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12-14-2014, 12:45 PM | #31 | |
Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator | Quote:
If you're not being acknowledged in the least, I wouldn't hesitate to stop. And like you said, you could either spend that money on some kind of charitable effort and/or just spend it on your wonderful self - buy yourself something you've been denying yourself bc it's "too much" .
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12-14-2014, 12:57 PM | #32 | |
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12-14-2014, 02:15 PM | #33 |
YT 2000 Club Donating Member | I have to say this thread makes me very sad about the future of Christmas. It is a time of giving and of loving, of reaching out to folks you mayhap only reach out to at Christmas. It is not about obligatory gifts be they Christmas cards or presents. You don't gift or send a card in expectation of a return gift, or even a thank-you. When you give from your heart, free of expectations, that is in the *true* spirit of Christmas. I fondly remember my parents who started in the beginning of November to write hand written notes to their far flung family, then purchased Christmas cards to go with their notes. They mailed out to USA and Europe, with different delivery dates, but they wanted each and every-one to receive their missive, to let these folks know, they remembered them with fondness and wish them the very best. In this day and age, I think we have gotten very lazy indeed. And we try to justify that inertia or laziness with various excuses. So take the heart of this beautifull season and give where and when you can, to those that you love.
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12-14-2014, 07:06 PM | #34 | |
2+2=4 X the Love ♥ Donating Member | Quote:
As for those people who are important to me who I love dearly believe me they know that I love them, I tell them every chance I get. Just because I don't show it with a gift or card once a year doesn't mean that I love them any less.
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12-14-2014, 07:38 PM | #35 |
Resident Yorkie Nut Donating YT 20K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Texas
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| I am feeling terribly guilty this year about cards. I went through that last year as well. Just seems I cannot ever catch up with things. I love to dress my pups up and take pics; and actually had planned to do another one this year with them and me like I did three years ago. Everyone loved it....but it is getting rather late for this. I just don't know.....
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12-14-2014, 07:50 PM | #36 | |
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12-14-2014, 08:39 PM | #37 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: Indiana
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| Ok ....for me.... I can relate to a lot of what you all are saying as I also can be quite the procrastinator ...putting things off till it was too late was a cop out for me and only made me feel more inadequate.....I remember as a kid back in the 50's my grandparents having the family holiday dinners and what great memories are those. I continue that tradition and will for as long as I'm able for my own grandchildren to cherish. It s getting harder each year and seeing some "social " problems between daughter in laws in buying for each other's kids have made me wonder "why". If you can't do it out of love and excitement and have fun with it....forget it. So this year, today in fact , it was christmas just for the grandparents for our grandkids. (Grown kids made us stop buying for them years ago). Now it comes down to lists to complete and that is it...not as much fun as it used to be going to store and finding what I think they might like. Yes it's changing times I guess ...think I'll just get online at Walgreens and make my Christmas card from photos of my fur babies , get them same day and in the mail.....now that's fun.... Happy holidays... |
12-14-2014, 10:33 PM | #38 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Maui, Hawaii
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| Oh, believe me the traditional (although commercial) Christmas spirit is alive and well in my house. My house is decorated, cookies being baked, presents overflowing under the tree, mostly for my 10 year old granddaughter who will appreciate and remember every single thing, fabulous food has been planned and friends and neighbors will be coming over throughout the week. My daughter and I have been buying tons of toys at Ross for the past month, and she will take her SUV full of toys to the local Women's shelter, where kids we will never know, who's moms are unable to get them anything will get a wonderful Christmas. And the checks that I have decided not to send to certain individuals this year will be given instead to the Maui Food Bank, the Women's Shelter and the Salvation Army. And even though temps will be in the 80's, it's all good, we have plenty of spirit here.
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12-14-2014, 10:43 PM | #39 | |
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12-15-2014, 12:43 AM | #40 | ||
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Good for you! If everyone viewed Christmas as a time to celebrate and cherish things they felt were important, in the way they felt them to be important, then I believe the spirit of Christmas would truly return. Commercialism has ruined what Christmas should be which is a time for reflection and appreciating those close to you and everything you HAVE ..not appreciating or anticipating what you MAY receive from people whom you have no relationship with etc.... SO HAPPY for your revelation! Quote:
You needn't justify yourself at all... I completely agree with you. No one has anything against sharing (including me) but when it's not truly sharing, when it's trying to get cards out the door cuz your mom or MIL taught you that was what you SHOULD do, or you buy the kids the most expensive presents because you feel like a failure if you don't (cuz the card company's or the commercials tell you so...) that is the failure of Christmas as a vast majority now know it.. Therefore, share and acknowledge and have Christmas in your own way! If that means no Christmas cards (as it will for me) then so be it... As it is, my English husband is making his American wife (me) an Australian themed BBQ for Christmas Eve and we will have Christmas dinner at his parents. There will be no gifts and no cards but there will be love and that is what is important...not someone else's view on how I should celebrate my holiday. I grew out of caring what people thought about me when I do not conform to their thoughts at about the age of 4.. Welcome to freedom!!!!! Last edited by SirTeddykins; 12-15-2014 at 12:45 AM. | ||
12-15-2014, 12:58 AM | #41 | |
aka ♥SquishyFace♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: n/a
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I have always rebelled against social norms if they didn't make sense to me and that is why I went to a school for the "gifted and talented" with emphasis on science from the time I was 9 but was never asked out to the prom...who wants to date the science nerd lol! It's okay, though. Albert Einstein was invited to parties whereby he allegedly forgot to wear pants. He shunned convention. He's my hero. I'll toast him with some eggnog at the BBQ and may even send HIM a card! How's that for bucking tradition! | |
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