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05-15-2006, 06:14 AM | #1 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Broken Arrow, OK
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| I'm getting married June 3rd Just felt like sharing! We will be leaving May 24th for Puerto Rico ( thats where the wedding will be ) and returning June 14th. Long vacation yeah I know but that includes the honeymoon were gonna take a cruise to the southern caribbean and go scuba diving. He's in the Air Force National Guard ( specializes in the avionics for the F16's) I'm a commercial pilot in training ( I have my private pilot license to be exact) hoping to fly corporate someday ( the major airlines is not for me) He's from Puerto Rico and I'm from California both living in our hometowns till we moved away for college in Tulsa, Oklahoma where we meet and fell in love and continue too for the past 3 and 1/2 years. So here we are living in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma with all his family in Puerto Rico and mine in California I'm 22 and he's 23 So ladies any advice you can give me This is both our first marriage and I pray our last. The first and second pic is in December visiting Puerto Rico
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05-15-2006, 06:17 AM | #2 |
Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member | SWEET ! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding - the only advise I can offer is always LISTEN to each other - really listen. I love that you're a commercial pilot in training - all the best to you - I used to work a Flight School and now how many hours go into what you're doing and I wish you all the best - doors are open for women now in that field and I'd love to see MORE female pilots. Corporate is the way to go - there are SO MANY Charters now and you'll stay very busy and make great money....but I BET eventually you may think about Commercial flying. |
05-15-2006, 06:25 AM | #3 |
BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED | my advise is always be open and honest and keep the communication open. Don't let the marriage get dull, keep it spiced up. I love when my husband leaves me little notes around the house. And there is such a thing as "Just Because" I wish you the best of luck and enjoy your wedding day! Takes lots and lots of pictures! |
05-15-2006, 06:56 AM | #4 |
Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2006 Location: Charlotte, NC
Posts: 12
| Congrats!!! Hi! Congratulations on your upcomming wedding!! The only advice I have is to BE PATIENT. Marriage is HARD work. I think next to being a parent, its the hardest thing you'll ever do. Hold onto yourself...He fell in love with you the way you are now...that doesn't have to change, and always keep an open line of communication! I would have to say thats the biggest thing. If you can talk about anything you can get through anything. Try not to involve alot of outside people, your complaining to them affects their opinions of your spouse...their negativity can have an indirect effect on you. WHEW!!! That was more than I intended to write! Good luck, Have fun and enjoy your time!!! |
05-15-2006, 07:09 AM | #5 |
Lovin' the Cali kisses! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Lawrenceville, Georgia
Posts: 2,990
| Aww, CONGRATS!! Have a wonderful time as I am sure tha you will
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05-15-2006, 07:19 AM | #6 |
YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Hartsville, SC
Posts: 263
| YAY!! That's my 1 year anniversary! June 3rd is great day I'm sure you will be so happy. My hubby's grandmother told us never to go to bed angry or at least kiss eachother and say i love you before going to sleep. Just that alone keeps me from waking up mad in the morning. You're a cute couple and I'm sure you'll make a beautiful bride!! |
05-15-2006, 07:38 AM | #7 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | You make a beautiful couple! The only advice I have is it takes work to make a marriage last so don't run from hard times work through them together.
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05-15-2006, 07:46 AM | #8 |
Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: NYC
Posts: 605
| Yeah! Lot's of great advice here. My hubby and I have been together for 9 years and married for 6..... we act like newlyweds for some reason still! Your wedding will be beautiful and you both make a beautiful couple! |
05-15-2006, 09:16 AM | #9 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member | Awww, congratulations. My advice....speak softly and carry a big stick. Ok, not really, but keep one handy. Marriage means compromise....compromise even when you don't want to and remember don't sweat the small stuff. Best of luck to you both.
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05-15-2006, 09:26 AM | #10 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Central NY state
Posts: 1,741
| Congratulations... you guys make a great-looking couple! I'm not married, but have been with my bf for almost 4 years, and we've lived together for a year now. I would say talk, talk, talk. Don't let things build up inside you. Express your needs and expectations and let him do the same. Also, your daily lives together can become mundane... don't forget to make him feel special at least once a day... I always try to tell my bf that he looks handsome all dressed up for work, let him know how appreciative I am when he cleans the house, etc. Good luck, and I can't wait to see wedding and honeymoon photos! |
05-15-2006, 10:56 AM | #11 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Space City
Posts: 2,079
| Respect, good communication, patience and before you have kids make sure you guys spend a lot of time together.
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05-15-2006, 11:04 AM | #12 |
Yorkies Rock My World! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Carolina
Posts: 4,721
| All of the above! And MORE!! Keep your sense of humor! Never go to sleep angry! Say I love you" at least once a day, but NEVER let it sound routine! Don't assume he is a mind reader: men do NOT think like we do. You need to tell him what you are thinking. Be his best friend, and make him yours! But DON'T give up your girlfriends, your hobbies, or your interests for him. That just leads to resentment eventually. Touch daily, hug often. Spend quality time together. Make time to be together, even when you are extremely busy. Love each other, respect each other, care about each other, but DON'T fuss! If you do argue or fight, don't hesitate to say I'm sorry if you really are. Gosh, I could go on!!! Have a happy life together!
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05-15-2006, 11:04 AM | #13 | |
Luvs Lulu Donating Member | Congrats!! Quote:
Hubby and I have been together for 14 years and married 7. Congrats!!! The best advice I can give you is to always be honest, respect each other and do not try to be each other's parent. That has always worked for DH and I...and most important keep the lines of communication open and love one another. Never forget that you should have some interest and friends apart from each other so there is lots to share at night. You will become one but there still needs to be that sense of individuality there so you can bring more to the table. Good Luck!!!
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05-15-2006, 01:05 PM | #14 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Seattle
Posts: 161
| Congratulations! I am so excited for you! I hope to be having a wedding next year! So I don't have any marriage advice. Just anjoy it all!
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05-15-2006, 01:12 PM | #15 |
YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: California
Posts: 459
| Great advice you're getting! I'm not married either but one thing I have noticed in all the "successful" couples around me is that they take time apart from one another. They'd take individual trips/vacations with their own friends. This gives the other person (and yourself) to miss you. When you're back, not only you're refreshed from the vacation but your relationship is "renewed" as well. Congradulations! |
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