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05-07-2006, 09:42 PM | #1 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Saskatchewan
Posts: 3,154
| Is it so hard... for a guy to just say the relationship is OVER? I was seeing a guy earlier this year and he ended up moving an hour away when his course was done here. He told me he would visit me on weekends, that he wasn't going to give me up just because he was leaving. Well, we did see each other. And he called me all the time. I even started to think it's not working out and decide I'm not going to let my feelings for him grow and I wouldn't call him anymore, but then he would call and I would change my mind. I ended up falling for him hard. I am usually so guarded, but I let it all go this time. Last week we ended up talking on msn one night right before I was going to call him, but he said he wasn't at home and I should call him later, or he would call me. Well, he didn't call me. When I called he didn't answer his phone. I tried again last week and he didn't answer his phone. Today I saw him online on msn and I said "i see you're not answering your phone anymore" and he made up some story about how he was working out of town all week and he left his cell in another city at his friend's house last weekend. So I said "why did you say you would call me then?" and he said he ended up going out that night. Well, I know the city he said he was working in, and there's NOTHING to do there. So I asked him about it and he was like "oh well i dunno, the last two weeks have run together for me" Then he changed the subject and talked about happy stuff and it cheered me up a little, and then he said he would call me later tonight. I didn't want to expect a call but I couldn't help being hopeful. Big surprise, no phone call. I feel SO used. Like it was never his intention to actually have a relationship with me. It's just like me to give him the benefit of a doubt and it makes me look so pathetic. I've forgiven him for too many things, and I've let him lie to me too many times. Sorry guys, I've been venting a lot here lately. But I gotta say, it always makes me feel better.
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05-07-2006, 10:44 PM | #2 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: manchester, england
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| Thats not a nice thing for him to do, but sadly many people dont have the guts to sort things out. I know you will be upset right now, but do you want to have a relationship with someone so secretive? I had to kiss many frogs before i found my prince, not many people are lucky to find someone special quickly. He doesnt sound like the right one for you. |
05-08-2006, 01:25 AM | #3 |
My2Pearls Chelsey & Chanel YT Donator Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: N
Posts: 4,097
| Hmm.... girl, dont allow him to play with your feelings! He is not worth your love and time... don't waste your time on him. The right guy is out there and waiting for you, don't go looking for love, it will come at the right time, usually when you least expect it to happen. You will feel when it's right Ignore this guy, delete him from your msn and lose his phone number, and move on, i know it's easy for me to say, but i just hate to see ladies getting treated like crap by any man! Ask yourself this, is it worth getting hurt This guy is making too many excuses and to lie to you??!! NO NO NO... you are too good for him! He covers his a$$ with a lie, just shows you what kind of person he really is, and everytime he lies, you get hurt. Don't do this to yoursefl! Good luck, we are here for you.
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05-08-2006, 09:26 AM | #4 |
Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY
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| move on sweetie, sounds like he is no good.. your worth much more... there are plenty of fish in the sea.. go for it...i know it seems hard right now, just forget about him...if he cared he would of called no matter what.. there is light at the end of the tunnel.. believe me, been there, done that, its so hard, keep your head up, we are here for you...i thought i would never ever meet another guy again and bam it happend to me when i least expected it.... it will also happen to you...forget about him...you can do much better.
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05-08-2006, 10:05 AM | #5 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Saskatchewan
Posts: 3,154
| Thanks everyone. I wish it were easy to forget about him but his best friend is a really good friend and classmate of mine, so I can't even go a day without hearing about him. Today he was sitting beside me and he talked about the guy with another friend of mine and my eyes welled up a little, but now I think I'm more mad than anything. Then I took a little stroll down the hallway of electrician and carpenter apprentices, and I felt a TEENSY bit better There are other guys out there, and when I think about it, he wasn't even that cute to begin with!
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05-08-2006, 10:37 AM | #6 |
Donating YT 14K Club Member | That sucks! He should have just been up front with you and voiced his concerns. No one likes to be led on. I'm sorry that this happened to you but better now than later.
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