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SweetUp&Down · 02-10-2007, 04:45 AM

i decided that i dont want to be with you anymore

Sent from my boyfriend now x i guess that I've
been with for three & a half years. A couple
of months ago we were looking for a house
we didnt find one we liked so we settled
for an apartment

That we both were suppose to move
into next week Tuesday

"Sigh"

Brutus'mama · 02-10-2007, 04:49 AM

WOW that was cruel! I'm so sorry about this.

chachi · 02-10-2007, 04:52 AM

I think that is a very cowardly way of telling you

Saleswman · 02-10-2007, 04:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetUp&Down

i decided that i dont want to be with you anymore

Sent from my boyfriend now x i guess that I've
been with for three & a half years. A couple
of months ago we were looking for a house
we didnt find one we liked so we settled
for an apartment

That we both were suppose to move
into next week Tuesday

"Sigh"

WHAT A SNAKE!!!!!!!!!

WHAT A JERK........That is so low.......and WEAK!!!!!

I cannot believe he sent you a text message......I am boiling mad.....I wish I were your Mother......l would send him a nice message back.....whew.....I just cannot believe he is so heartless.......

Go on......stay busy.....be greatful that he will NOT be in your life.....you definately deserve better.......

Just hang out with us here....you will get thru this just fine honey......

Saleswman · 02-10-2007, 04:59 AM

Sorry....guess this is why I don't have girls.......I would have to strangle the boyfriends.....

I wish I could find other "exclamation pics" to exhibit what I mean...the smiles are just way to nice for my thoughts right now....

Patti · 02-10-2007, 05:01 AM

That is so cowardly!!! I guarantee he will come crawling back one day and you will be so over him and moved on to a much better place. I know right now you are hurting but better now then when you buy a house, or worse have kids and he decides to be a jerk. Similar thing happened to my dtr 2 years ago after 3 1/2 years and I had just taken them both to Vegas for a vacation on me, treated him like a son and it broke my heart to see my dtr so devastated, but she know sees it wasn't right and has got on with her life. So sorry this happened to you, he doesn't deserve you!

OLIVIA_KARHIS · 02-10-2007, 05:02 AM

wow, I am really sorry that he didnt have "the you know what" to atleast tell you face to face and at lest let you ask why, after 3yrs (?).

I am really sorry this happened.

Saleswman · 02-10-2007, 05:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Patti

That is so cowardly!!! I guarantee he will come crawling back one day and you will be so over him and moved on to a much better place. I know right now you are hurting but better now then when you buy a house, or worse have kids and he decides to be a jerk. Similar thing happened to my dtr 2 years ago after 3 1/2 years and I had just taken them both to Vegas for a vacation on me, treated him like a son and it broke my heart to see my dtr so devastated, but she know sees it wasn't right and has got on with her life. So sorry this happened to you, he doesn't deserve you!

Your just a nice person.....and a nice thing to say to sweet young lady......

We can all help her get thru this

FlDebra · 02-10-2007, 05:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SweetUp&Down

i decided that i dont want to be with you anymore

Sent from my boyfriend now x i guess that I've
been with for three & a half years. A couple
of months ago we were looking for a house
we didnt find one we liked so we settled
for an apartment

That we both were suppose to move
into next week Tuesday

"Sigh"

WOW -- That was cold! I would be hurt but not want to show it. I would text back.... "Just got your msg, what a relief, me neither.

" How long til you get your Shorkie? Maybe that will be just the ticket to get through this.

red98vett · 02-10-2007, 05:19 AM

wow....in the words of the caveman commercial ....Someone woke up on the wrong side of the rock

DENISE517 · 02-10-2007, 05:23 AM

You should text him back and say... I decided after your text, how big of a jerk you are and I dont want to be with you either. ps....I'll be enjoying that new apt.

lol

That is so terrible. Thats something kids would do in Middle school. What a butthead!! (putting it mildly) lol

Men can be real jerks. I don't think most of them ever grow up in one way or another. You just have to find the one who is the least jerkish..lol (that's not even a word) lol

I've been married for almost 15 years and there are days I love him to death, then there are days that I just like him, then there are days I just don't want to be around him...lol Overall he is a pretty good guy, but can still be jerkish at times.

Good Luck in it all. I know when me and my hubby were first engaged. We put a down payment on a house and was going to buy it....a week later, he said he couldnt do it and called it off. I cried my eyes out ignored him for a week and then he came back and said he loved me more than anything, he was just going through something weird that men go thru???? (go figure) and that when he was away from me that week he realized how he didn't want to live without me. Sometimes I think the huge comment thing scares them, then they realize how stupid they are and how good we are for them.

Hope it all works out for you!!

SBeckett668 · 02-10-2007, 05:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FlDebra

WOW -- That was cold! I would be hurt but not want to show it. I would text back.... "Just got your msg, what a relief, me neither.

" How long til you get your Shorkie? Maybe that will be just the ticket to get through this.

LOVE IT - Now THAT would settle him down! Even if you don't mean it.

It'll be okay...I know it doesn't seem like it now and it probably won't in a week either....but give it time. There's someone better for you - this is God's way of showing you that.

Chin up...

marcerella02 · 02-10-2007, 05:52 AM

oh bella.... i feel for you... been there.... still feeling it.... maybe he was just drunk.... or maybe it wasn't him that wrote that.... i'd find out what is up before assuming...

LunasMomma · 02-10-2007, 05:52 AM

This was my breakup ritual when I was young and single

Go buy a pint of Haagen-Dasz, insert spoon, and watch sappy comedies all day. Cry a LOT

I would only allow myself one day of wallowing in self-pity,then I got on with it and decided that I was better off without them

The next day, I did not allow one tear or even one thought of the thoughtless jerk!

Just a little tip from an older lady that's been there, done that. I know it hurts, and I'm so sorry! What a weenie to break up with you by text message, ugh! There's someone out there that actually DESERVES you girl, so now he's freed you up so you can find him

Hang in there!~

Smoochie · 02-10-2007, 05:54 AM

Well said! You deserve the best only.

02-10-2007, 04:45 AM	#1
SweetUp&Down Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: NJ Posts: 41	7am Text Message i decided that i dont want to be with you anymore Sent from my boyfriend now x i guess that I've been with for three & a half years. A couple of months ago we were looking for a house we didnt find one we liked so we settled for an apartment That we both were suppose to move into next week Tuesday "Sigh" __________________ Waiting Patiently For My Shorkie

02-10-2007, 04:49 AM	#2
Brutus'mama YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: NJ Posts: 1,767	WOW that was cruel! I'm so sorry about this. __________________ ~Carolyn~ Brutus' Video Montage

02-10-2007, 04:52 AM	#3
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I think that is a very cowardly way of telling you __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

02-10-2007, 04:59 AM	#5
Saleswman Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 1,643	Let me at him...let me at him..... Sorry....guess this is why I don't have girls.......I would have to strangle the boyfriends..... I wish I could find other "exclamation pics" to exhibit what I mean...the smiles are just way to nice for my thoughts right now....

02-10-2007, 05:01 AM	#6
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	That is so cowardly!!! I guarantee he will come crawling back one day and you will be so over him and moved on to a much better place. I know right now you are hurting but better now then when you buy a house, or worse have kids and he decides to be a jerk. Similar thing happened to my dtr 2 years ago after 3 1/2 years and I had just taken them both to Vegas for a vacation on me, treated him like a son and it broke my heart to see my dtr so devastated, but she know sees it wasn't right and has got on with her life. So sorry this happened to you, he doesn't deserve you! __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

02-10-2007, 05:02 AM	#7
OLIVIA_KARHIS Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: GERMANY Posts: 1,544	wow, I am really sorry that he didnt have "the you know what" to atleast tell you face to face and at lest let you ask why, after 3yrs (?). I am really sorry this happened. __________________ Bunny &Bella Supporting The Troops

02-10-2007, 05:19 AM	#10
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	wow....in the words of the caveman commercial ....Someone woke up on the wrong side of the rock __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

02-10-2007, 05:23 AM	#11
DENISE517 No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 4,449	You should text him back and say... I decided after your text, how big of a jerk you are and I dont want to be with you either. ps....I'll be enjoying that new apt. lol That is so terrible. Thats something kids would do in Middle school. What a butthead!! (putting it mildly) lol Men can be real jerks. I don't think most of them ever grow up in one way or another. You just have to find the one who is the least jerkish..lol (that's not even a word) lol I've been married for almost 15 years and there are days I love him to death, then there are days that I just like him, then there are days I just don't want to be around him...lol Overall he is a pretty good guy, but can still be jerkish at times. Good Luck in it all. I know when me and my hubby were first engaged. We put a down payment on a house and was going to buy it....a week later, he said he couldnt do it and called it off. I cried my eyes out ignored him for a week and then he came back and said he loved me more than anything, he was just going through something weird that men go thru???? (go figure) and that when he was away from me that week he realized how he didn't want to live without me. Sometimes I think the huge comment thing scares them, then they realize how stupid they are and how good we are for them. Hope it all works out for you!!

02-10-2007, 05:52 AM	#13
marcerella02 Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada Posts: 11,257	oh bella.... i feel for you... been there.... still feeling it.... maybe he was just drunk.... or maybe it wasn't him that wrote that.... i'd find out what is up before assuming... __________________ http://misscanam.blogspot.com/ Layla 's Simon

02-10-2007, 05:52 AM	#14
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 8,799	This was my breakup ritual when I was young and single Go buy a pint of Haagen-Dasz, insert spoon, and watch sappy comedies all day. Cry a LOT I would only allow myself one day of wallowing in self-pity,then I got on with it and decided that I was better off without them The next day, I did not allow one tear or even one thought of the thoughtless jerk! Just a little tip from an older lady that's been there, done that. I know it hurts, and I'm so sorry! What a weenie to break up with you by text message, ugh! There's someone out there that actually DESERVES you girl, so now he's freed you up so you can find him Hang in there!~ __________________ Tracy, Mom to Izzy and Luna

02-10-2007, 05:54 AM	#15
Smoochie YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 322	Well said! You deserve the best only. __________________ Smoochie Smooches ~ FAITH PLUS GOD= MIRACLES~and that makes my heart smile.