray all this worry and sadness was unnecessary and everything is going to be ok.... __________________ B.J.mom to : Jake J.J. Jack & Joey, momma misses you..... The joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The two most powerful words when we’re in struggle: me too..

08-03-2007, 09:44 AM	#14
TootiesMom and Hopeys Mom Too Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Louisiana Posts: 4,109	Bless you and Bless your hubbie! May God ride your shoulder and guide you through this tough time... d __________________ Donna's little herd.... Tooties Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?271687 Hopeys Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?448723 and Tinker, TBone(RIP) Laci .. OH, and Me-Kitty(RIP)

08-03-2007, 09:53 AM	#15
AngelWorks Donating YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: NY Posts: 1,752	You and your husband are getting all my best thoughts today. Let go to whatever power you believe in. We can only feel that things are out of control if we believe we have any control over the outcome. In this case--it's out of your control. It's amazing how quickly you'll feel more grounded after letting go. Then no matter what happens, you'll have a calm, clear head.