I'm back from the hospital..... - Page 3 - YorkieTalk.com Forums

kitty · 03-15-2007, 06:53 AM

Thanks for all the kindness you all have shown me!
This is the best husband I've had (My other 2 used to beat me) This one works hard and makes good money. Usually we have enough to pay the bills and have food on the table. The kids always have nice enough clothes and shoes that fit and aren't torn up. Now, Here's my but I'm wondering why I even married him at all. I don't get the support or help that I need and this has proven it to me. He called me this morning and wanted me to drive to another town and take his computer in to get looked at!

I just don't think he understands or cares what I've gone through. I'm very depressed today. Thanks for all of you who are kind and caring. I don't know what I'd do with out my YT!!!!!!

Tiggerwit · 03-15-2007, 01:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kitty

Thanks for all the kindness you all have shown me!
This is the best husband I've had (My other 2 used to beat me) This one works hard and makes good money. Usually we have enough to pay the bills and have food on the table. The kids always have nice enough clothes and shoes that fit and aren't torn up. Now, Here's my but I'm wondering why I even married him at all. I don't get the support or help that I need and this has proven it to me. He called me this morning and wanted me to drive to another town and take his computer in to get looked at!

I just don't think he understands or cares what I've gone through. I'm very depressed today. Thanks for all of you who are kind and caring. I don't know what I'd do with out my YT!!!!!!

Kitty, hang in there, I know from other posts I've read that it's not all wine and roses for you and I'm sorry. This 'best husband' might not physically beat you but emotionally is another story. You need to be strong and stand up for yourself, you aren't going to be able to help those kids if you kill yourself. I hope you sit them all down and give them the come to jesus speech. If that doesn't work, I'll come down and pop knot them all for you.

Get some rest. Alphy sends kisses

chattiesmom · 03-15-2007, 01:21 PM

Kitty -- I'm sending hugs and well wishes. Please take care of yourself. I know about the mother/wife thing, but your body needs to heal.

hugs and more hugs

LunasMomma · 03-15-2007, 01:42 PM

Hi Kitty. I'm glad that you are feeling a little better physically at least. I'm sorry that your family seems to think that you had a hangnail removed

Any way your surgeon could talk to hubby, let him know that what you had done is MAJOR surgery, and what your restrictions are? Just a thought

Prayers and more prayers coming your way

kitty · 03-15-2007, 02:37 PM

He did talk to my husband and told him what I could and couldn't do. My husband seems to think I can run this household without doing those things. My husband is back to work in Texas. He is living/working there. He says he can't get time off. My family was supose to be here but they just can't/won't.
I haven't done a thing today except sit at the computer or lay on the couch watching t.v. I'm not cooking dinner either. The kids better learn to fix a sandwich by themselves tonight.

chattiesmom · 03-15-2007, 02:46 PM

Good for you, girl! REST! If I lived closer, I'd make YOU dinner.... The kids can

YOYO -- YOU'RE ON YOUR OWN

Grayson's mom · 03-15-2007, 03:22 PM

Stacy glad your feeling some better, hang in there and let those older kids help out as much as they can, as for the house let it go! Who cares you come first!! Feet up!!

YorkieMom55 · 03-16-2007, 12:25 PM

Stacie, how are you doing today? You're in my

. I hope your recovery goes well.

hugs.

kitty · 03-16-2007, 03:16 PM

Hello! I am doing fine today except I'm not getting any rest. I had parent/teacher conferences all day today. Then all the kids needed a hair cut. I usually do it but today I took them all to the salon to get it done. I fell down on the kitchen floor earlier due to a mess from the kids and now I really hurt. I pulled every muscle in my tummy trying to save myself from the fall. I'm going to try and rest now.

Lisa C · 03-16-2007, 06:48 PM

Kitty,
My heart is breaking for you and I am sorry your life is so difficult right now. You sound like an amazing woman in spite of it. I hope you get some help soon. Please rest and take care of yourself, it doesn't seem like anyone else is showing you any compassion. I hope that changes and a few lightbulbs go off.

03-15-2007, 06:53 AM	#31
kitty My Best Friend Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: oklahoma Posts: 2,258	Thanks for all the kindness you all have shown me! This is the best husband I've had (My other 2 used to beat me) This one works hard and makes good money. Usually we have enough to pay the bills and have food on the table. The kids always have nice enough clothes and shoes that fit and aren't torn up. Now, Here's my but I'm wondering why I even married him at all. I don't get the support or help that I need and this has proven it to me. He called me this morning and wanted me to drive to another town and take his computer in to get looked at! I just don't think he understands or cares what I've gone through. I'm very depressed today. Thanks for all of you who are kind and caring. I don't know what I'd do with out my YT!!!!!! __________________ Support our Troops :

03-15-2007, 01:21 PM	#33
chattiesmom Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 17,674	Kitty -- I'm sending hugs and well wishes. Please take care of yourself. I know about the mother/wife thing, but your body needs to heal. hugs and more hugs __________________ Silk Step-In Harnesses www.foxypups.etsy.com

03-15-2007, 01:42 PM	#34
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 8,799	Hi Kitty. I'm glad that you are feeling a little better physically at least. I'm sorry that your family seems to think that you had a hangnail removed Any way your surgeon could talk to hubby, let him know that what you had done is MAJOR surgery, and what your restrictions are? Just a thought Prayers and more prayers coming your way __________________ Tracy, Mom to Izzy and Luna

03-15-2007, 02:37 PM	#35
kitty My Best Friend Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: oklahoma Posts: 2,258	He did talk to my husband and told him what I could and couldn't do. My husband seems to think I can run this household without doing those things. My husband is back to work in Texas. He is living/working there. He says he can't get time off. My family was supose to be here but they just can't/won't. I haven't done a thing today except sit at the computer or lay on the couch watching t.v. I'm not cooking dinner either. The kids better learn to fix a sandwich by themselves tonight. __________________ Support our Troops :

03-15-2007, 02:46 PM	#36
chattiesmom Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 17,674	Good for you, girl! REST! If I lived closer, I'd make YOU dinner.... The kids can YOYO -- YOU'RE ON YOUR OWN __________________ Silk Step-In Harnesses www.foxypups.etsy.com

03-15-2007, 03:22 PM	#37
Grayson's mom Mommy's Little Boo Boo Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Virgina Posts: 3,734	Stacy glad your feeling some better, hang in there and let those older kids help out as much as they can, as for the house let it go! Who cares you come first!! Feet up!! __________________ Proud mom to Grayson Abby Dusty Pepper Ryan Gabriel and of course me Diane Grayson loves Tia

03-16-2007, 12:25 PM	#38
YorkieMom55 All Dogs Go To Heaven Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: By The Lake Posts: 2,727	Stacie, how are you doing today? You're in my . I hope your recovery goes well. hugs. __________________ Jeanie I am @ the Lake Jackson, Maggie, Sunshine, Bailey, Rocky, Emmie & Jack

03-16-2007, 03:16 PM	#39
kitty My Best Friend Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: oklahoma Posts: 2,258	Hello! I am doing fine today except I'm not getting any rest. I had parent/teacher conferences all day today. Then all the kids needed a hair cut. I usually do it but today I took them all to the salon to get it done. I fell down on the kitchen floor earlier due to a mess from the kids and now I really hurt. I pulled every muscle in my tummy trying to save myself from the fall. I'm going to try and rest now. __________________ Support our Troops :

03-16-2007, 06:48 PM	#40
Lisa C Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Tatamy, PA Posts: 62	Kitty, My heart is breaking for you and I am sorry your life is so difficult right now. You sound like an amazing woman in spite of it. I hope you get some help soon. Please rest and take care of yourself, it doesn't seem like anyone else is showing you any compassion. I hope that changes and a few lightbulbs go off. __________________ JoJo