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I know. well She has a chemical imbalance which caused her to be mentally, physically and emotionally abusive. so that is why I decide to not have contact with her. without her I wouldn't be here but I think it was for the better that my daddy took my baby brother and I away from her.(my baby brother is now 22 but I call him that because I practically raised him and I couldn't live without him, literally.)
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man I'm ferocious. the first thing I thought of was BI*&^ slapping her when no one is looking. LOL give her a real reason to be mad. I'm not really a mean or hurtful person but I can't stand people like her. Because of what I went through I get po'd at people for slapping their kids in public. I'll even yell at them. I've even been asked "do you have kids? then you can't talk" I just don't have a tolerance for rude ignorant people.
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When I 1st met this woman, I tried everything in my power to be nice to her! I even gave her flowers on mothers day! when she had her 1st son, I gave them a gift! I did everything to show her she had no reason to be threatened by me, but it didnt do any good, she hates me cause I had him 1st!! | |
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and you're probably prettier then she is. Plus you had his kids first and it sounds like she always has to be number one or at least the center of attention. she sounds really immature. LOL I'd tell her to grow up!!!
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YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: none
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| ![]() I think it's a beautiful thing that your daughter is so close to her stepfather. I would be so happy that she has a REAL father figure in her life. To her he must be more of a father than her biological father. I really think it's awesome when a man can take in another child as his own. Your daughter must have real respect for this man and in a way this is HER way of showing it. It seems like something she has seriously thought over and wants to do. In a way it seems like this is the highest honor she feels like she can give back to him. She seems really happy that he's in her life. If this is what she wants and esspecially since her biological father says it's okay I would make it between her and the stepfather. Your family is very lucky, it usually doesn't work out that way. It sounds like the stepfather is a fine man and has earned your daughters love and respect. |
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| ![]() Growing up I was in a similar situation. My "biodad" left us when I was less than a year old. From that time until I was about 12 I had to see him everyother weekend, half of my school vacations, and half of the summer. I hated it! He was never home to spend time with me, he always thought it was fine because I'd be over there spending time with my sisters. Well when I was 12 he told me I could start to decide when I would go visit him. Well, I never went... he called me a year later to inform me that he had already moved across the country. (Thanks dad...) I saw him for a week when I was 16 and I had realized that we had NO relationship what so ever. About 6 months before I turned 18, I spoke to my mom about having my step dad legally adopt me. (He married my mom when I was 6, he IS and has ALWAYS been my dad.) So we took the legal steps for the adoption and name change. Unlike your ex, my biodad wasn't going to have it. They tired to come up with every reason in the book why I shouldn't do it. (I'm too young, my parent's were brainwashing me, I need to be out on my own for a while to make my own decisions, etc.) But the judge didn't care. He saw that my relationship with my step dad was the type of relationship a father/daughter should have. So he approved it. I think that if your daughter feels closer to her step dad, let her do it. Honestly, it really didn't change my life that much. But in a way it was my way of thanking my stepdad for all that he has done for me. It has been about 8 years since I made the decision, and I don't regret it at all. SORRY that this ended up so long, I hope it helps. ![]()
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| ![]() i can totally relate to your daughter's situation. My parents divorced when I was 4 and my "real" father never gave a crap about me. His birthday is the day before mine so it was impossible for him to forget, yet I never received a card or a call. He is an alcoholic and a very dysfuncional person which is why my mom left him. I kept his last name but felt no connection to it. When I recently got married, everyone asked me if i was going to hyphenate my name and add my husband's to mine. Absolutely NOT!! I have taken my husband's name fully and now i have a name to be proud of. If this is something your daughter really wants to do, then I would support her decision. the only thing that upsets me is that by doing so, you would be letting that deadbeat dad off the hook too easily instead of forcing him to be a man and take care of his children.
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