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CO_yorkie_momma · 07-12-2007, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

If it's someone I met a millisecond ago or someone I have little or no respect for then it definitely wouldn't send me into the fetal position looking for my binky.....

crystalsmom · 07-12-2007, 08:16 AM

I have never had a bad pm yet .....people are just thinking it

BabyFidgette · 07-12-2007, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

Haven't you heard, at times the "B" word is considered a compliment ....

I always consider the source of a criticism...if it's from someone I considered my friend or someone I respected then after I consider if it had merit, it might hurt....

If it's someone I met a millisecond ago or someone I have little or no respect for then it definitely wouldn't send me into the fetal position looking for my binky.....

Darn right! LOL

And to the OP: That's weird. So let me get this straight...you "kinda" agreed with someone's thread and told them that they gave you another side to think about and they got pissed? I mean, I know that YT is a place to learn and say our side. And of course we love when people agree with you. So, why would they get mad? Do they not care what you think?

BabyFidgette · 07-12-2007, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

I've had thousands of pm's go back and forth - me sending them - and receiving them ...I can only think of 2 that were negative - and those people ended up being banned for one reason or another. I can say that in all the pm's I've sent OR had ....they were all great - it's a good way to connect with people

I try to send out personal messages if someone is going thru a really hard time or lost a pet....and ok - I admit it - just to gossip too LOL

I can't see anyone being negative over a compliment and would have to think the pm was misunderstood...maybe it was worded so that the person didn't know they were getting a compliment ?

Come to think of it, I think Vee blew up my mailbox before! LOLOL

BabyFidgette · 07-12-2007, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by crystalsmom

I have never had a bad pm yet .....people are just thinking it

LOLOL True! People are thinking that about me, and visa versa!

Now where's my binky?

red98vett · 07-12-2007, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by BabyFidgette

Come to think of it, I think Vee blew up my mailbox before! LOLOL

HAHA ya but it wasn't about a member HERE lol -

and leave it to you to love that "B" word comment LOL

and I have to wonder....most people would be receptive to a nice pm - maybe it was the content that caused the negative response ??

jp4m2 · 07-12-2007, 09:00 AM

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Originally Posted by crystalsmom

I have never had a bad pm yet .....people are just thinking it

Should I send you one?

red98vett · 07-12-2007, 09:02 AM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

Should I send you one?

LOLOLOLOL !!....see Scrappy ...everyone here is NICE

scrapindee · 07-13-2007, 01:55 PM

That was the first time I ever sent someone a PM, telling them they had written something that made me think differently, or look at a different angle at a discussion, or make me want to take an action, whatever--it was a compliment and meant to be one--must be a new record--getting someone upset or annoyed in 20 words or less.

I guess I will have to add statement to future PMs stating this is a compliment.

Too funny. and yes I love postive stroke PMs. Not PMS.

crystalsmom · 07-13-2007, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

Should I send you one?

Ok, I'll be ready for you.

SweetPea53 · 07-13-2007, 02:21 PM

So far all my PMs have been nothing but positive

sweetr72 · 07-13-2007, 02:28 PM

I have gotten and given positive pm's and been treated very nice...so far lol..

Dawn

mizzwanned · 07-13-2007, 02:38 PM

I've sent PMs complimeting ppl on their yorkies, asking them questions and comforting them if something bad happened to them. I also love getting PMs, I haven't had a bad ones but if I did no biggie. There are always ppl that like to stir things up

PMs are fun though and great to share information

Kbsqueff · 07-13-2007, 02:56 PM

I don't get many PMs, but the ones I've got so far are nice...

GORJESS · 07-13-2007, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

I don't get many PM's so when I do it may take a few days before I notice one...I must be the only one that sees mine & go.. "Uh oh, what did I say?"..

( man what a pessimist....

)

lol lol i'm the same way!

i received a mean PM once, but i just tried 2 ignore it. i admit i kind of kept away from YT and posting for a while but then i realized all the good PM's outweighed 1 bad one!

07-12-2007, 08:16 AM	#32
crystalsmom Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 7,946	I have never had a bad pm yet .....people are just thinking it __________________

07-13-2007, 01:55 PM	#39
scrapindee Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Redlands Posts: 4,842 Blog Entries: 2	That was the first time I ever sent someone a PM, telling them they had written something that made me think differently, or look at a different angle at a discussion, or make me want to take an action, whatever--it was a compliment and meant to be one--must be a new record--getting someone upset or annoyed in 20 words or less. I guess I will have to add statement to future PMs stating this is a compliment. Too funny. and yes I love postive stroke PMs. Not PMS. __________________ Scrapindee--Team Furry & the Biewers www.houseofwags.com

07-13-2007, 02:21 PM	#41
SweetPea53 ~Izzie~ My Lil' Sweetie Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: So. California (Santa Clarita) Posts: 2,348	So far all my PMs have been nothing but positive __________________ Don't Worry, Be Happy

07-13-2007, 02:38 PM	#43
mizzwanned Donating YT 11K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: new york Posts: 14,007 Blog Entries: 2	I've sent PMs complimeting ppl on their yorkies, asking them questions and comforting them if something bad happened to them. I also love getting PMs, I haven't had a bad ones but if I did no biggie. There are always ppl that like to stir things up PMs are fun though and great to share information __________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3

07-13-2007, 02:28 PM	#42
sweetr72 No Longer a Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 6,111	I have gotten and given positive pm's and been treated very nice...so far lol.. Dawn

07-13-2007, 02:56 PM	#44
Kbsqueff YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rio Grande do Sul - BRAZIL Posts: 1,054	I don't get many PMs, but the ones I've got so far are nice...