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Amber_lv · 03-07-2007, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Amber_lv

But why? why does it have to be that way because a few people here can't say anything nice i mean come on we are not in Jr. High we are adults it should not be that way! So if i post something about breeding by what you just said i should just automatically know that someone isn't mature enough to post an opinion without bashing me?THIS IS THE PIONT I AM TRYING TO GET ACROSS IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE LIKE THAT!

sorry that was a little harsher than i ment for it to come across.(taking a deep breath)

jp4m2 · 03-07-2007, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Amber_lv

But why? why does it have to be that way because a few people here can't say anything nice i mean come on we are not in Jr. High we are adults it should not be that way! So if i post something about breeding by what you just said i should just automatically know that someone isn't mature enough to post an opinion without bashing me?THIS IS THE PIONT I AM TRYING TO GET ACROSS IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE LIKE THAT!

Sad to say, but I see threads like this quit often about rude or disrespectful responses to posts... You ask why this has to happen? ..Well my opinion is it's just the character of the person & no matter what you say about ..it will not change..it's just who they are... With a site that has over 16,000 people on it it's going to happen, sad to say...I try to just totally ignore the rude ones...

browniesmom622 · 03-07-2007, 11:45 AM

its the same as a post like this everyone is Not going to agree

chachi · 03-07-2007, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

Sad to say, but I see threads like this quit often about rude or disrespectful responses to posts... You ask why this has to happen? ..Well my opinion is it's just the character of the person & no matter what you say about ..it will not change..it's just who they are... With a site that has over 16,000 people on it it's going to happen, sad to say...I try to just totally ignore the rude ones...

Yep there are members on here that are just rude in their responses and I think it is just who they are too

RLC12345678 · 03-07-2007, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Amber_lv

But why? why does it have to be that way because a few people here can't say anything nice i mean come on we are not in Jr. High we are adults it should not be that way! So if i post something about breeding by what you just said i should just automatically know that someone isn't mature enough to post an opinion without bashing me?THIS IS THE PIONT I AM TRYING TO GET ACROSS IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE LIKE THAT!

Why? Bc some people are just rude. That's just the way they are. Nothing we say is going to change that....especially when it comes to a topic that they are passionate about. They thrive off drama. The best way to respond to these people is to just ignore them. That's life. You are going to meet people like this all the time. There's no way to get away from them. ESPECIALLY on a public forum with 16,000+ members.

RLC12345678 · 03-07-2007, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by jp4m2

Sad to say, but I see threads like this quit often about rude or disrespectful responses to posts... You ask why this has to happen? ..Well my opinion is it's just the character of the person & no matter what you say about ..it will not change..it's just who they are... With a site that has over 16,000 people on it it's going to happen, sad to say...I try to just totally ignore the rude ones...

OMG! We basically said the EXACT same thing at the exact same time!

dobiedude · 03-07-2007, 11:48 AM

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I agree with this, too. There are many people who have VERY strong opinions are breeding. If someone posts a question on breeding, they have to expect a strong response. It just comes with the territory of posting this type of question. I don't think anything we say is going to change this.

Just because you have a strong opinion does not mean you have to bash or treat someone new to breeding like poop.
Remember that EVERYONE at one time or another was new to this. Questions should be answered at least and maybe even some background from the person answering. I.E. I did this and it did not work or Someone informed me this is not the right way or I found the answers here. Please research this before you consider breeding because it may have dire repercussions to your breeding program. etc.... catch my drift. I think that is all Amber was trying to say? Wasn't it Amber?

dobiedude · 03-07-2007, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Amber_lv

sorry that was a little harsher than i ment for it to come across.(taking a deep breath)

Easy there easy! Step away from the keyboard and take another swig off the bottle! Don't worry it happens to the best of us! lmao

jp4m2 · 03-07-2007, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

OMG! We basically said the EXACT same thing at the exact same time!

I cracked up when I read yours too lol

Amber_lv · 03-07-2007, 11:51 AM

Well i guess it was just wishful thinking that mabey when they read this post that they will be more aware of how they say things. I know not everyone is going to agree on any topic trust me i am a very confrontational person and i do get that people like to see a rise but i really bums me out that we all just except that behavior here.

RLC12345678 · 03-07-2007, 11:52 AM

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Just because you have a strong opinion does not mean you have to bash or treat someone new to breeding like poop.
Remember that EVERYONE at one time or another was new to this. Questions should be answered at least and maybe even some background from the person answering. I.E. I did this and it did not work or Someone informed me this is not the right way or I found the answers here. Please research this before you consider breeding because it may have dire repercussions to your breeding program. etc.... catch my drift. I think that is all Amber was trying to say? Wasn't it Amber?

I agree with you. I'm not one of those people who responds this way. I'm just telling you, no matter how many threads like this are started, these people are not going to go away. Just put on your big girl panties (or big boy boxers/briefs/whitey tighties) and deal with it/ignore it. It's just they way these people are...it's their personality...people don't change.

RLC12345678 · 03-07-2007, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Amber_lv

Well i guess it was just wishful thinking that mabey when they read this post that they will be more aware of how they say things. I know not everyone is going to agree on any topic trust me i am a very confrontational person and i do get that people like to see a rise but i really bums me out that we all just except that behavior here.

I certainly hope they do. Hopefully these people will read this thread and try to be nicer.

Amber_lv · 03-07-2007, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by dobiedude

Easy there easy! Step away from the keyboard and take another swig off the bottle! Don't worry it happens to the best of us! lmao

LOL Dobie. my fingers typed a little to fast there lol and i'm between bottle now lol

LoveMyGirlz · 03-07-2007, 11:54 AM

Good posting Amber....I don't think I've been slammed for anything but I have also read some pretty harsh responses to "help" questions by people who immediately "yell" at them for the situation they're in, rather than giving any advice on what they asked for!
And the "don't like it don't read it" saying should maybe go to the ones who want to bash a subject they are posting their "opinion" to - if THEY don't like what that person is asking and don't have a suggestion for her/him, don't read/post!

Not sure if this will improve, but I respect your touching on this subject...

dobiedude · 03-07-2007, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by RLC12345678

I agree with you. I'm not one of those people who responds this way. I'm just telling you, no matter how many threads like this are started, these people are not going to go away. Just put on your big girl panties (or big boy boxers/briefs/whitey tighties) and deal with it/ignore it. It's just they way these people are...it's their personality...people don't change.

Yup I agree too. You will always have those. But Amber brought this to the front of everybody's mind and it may help next time one of us read something and think to ourself geeeeeeeeeez what a dummy or something like that and maybe when we think of this we will stop before we type something that would come across as bashing. Thats all my point is.
But yes you are correct sometimes we just need to cow(boy) (girl) up and move on.

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Amber_lv Peeka Boo I See You! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Salt Lake Posts: 7,161 Blog Entries: 3	Well i guess it was just wishful thinking that mabey when they read this post that they will be more aware of how they say things. I know not everyone is going to agree on any topic trust me i am a very confrontational person and i do get that people like to see a rise but i really bums me out that we all just except that behavior here. __________________ Peeka-Boo-Daisy-Designs <---Click Here Peeka's MyspaceDaisy's Myspace Peeka's Dogster

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LoveMyGirlz Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Bay Area, California Posts: 1,908	Good posting Amber....I don't think I've been slammed for anything but I have also read some pretty harsh responses to "help" questions by people who immediately "yell" at them for the situation they're in, rather than giving any advice on what they asked for! And the "don't like it don't read it" saying should maybe go to the ones who want to bash a subject they are posting their "opinion" to - if THEY don't like what that person is asking and don't have a suggestion for her/him, don't read/post! Not sure if this will improve, but I respect your touching on this subject... __________________ God Bless our troops R.I.P. Sweet Lexxi Girl - you were taken too soon, we love you always Vixxen ,Truffles , Gemma Lexxi and their mommy Trina- Girls Rule!