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BabyFidgette 03-31-2006 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Thorsmomma
No, not anyone from YT! I am feeling totally stressed out right now and I just want to kill my boyfriend. I hate him. I am so sick of fighting! I am so sick of listening to him whine and complain. I am so sick of having to deal with him and his problems. I am so sick of trying to pretend I care so much. The last straw, I let him borrow money a few weeks ago, and asked for it back a couple weeks afterwards and he said he he didn't have enough money. SO last night he said that he had 2 thousand dollars and I asked for my money and he said that I said that he could have it to pay him back for money he spent on "us". Now I am out that money that I was saving for my Europe trip, I worked so hard to save it. :cry: I never said that and I never asked him to spend money on me!!! My school load has me on the verdge of going insane, and I just feel like a goin crazy!!! I shouldn't complain about my life bt I am so sick and tired of dealing with all this crap! Sorry to go on, you guys are like my therapy session...Thanks :rolleyes:
I'm sorry Hannah. Let me tell you what I've learned from men...NEVER let a boyfriend borrow money. Either you never get it back, or you "hear it" every time you ask for it. It's not worth it. My cousin and I both lost money on our ex's because we let them "borrow" it and they never gave it back. I will NOT do it again. Most women feel badly and loan their men money. I'm sorry, but I don't know if you'll get it back. Look at it this way...you paid money to get rid of him...if you want to get rid of him. Listen, if you want to talk, PM me. I have a lot of hot air! LOL :p

cindy0721 03-31-2006 08:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Thorsmomma
Thanks! You are so right. And I know, I have let him treat me far worse than this. He has major baggage, and I have been so stupid with this relationship. I would never ever let any man ever treat me like what he has gotten away with. I feel so stupid but at least I now know what I want. He was my first relationship...Lord I think I have seen it all! I should have done the curb thing a long time ago but I just can't do it. Goodness I feel so stupid about him. I have been a HUGE b***h to him for a while cause its so hard to pretent that I care about our relationship when I don't. Anyways, I just want my money that took me about 2-3 weeks to save, when he earns that in a day!!!!!!!! I'm in school and I work and he only works...
I have a idea, if it were me .. .I would ..say just drop it.... cook a nice dinner and let it go.. then when he is asleep or in the shower go into his shower or hiding place(every man has a $$ stash somewhere in the house or car) and get whats yours and leave it at that.. Oh but make sure you can hide it where he can't find it & then kick him out and change your locks(just in case).... good luck whatever you decide!

Jaspermom 03-31-2006 08:15 AM
WOW!! So much great advice here!
 
Advice that is awesome and I agree with:
1. Do whatever you can to get your money back.
2. Kick him to the curb
3. Don't take this kind of crap from any man
4. Do not feel stupid!!! These are called "LIFE LESSONS"


Anytime you are challenged in this way, Hannah darling, you come out the other side a stronger, more capable person because you LEARN so much!! YOU WILL BE FINE, but you sure do need to get rid of this guy, I am sad to say. Suzie has it all right... AND DO NOT FEEL BAD!! Love is a funny beast; one day it's all wiggly and giggly, and the next day it bites you in the butt! There are way too many negatives here for you to continue wasting your precious time on a man who doesn't deserve wonderful YOU!!

HUGS, Babe! Now I REALLY CAN'T wait to see you next week!! I will give you this hug in person!!! :hug:

BabyFidgette 03-31-2006 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Thorsmomma
Thanks! You really made me laugh!! It is so true what everyone is saying, kick him to the curb. I should. I just keep thinking, I should wait until I go to Europe this summer so I don't have to worry about him showing up at my house (my parents house) and beggin to be back together or something like that. I will be gone for 2.5 months. Look at me...I am making excuses. Grrrr, I suck! Again everyone Thanks for responding, I just really need to vent I feel like I am going crazy!
If you feel like this now...think about this...would you want to put up with this s**t for the rest of your life? Heck no!! :thumbdown :mad:

BabyFidgette 03-31-2006 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted by cindy0721
I have a idea, if it were me .. .I would ..say just drop it.... cook a nice dinner and let it go.. then when he is asleep or in the shower go into his shower or hiding place(every man has a $$ stash somewhere in the house or car) and get whats yours and leave it at that.. Oh but make sure you can hide it where he can't find it & then kick him out and change your locks(just in case).... good luck whatever you decide!
O crap, that's great! LOL :thumbup:

BamaFan121s 03-31-2006 08:18 AM
I sympathize with you. Times like those are no fun :( :thumbdown

Just take deep breaths and repeat to yourself, "Homocide is still a felony. Homocide is still a felony..."

Rockster's Mom 03-31-2006 08:19 AM
I am so sorry that you are going threw this, but we all have been there, done that, and have the T-shirts to prove it. You should kick him to curb ASAP and stop wasting you time and energy on this guy. Life is to short to be dealing with a jerk like that. If you're worried that he will show up at your front door step begging and crying well there is little thing called 911 and they will give him pretty silver bracelets to wear. You are wonderful person and beautiful lady, and you deserve someone that is going to take care you and spoil you rotten with any compliants or conditions. Good Luck and Rocky sends lots of puppy hugs and kisses!!!!

BamaFan121s 03-31-2006 08:23 AM
Ha ha...T-shirts...that reminds me of something funny. My sister dated a real loser of a guy for almost 3 years...he was OK at first, but as they "grew up" he "grew" into an idiot. We finally knew she had moved on when she appeared wearing 2 hilarious shirts: One just said "Have you dumped your boyfriend today?" on the front. The other one said, "I'm not with stupid anymore," and she had his old football number screen printed on the back of it.

Maybe you could get one of these and he would take the hint to straiten his act out? :)

mustangbee 03-31-2006 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Thorsmomma
No, not anyone from YT! I am feeling totally stressed out right now and I just want to kill my boyfriend. I hate him. I am so sick of fighting! I am so sick of listening to him whine and complain. I am so sick of having to deal with him and his problems. I am so sick of trying to pretend I care so much. The last straw, I let him borrow money a few weeks ago, and asked for it back a couple weeks afterwards and he said he he didn't have enough money. SO last night he said that he had 2 thousand dollars and I asked for my money and he said that I said that he could have it to pay him back for money he spent on "us". Now I am out that money that I was saving for my Europe trip, I worked so hard to save it. :cry: I never said that and I never asked him to spend money on me!!! My school load has me on the verdge of going insane, and I just feel like a goin crazy!!! I shouldn't complain about my life bt I am so sick and tired of dealing with all this crap! Sorry to go on, you guys are like my therapy session...Thanks :rolleyes:
Boy, I'm really sorry to hear you feel stuck, because you're not.
Stand up for yourself! Tell him you want your money back.
If he says no, out the door he goes. It's so sad that a girl would
let a guy get away with this, it's not just you, it happenes everyday!!!
Only it never gets better it always gets worse. They will make
you feel great, until they get what they want, then they leave you feeling like crap. If he's not the Man of your dreams, and it sounds to me he's not,
then it's time for you to stand up and move on. Money really isn't the problem, your hurt feelings are. He's not going to pay you back, OK get over that, but now work on your heart. Is this the man of your dreams, the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, have children with?
Hmmmmmm When you go to Europe, relax, take time for you. Before you go, sit your parents down and let them know it's over, and you would like their support on this.
There is a nice Prince out there for every Princess, your first one was just a frog, now send him back to the lake, and start living again, so YOU will be happy. Best of luck to you! :2hearts2:

bchgirl 03-31-2006 08:34 AM
My advice....don't loan anyone money you can't afford to give away. I have in laws that owe us thousands. So now we're the a--holes for asking/expecting it to be returned when we could've started out as a--holes for not loaning to them in the first place...but we wouldn't be out any $.

I'd dump your boyfriend but not because of the money issue....because he makes you miserable. Consider the money tuition to the school of hard knocks...

Rockster's Mom 03-31-2006 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s
Ha ha...T-shirts...that reminds me of something funny. My sister dated a real loser of a guy for almost 3 years...he was OK at first, but as they "grew up" he "grew" into an idiot. We finally knew she had moved on when she appeared wearing 2 hilarious shirts: One just said "Have you dumped your boyfriend today?" on the front. The other one said, "I'm not with stupid anymore," and she had his old football number screen printed on the back of it.

Maybe you could get one of these and he would take the hint to straiten his act out? :)
:lol tears That is as funny as the time my friend sent her ex a singing telegram to his office to break up with him. I was so proud of her for that because he deserved the embrassment after what he put you threw (stole money, sold jewerly, and cheated on her with her BFF at the time).

Thorsmomma 03-31-2006 08:40 AM
WOW! Everyone has such great stories to share, and they make for some laughs and thats totally what I need right now. The general consenses is, get rid of him and I know that. I really know that. No I don't want him to have my babies, NO I don't want to marry him, No I really don't love him anymore but I do care about him a lot. AND my mom cried and cried when I got back with him after I dumped his ass once. So I promised her I would never marry him. I would have my parents support 200%, so that's not the problem. I just wish that I could do this and it would be drama free. He is such a drama king and..ahhh. And who ever said 911 was a good number, you are right. He doesn't want to go BACK to jail AGAIN! :rolleyes: Yes, I do know how to pick my men huh? :rolleyes: Life lessons, yes, and I just know there is a purpose for all this and it will bo okay someday, it just sucks right now.

I love that I can depend on my YT friend so help me feel better. You guys are so good at it. Thanks so much!!! Really, thanks!

Jaspermom 03-31-2006 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted by mustangbee
Money really isn't the problem, your hurt feelings are. He's not going to pay you back, OK get over that, but now work on your heart. Best of luck to you! :2hearts2:
PERFECT!!!! :p

Thorsmomma 03-31-2006 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted by bchgirl
Consider the money tuition to the school of hard knocks...
Hahaha, yeah...seriously!! :)

Thorsmomma 03-31-2006 08:49 AM
You guys are seriously cracking me up!


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