I think it's a beautiful thing that your daughter is so close to her stepfather. I would be so happy that she has a REAL father figure in her life. To her he must be more of a father than her biological father. I really think it's awesome when a man can take in another child as his own.
Your daughter must have real respect for this man and in a way this is HER way of showing it. It seems like something she has seriously thought over and wants to do. In a way it seems like this is the highest honor she feels like she can give back to him. She seems really happy that he's in her life. If this is what she wants and esspecially since her biological father says it's okay I would make it between her and the stepfather. Your family is very lucky, it usually doesn't work out that way. It sounds like the stepfather is a fine man and has earned your daughters love and respect. |