I have made a grave mistake.... I took for granted that this was a safe place where I could talk and share with my friends..... I was wrong. This is a public fourm where ANYONE can come and read out thoughts and posts!
My stepson, being the mature and very intellegent young man that he is, has got Googling down to a science and had learned things about both me and his father that we were not ready to tell him. Nor did we want him learning over the computer while sitting at home in his room along with nobody to talk to about it all as he read, he learned about the recent issues we have been expearincing!
Thats alot for a child of 14 to take in all at once!
I am sure that this means that his mother has learned this information as well, and if you know which info to which I am refering, you can only imagian what this means for an already strained situation.
Long story short, after a conversation with my stepson last night, he made it pretty clear that he does not want to be a part of our family and that I should just focus on my own kids and forget about him.... Which is not something I can do... I can't forget my husband has a child. So I have decided to leave my husband so he can be free to raise his son and focuse on him... and I can start over... I can't spend my life as that square peg in a city full of nothing but round holes! Life will be very turbulant for me for a while so don't expect to see a who lot of me on here startiing in a couple weeks.... It should take me that long to clear things up here and be out.
If you have QUESTIONS, or RESOPNSES of a PERSONAL NATURE, please PM or Email me at
PURESAFEBOSTCARE@AOL.COM I would love to keep you all as friends... I just can't do it where they can read every word of it......
Lisa, The ex-wife, thinks so poorly of me already.... I don't want to fuel that fire, not that it will matter much longer, but I'd like to end this with my head held high if I can. I still think I have been a good person over the years. And I will continue to be... i'm not the monster that I've been made out to be.... Hell guys, had I wanted to steal someones husband.... I would have done my research!!!!! I would have picked a richer man without kids and less emotional baggage.... oh... And maybe older too! ha! Then I would fit the monster mold! But I did not search this situation out... it found me.... Anyway.... hold your tongues... as hard as that is for us YT Guys and Gals!!!!
So wish me well, be generic, but nothing personal please!!!!
Thank you all so much!!!!!
Kathryn
Kathryn