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crystalsmom · 07-11-2014, 03:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Amazing Yorkies

Must be juicy.. LOL
Did she know it was in confidence? I'm blonde.. so I need to be told it's in confidence. I'm also old, so usually I've forgotten what you've told me anyway.. LMAO

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gemy · 07-11-2014, 09:30 AM

The hardest for me is when I need to keep a secret from my husband. THat is a secret a mutual friend has told me. Essentially I tell my husband everything or most of everything, but sometimes he might ask do you know what is going on with person A/B or C, and I do.... but... I usually respond yes but it was told to me in confidence....

I was a blonde at one time, now I am just grey

and I like to forget what folks tell me, safer that way as I can't blurt out confidences.

And some matters are just very very private, and if you want to keep them that way, tell only your therapist or as some-one said your animals

dawn27 · 07-13-2014, 01:32 PM

I must say that there is only one person in my life that I will ever tell a secret mine or someone else's to and that is my partner, soul mate and dearest hubby. Not everything but a lot of things. Simply because he could care less, he just sits there and nodes his head. I don't like to create drama in my life and by telling him I know that it is safe with him and that he would never ever repeat it. So in my eyes I am a very trustworthy person, but am I ?

intilis · 07-13-2014, 07:13 PM

I was voted "least likely to keep a secret" in HS.... but that's really not true. My problem is that I am very open, and don't really keep many secrets about myself. I always tell friends that they need to tell me if something is not to be repeated. If I'm asked to keep a secret I always do (even though it's REALLY hard for me lol!). As a result, I am the office "therapist", and I know A LOT of secrets lol.

lynzy420 · 07-14-2014, 02:57 AM

I work in a hugeeee building, 17 years, I am an advocate, Italian, the former Mayor and his info guy nicknamed me "Bertha the vault", people come to me and tell me things all the time, sometimes it's things I don't want to know! There have been a few times were I was so torn, but I never repeat. But there are times armed with certain knowledge I am better able to help others.

GuinnessStout · 07-18-2014, 05:28 AM

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Originally Posted by lynzy420

I work in a hugeeee building, 17 years, I am an advocate, Italian, the former Mayor and his info guy nicknamed me "Bertha the vault", people come to me and tell me things all the time, sometimes it's things I don't want to know! There have been a few times were I was so torn, but I never repeat. But there are times armed with certain knowledge I am better able to help others.

Same here in my company..... everybody knows I know tons of info but I will never spill... heck at times I know even more than a lot of upper a managers above me.

07-11-2014, 09:30 AM	#32
gemy YT 2000 Club Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Huntsville,Ont,Canaada Posts: 12,340 Blog Entries: 2	The hardest for me is when I need to keep a secret from my husband. THat is a secret a mutual friend has told me. Essentially I tell my husband everything or most of everything, but sometimes he might ask do you know what is going on with person A/B or C, and I do.... but... I usually respond yes but it was told to me in confidence.... I was a blonde at one time, now I am just grey and I like to forget what folks tell me, safer that way as I can't blurt out confidences. And some matters are just very very private, and if you want to keep them that way, tell only your therapist or as some-one said your animals __________________ Razzle and Dara. Our clan. RIP Karma Dec 24th 2004-July 14 2013 RIP Zoey Jun9 th 2008-May 12 2012. RIP Magic,Mar 26 2006July 1st 2018

07-13-2014, 01:32 PM	#33
dawn27 2+2=4 X the Love ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Bean Town Ohio Posts: 9,456 Blog Entries: 1	I must say that there is only one person in my life that I will ever tell a secret mine or someone else's to and that is my partner, soul mate and dearest hubby. Not everything but a lot of things. Simply because he could care less, he just sits there and nodes his head. I don't like to create drama in my life and by telling him I know that it is safe with him and that he would never ever repeat it. So in my eyes I am a very trustworthy person, but am I ? __________________ Mommy to: Quincy, & Ruby Bella / Miah & Brandi Gone but Never Forgotten Visit: Bella Dawns for all of your Custom Pet Wear needs.

07-13-2014, 07:13 PM	#34
intilis YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Sayreville, NJ, and Stuart Fl, Posts: 881	I was voted "least likely to keep a secret" in HS.... but that's really not true. My problem is that I am very open, and don't really keep many secrets about myself. I always tell friends that they need to tell me if something is not to be repeated. If I'm asked to keep a secret I always do (even though it's REALLY hard for me lol!). As a result, I am the office "therapist", and I know A LOT of secrets lol. __________________ Lori ,Phoebe , Stanley , Joey ,Tink RIP.

07-14-2014, 02:57 AM	#35
lynzy420 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: USA Posts: 7,652	I work in a hugeeee building, 17 years, I am an advocate, Italian, the former Mayor and his info guy nicknamed me "Bertha the vault", people come to me and tell me things all the time, sometimes it's things I don't want to know! There have been a few times were I was so torn, but I never repeat. But there are times armed with certain knowledge I am better able to help others. __________________ The Above advice/comments/reviews are my personal opinions based on my own experience/education/investigation and research and you can take them any way you want to......Or NOT!!!