Why do we have to have neighbors? (LONG Venting)

[OLIVIA_KARHIS]

My neighbor is On my last nerve!! We have had nothing but problems with her scent she found out my hubby is a MP (military police).

The 1st thing she b**** about was that are washer and dryer vibrate her floor and she cant sleep. (She lives under us) SO to make the heifer happy, Even thou I think she is full of sh** and just dose not want any one to live above her, we dont wash pass 10pm. Which is a inconvenience to ME because my husband is on nights right now and I am trying to sleep and be a wake when he is, so I can see him and have SOMEWHAT of a life. Which scent she is a army wife as well, you think she would understand that but she could care less. so we thought that was all done and over with and she would not be calling My husbands boss any more... Boy where we WRONG!

NOW she is saying we are dragging things across the floor and its keeping her up. Which each time she has called my husbands boss about this, we where SLEEPING! and I am not going to move anything across the floor. A) I dont want to mess up the floor and have to pay for it, scent we live in military housing and they will make you pay for every little thing you mess up and B) I am 9 months preg. My Fat but aint moving A THING!

She is annoying the CRAP out of me. I told my husband the next time she calls Sgt White (his boss) They might have to use that jail cell way in the back lol. The next thing she will hear dragging is her butt down the stairs when I grab her by the hair to take her behind the building to give her a Texas A$$ whopping! I know it wont get me any where, but it sure would make me feel better

We have done nothing but be nice about this and be as courteous as we can. Heck we dont even walk in the house with shoes any more... But it seems like at lest twice a month she is calling "saying" we are making some kind of noise. Which when people do make noise in the building, she dose not call. The lady who lived across from her let her kids have people over and they where in the hall way until 3am yelling and talking. I could hear them all the way in my back bed room and I am on the 3rd floor and there on the 2nd... BUt did she call on them or even ask them to be quite. NO! and they where right across from her.

She even bangs on are floor (her roof) when we are not even making noise. Heck, the last few times she did it. I was on YT and Hubby was half a sleep on the couch. I think the the building is shifting or something. They have been here scent around WW II time That or she is CRAZY and she is hearing things. I told my hubby the next time she hits are floor, I am calling the MP's on her. I am just sick of playing the nice game. I should not have to live like a church mouse in my own home!

UH I HATE NEIGHBORS!

Every time I see a moving truck pull up, I PRAY its for them! I can't wait till are last year is up. Then my husband is out of the military and we wont have to deal with bored house wife calling the MP's on us! I am SOO moving out to the country after he gets out. I HATE HATE having neighbor!

[IluvLucy]

Sounds like that heifer needs to get a life and stop interrupting yours. Doesn't she realize that at 9 months pregnant your hormones could make you do something you might NOT regret!!??

[Doodlebug]

I feel your pain. I used to live above an older lady who always insisted my tv was too loud. She complained and complained and also complained about my little dog who was quiet as a mouse.

Later her husband died and she tried to be friendly with me, buying me People magazines to read while I was sunning and trying to be friends with my dog.

She ended up being a very lonely old lady because she offended everyone and no one wanted anything to do with her. I believe that what goes around comes around.

[bdbmamaw]

We had neighbors living below us like that. They would even come up and cuss out the kids when they thought they were being too loud. That was carrying it a little TOO far. My hubby let them know what he thought of that!

Well, we were in the process of having a home built and on the day we began packing we made sure to drop every pot and pan we had in the house! ...among other things!

I know that's mean, but it felt soooo good..

[nvnvgirl]

I hate to be a wet blanket, but I lived in an apt for 14 years downstairs, and I swear, sometimes it sounded like the people above us were BOWLING! And I always tried to be nice about it and mention to them when I saw them about the noise, but a lot of times it would be the same case as what you have; they weren't doing anything (that would account for that amount of noise! ).So I don't know what it is; maybe these places are haunted by past tenents or something Or it's just really really bad insulation between upstairs and downstairs and everything vibrates or echoes or is magnified somehow. I don't know the answer other than moving. But I can vouch for the fact that sometimes living downstairs is not the greatest thing. It's a shame that she's being such a witch about it though. Good luck; it's always tough living in such close proximity to other people that you have little in common with. All you can do is try to be as considerate as possible and if she continues to complain, tell her to drop dead; you're doing everything humanly possible to appease her

[OLIVIA_KARHIS]

Originally Posted by bdbmamaw

Well, we were in the process of having a home built and on the day we began packing we made sure to drop every pot and pan we had in the house! ...among other things!

I know that's mean, but it felt soooo good..

Thats ok, the last time they called hubbies boss on us. I done a 6am wake up call with the washer I put ONE towel in it and the fabric ball in it and set in on EXTRA Wash and put something under two of the feet so it off set it, so it rocks a little. It was REALLY loud . I shut the door to the wash room and I could hear it when I was in the back, taking a shower.

I know its sound MEAN and evil but it made me feel A LOT better Help release my stress


I told my hubby once the baby comes, you better be prepared for me calling y'all (hubbies a MP) with EVERY little loud noise they make. I am not playing the nice game any more, with them. I am sick of hearing SGT White saying we need to be more quite . Yeah one day he is going to catch me in my "I am preg and I will bite your head off, if you look at me the wrong way" mood and I am going to fly off the handle at him.

[OLIVIA_KARHIS]

Originally Posted by nvnvgirl

I hate to be a wet blanket, but I lived in an apt for 14 years downstairs, and I swear, sometimes it sounded like the people above us were BOWLING! And I always tried to be nice about it and mention to them when I saw them about the noise, but a lot of times it would be the same case as what you have; they weren't doing anything (that would account for that amount of noise! ).So I don't know what it is; maybe these places are haunted by past tenents or something Or it's just really really bad insulation between upstairs and downstairs and everything vibrates or echoes or is magnified somehow. I don't know the answer other than moving. But I can vouch for the fact that sometimes living downstairs is not the greatest thing. It's a shame that she's being such a witch about it though. Good luck; it's always tough living in such close proximity to other people that you have little in common with. All you can do is try to be as considerate as possible and if she continues to complain, tell her to drop dead; you're doing everything humanly possible to appease her

I know the walls here are thin (its military housing) and I do try to be as quite as possable. I don't even let are cat claw on her cat house after 9 because she rocks it when she claws on it and it hits the floor.

I would not even be b****ing about this if the calls she where making to hubbies boss where true. Its the fact every time she calls "SAYING" we are making noise. We are either sleeping or setting around on the computer or watching TV.

I under stood about the washer thing and we stop washing after 10...even thou I thing she is full of sh** about it and it is a BIG inconvenience to me.. But calling saying where doing stuff when we arnt, is REALLY uncalled for.

My hubbies coworker have told him a few times, she is prob just a bored house wife who needs to get some... the more she calls on us for stuff we arnt even doing... the more I am starting to agree with them.