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10-02-2006, 08:27 AM | #1 |
Out to Spoil the World! Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Palm Springs, California
Posts: 2,709
| Please no more mention of my personal life I have made a grave mistake.... I took for granted that this was a safe place where I could talk and share with my friends..... I was wrong. This is a public fourm where ANYONE can come and read out thoughts and posts! My stepson, being the mature and very intellegent young man that he is, has got Googling down to a science and had learned things about both me and his father that we were not ready to tell him. Nor did we want him learning over the computer while sitting at home in his room along with nobody to talk to about it all as he read, he learned about the recent issues we have been expearincing! Thats alot for a child of 14 to take in all at once! I am sure that this means that his mother has learned this information as well, and if you know which info to which I am refering, you can only imagian what this means for an already strained situation. Long story short, after a conversation with my stepson last night, he made it pretty clear that he does not want to be a part of our family and that I should just focus on my own kids and forget about him.... Which is not something I can do... I can't forget my husband has a child. So I have decided to leave my husband so he can be free to raise his son and focuse on him... and I can start over... I can't spend my life as that square peg in a city full of nothing but round holes! Life will be very turbulant for me for a while so don't expect to see a who lot of me on here startiing in a couple weeks.... It should take me that long to clear things up here and be out. If you have QUESTIONS, or RESOPNSES of a PERSONAL NATURE, please PM or Email me at PURESAFEBOSTCARE@AOL.COM I would love to keep you all as friends... I just can't do it where they can read every word of it...... Lisa, The ex-wife, thinks so poorly of me already.... I don't want to fuel that fire, not that it will matter much longer, but I'd like to end this with my head held high if I can. I still think I have been a good person over the years. And I will continue to be... i'm not the monster that I've been made out to be.... Hell guys, had I wanted to steal someones husband.... I would have done my research!!!!! I would have picked a richer man without kids and less emotional baggage.... oh... And maybe older too! ha! Then I would fit the monster mold! But I did not search this situation out... it found me.... Anyway.... hold your tongues... as hard as that is for us YT Guys and Gals!!!! So wish me well, be generic, but nothing personal please!!!! Thank you all so much!!!!! Kathryn Kathryn
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10-02-2006, 08:47 AM | #2 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Knoxville, TN
Posts: 299
| All the best to you I'm bumping so everyone will read this!!!
__________________ Amy Lou - Lily & Elvis too Lily's page: http://www.dogster.com/?411879 Elvis' page: http://www.dogster.com/?411982 |
10-02-2006, 08:47 AM | #3 |
Tinkerbell, My Little Flutterpup Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Beautiful California!
Posts: 6,112
| Kathryn, I just wanted to wish you well in your decisions. And to also let you know that Gizmo is doing really well here... |
10-02-2006, 08:54 AM | #4 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: California
Posts: 5,368
| kathryn, hold our tongue huh? OK ,OK. I wish you and your daughter the best. Your personal email is wrong, atleast I think it is. |
10-02-2006, 08:57 AM | #5 |
Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX
Posts: 4,596
| Happy thoughts honey. I tried to email you but it bounced back. I sent you a PM.
__________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy |
10-02-2006, 09:02 AM | #6 |
Tinkerbell, My Little Flutterpup Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Beautiful California!
Posts: 6,112
| I think her email is PURESAFEBODYCARE |
10-02-2006, 09:08 AM | #7 |
and Ty too! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Denver, Nope, not Colorado
Posts: 1,235
| Nothing but well wishes... You will be missed! |
10-02-2006, 09:09 AM | #8 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: none
Posts: 1,495
| I am so sorry about everything you are going through. I do know that you said that you recently moved and lots of your friends are on YT. Is it possible for you to just create a new, annonymous account? YT is a great support group and we will miss not hearing from you. If not, is it possible for you to move back to where all of your friends were? I wish you and your aunt the best. Please try not to worry too much about what other people think of you. It's not your fault you were sick and medicated when you were typing a lot of that stuff up. I can tell you've gotten much better. I understand what you mean about privacy though. I got mad at my sister when she looked on here and found stuff out. When it rains, it pours, so things can only get better from here. Please try to be optomistic about the future. We'll always be thinking of you here at YT. PS- Is it possible for any of the YT administrators to wipe out all of the threads and posts under her account If she wants to? |
10-02-2006, 09:26 AM | #9 |
Jojo's & Junior's too! Donating YT Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Watsonville, CA
Posts: 1,379
| Best wishes to you! Take good care.
__________________ Josie, Jojo, Junior & Veronica **...No Home is Complete Without a Yorkie...or Two...better make that 3!..** |
10-02-2006, 09:38 AM | #10 |
Princess Bella Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: virginia
Posts: 2,186
| I wish you the best in everything you do!
__________________ I miss you two more then words can express, but I still have hope that I'll find you and hold you again! Tucker and Teddy always say: "If I want it, it's mine and if I put it in my mouth, it's food." |
10-02-2006, 09:50 AM | #11 |
I heart Sugar Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Florida
Posts: 7,373
| I really hated to read this. You are being put to the test left and right- it just doesn't seem fair. If you decide to start a new anonymous account, please PM me your username. There is nothing worse than having your privacy violated! Stay strong girl! Sending you hugs!
__________________ "If you have men who will exclude any of God’s creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow men." — St. Francis of Assisi, 1181-1226 |
10-02-2006, 10:03 AM | #12 |
Donating YT 8000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Spokane, WA
Posts: 9,339
| HI Kat, this must have been one of the hardest decisions you've had to make. If you ever need to talk, I am a good listener! My family sends lots of huggies during these troubled times . . . |
10-02-2006, 10:04 AM | #13 |
Crazy about Kacee! Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kansas
Posts: 21,173
| Ah, gee! I'm really going to miss you around here. Think lots of you!
__________________ Karen Kacee Muffin 1991-2005 Rest in Peace My Little Angel |
10-02-2006, 10:12 AM | #14 |
Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member | Kathryn - you're a good person - I hope things work out and that people in your life stand by you - I know I'll miss you alot - you're always cheerful and have been someone I've gotten really fond of - ALL THE BEST TO YOU AND Don't lose touch please !! |
10-02-2006, 10:12 AM | #15 |
YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Alabama
Posts: 2,225
| i hope everything gets better for you asap ! good luck!
__________________ A pet's love is true right from the start, through good times and bad, like sharing one heart. |
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